Bridesmaid, 31, hanged herself after struggling to cope with seeing her friends get married...

[Bunchy Carter]

At least he did not leave her friend hanging at the alter

 

[Taadow]

That's two...

 

[The M.I.C.]

Why are you asking me this?

You've piqued my curiosity.

No ill-will.. just wondering.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

You've piqued my curiosity.

No ill-will.. just wondering.

Oh....well honestly I haven't really given that much thought. I'm just trying to live my life for as long as I can as happily as I can and look out for those I care about and hopefully not screw anyone over while doing it .

 

[Red Shield]

Don't go chasing waterfalls.. please stick to the rivers and the lakes that you're used to



she moved too fast

 

[Citi Trends]

some of yall coli females' future if yall dont get it togeher

 

[Cabbage Patch]

Shorty was cute for a white broad...

And she wouldnt have given you the time of day. Chew on that for a moment.

Also she suicided after a drunken threesome was declined.

2 to 1 her girlfriends also only got married to be able to say theyre married. Birds of a feather flock together.

Getting rid of the drinking and random sex would have helped. Expanding her dating pool also would have helped. If all else failed she could have paid a matriage broker.

 

[duncanthetall]

Damn. That's sad shyt. My downstairs neighbor is a 29 year old white chick who is actually one of my closest friends right now. But she is going through some shyt that sounds kinda like what this broad was going through but not as dramatic. Its sad how some females get when it comes to shyt like this or "finding the one".

I've yet to find a female I want to spend more than 48 hours at a time with

 

[2stainz]

Shorty was cute for a white broad....she couldnt find nobody

nah, she just couldnt find nobody that she WANTED

 

[MalikX]

And she wouldnt have given you the time of day. Chew on that for a moment.

Also she suicided after a drunken threesome was declined.

2 to 1 her girlfriends also only got married to be able to say theyre married. Birds of a feather flock together.

Getting rid of the drinking and random sex would have helped. Expanding her dating pool also would have helped. If all else failed she could have paid a matriage broker.

I only feel bad because she killed herself....I know EXACTLY what kinda broad she was....I'm just being respectful

 

[MalikX]

Damn. That's sad shyt. My downstairs neighbor is a 29 year old white chick who is actually one of my closest friends right now. But she is going through some shyt that sounds kinda like what this broad was going through but not as dramatic. Its sad how some females get when it comes to shyt like this or "finding the one".

I've yet to find a female I want to spend more than 48 hours at a time with

yea....this white girl at my job likes talking to me about her dating life. i dont know why....i never ask but, she just blurts shyt out.

she was upset for days because her ex boyfriend came back into her life after ten years, and then ghosted her after getting her hopes up (he smashed, i guess).

she's 34 years old and said she thought she'd been married by now. she aint go too much deeper into it but, i knew it really bothered her. shyt is sad

 

[Juggalo Fred]

Well she was a 31 year old white women she was already on the downhill slope
RIP tho

I seem dudes wife worse much older

 

[The M.I.C.]

Oh....well honestly I haven't really given that much thought. I'm just trying to live my life for as long as I can as happily as I can and look out for those I care about and hopefully not screw anyone over while doing it .

The point I was getting to was that for some people, their identity is vested in their careers and/or superficial things.

Think about it from a certain perspective, I wake up every morning and go to work. I make my employer thousands upon thousands of dollars for my labor, they're definitely getting the lion's share of the rewards of my productivity but I make a very reasonable wage. Day after day, it's the same routine.. 12 hour days, on call, etc.. Something's missing, I'm happy in my career but I feel it's not enough. I see my friends.. They're marrying, they're in sustained relationships.. there's a warmth that comes from them now that is strange to me but I feel that joy, I want it for myself but how? I've been in school for so long, working so long to get to the top that I really don't know how to really establish myself within a relationship.. I'm frustrated but I am OK, I guess.

If I think about it, I've devoted myself to my work but when think about the thought of me laying in my deathbed and I think of the people I've impacted.. Will they come to comfort me in my last hours? Will the company that I've devoted years of my life to, made hundreds of thousands of dollars for..will they give a damn? Of course, my kin are always there but the thought of descending into the grave without leaving a tangible legacy would terrify me. No children, no spouse.. None to carry my memory or blood beyond my death. I'm speaking in hypotheticals but imagine getting older and wanting this but being frustrated by your inability to accomplish this for whatever reason.. Desperation can sometimes become inescapable.

This is why I ask folks what is it that you want to do on this Earth, what do you want to leave behind? Beyond a career and security.. What else is there? Money get spent, tombstones get whited to a point where names fade. Do you want to die alone or with no one (such a child, spouse, etc..) to fully cherish and/or pass off your memory to their kids?

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

White women problems

 

[Action Mike]

Sad how gender expectations, cast down upon us by the patriarchy, are beginning to affect us more and more as a society. If we were to do away with such expectations, and just let people live according to their own interests--and not the ones that society associates with their genitals--then we'd all be so much more happy in certain aspects of our lives. Basically, live for you and only you.

When people irl around you getting married, kids etc it's kinda hard to say to yourself "I'm doing me"

Loneliness is real