Bridesmaid, 31, hanged herself after struggling to cope with seeing her friends get married...

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in those 5 years since her last relationship, im sure dudes probably hit on her all the time.

She probably turned down every guy who hit on her. I bet she was expecting some brad pitt. bytch, you aint worth it. good riddance

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probably was on that no nikkas BS

it said her ex smashed and bounced the following morning.......sheesh
 

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this shyt is sad, RIP to this woman

i truly believe this digital age with everyone being connected at all times is the problem, people constantly feigning happiness and attempting to portray perfect images on social media definitely have effects mentally on others and when you add in these unnecessary gender-based societal expectations this is the result

all that being said though killing yourself should never be an option, most of the time things get better and you learn to find happiness even if the outcome of things is different from what you were initially hoping for
 

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The point I was getting to was that for some people, their identity is vested in their careers and/or superficial things.

Think about it from a certain perspective, I wake up every morning and go to work. I make my employer thousands upon thousands of dollars for my labor, they're definitely getting the lion's share of the rewards of my productivity but I make a very reasonable wage. Day after day, it's the same routine.. 12 hour days, on call, etc.. Something's missing, I'm happy in my career but I feel it's not enough. I see my friends.. They're marrying, they're in sustained relationships.. there's a warmth that comes from them now that is strange to me but I feel that joy, I want it for myself but how? I've been in school for so long, working so long to get to the top that I really don't know how to really establish myself within a relationship.. I'm frustrated but I am OK, I guess.

If I think about it, I've devoted myself to my work but when think about the thought of me laying in my deathbed and I think of the people I've impacted.. Will they come to comfort me in my last hours? Will the company that I've devoted years of my life to, made hundreds of thousands of dollars for..will they give a damn? Of course, my kin are always there but the thought of descending into the grave without leaving a tangible legacy would terrify me. No children, no spouse.. None to carry my memory or blood beyond my death. I'm speaking in hypotheticals but imagine getting older and wanting this but being frustrated by your inability to accomplish this for whatever reason.. Desperation can sometimes become inescapable.

This is why I ask folks what is it that you want to do on this Earth, what do you want to leave behind? Beyond a career and security.. What else is there? Money get spent, tombstones get whited to a point where names fade. Do you want to die alone or with no one (such a child, spouse, etc..) to fully cherish and/or pass off your memory to their kids?
Wow this shyt just made me feel mad depressed and I could have sworn my room got darker :mjcry:
 

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She dumped him and thought she could find better
buying into this "all women are special snowflakes" gynocentrism
5 years later after riding maaaaaaaaaaaad d!ck .....
All her friends are getting married and having babies

She doubles back.... Breh hits it and bounces :jawalrus:

Her one shot at "happiness" aka joining her friends is gone:manny:

Her looks have hit the wall ...she's stuck with her cats and dildos :dame:

Ex new girl probably in the cut like.......


R.I,P to that girl you used to see...those days are oooooooover :pachaha:
 
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