Bridesmaid, 31, hanged herself after struggling to cope with seeing her friends get married...

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Didn't some other white chick over in England who was 29 about to turn 30 just do the same shyt cuz she wasn't married?
 

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Stuff like this make me wonder, she wasn't some ugh moe. She could have def found her a boyfriend or husband if she wanted.

If anything she probably had certain criteria that wasn't getting met and she took her life.


I have a really really hard time believing she couldn't find a decent man to marry.

Maybe not a hot guy, or rich or both....but she could have found a guy. The pressures to get married seems like more of a keeping up with the jones issue than a " no one will love me issue"
That's how it is in most cases, that's why marriage is such a sham. Only a small minority do it for the right reasons. The rest is just to stunt. So that when your friends talk about their relationship, you can say you have one too. But a lot of times people will act like everything is fine when the relationship is pure shyt, but people get pressured to keep up with them.

This woman could have found a guy, even the most unattractive women find guys, but thankfully she had standards. It is better to commit that than settle for some loser. There is nothing wrong with having high standards, it's better to have high standards than be some chump who will tolerate an idiot just to keep up with friends.
:yeshrug: Dude probably moved on long after the break up, which I'm sure she initiated. She most likely curved every stand up guy that came her way, hoping her ex would realize "his mistake" and when dude didn't come around she tried a last ditch effort.

RIP to her but this is a sign that women should stop trying to hold out for someone who may never come along.
Nah nikka, it's better for women to hold out for someone worth it than settle for some lame. Settling is the saddest shyt there is. She prolly made the right decision by committing that. Why should she hook up with a chump just so she wouldn't be alone :dahell: fukk that.

Ladies, NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS. It's better to be "alone" or even dead than have some fakkit get to fukk you just so you can tell your girls u got a nikka. Don't give the chumps the satisfaction, there are hella losers who figure some desperate woman will settle for them. Don't be that desperate bytch.
 

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She invited the unnamed man and his friends back to the flat she owned for further drinks but became upset when he left the following day - leading her to believe they would never be getting back together.

Dude smashed and dashed and left on some Patrick Swayze shyt. She got fed a dream but probably had a train run on her :manny:



RIP to Doe B
 

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She thought if she gave him and his homeboys the D-Rose treatment, he'd come back:mjlol:
What dude gon marry you after you let him and his boys run a train on you, she was booksmart, but still a stupid b*tch. :heh:
She invited the unnamed man and his friends back to the flat she owned for further drinks but became upset when he left the following day - leading her to believe they would never be getting back together.

Dude smashed and dashed and left on some Patrick Swayze shyt. She got fed a dream but probably had a train run on her :manny:



RIP to Doe B
 

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That's sad. There are wayyyy too many women out here placing their self-worth on their ability to have a man and get married. 31 is too young to be thinking your world is over just because you don't have those things, smh. R.I.P to her.
i dunno man my mom got married by 33 and had me 35, she keeps telling me she wished got married earlier someitmes
 

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as soon as I read the thread title I knew it was in the UK :mjlol: IDk these kinds of stories are always out there, and the same website reports them.

BTW the way they said "she lived alone with her cat" just sounds pathetic :dead: Could have said she lived alone, had a cat, but nope, the cat was a room mate :smh:
 
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Sad how gender expectations, cast down upon us by the patriarchy, are beginning to affect us more and more as a society. If we were to do away with such expectations, and just let people live according to their own interests--and not the ones that society associates with their genitals--then we'd all be so much more happy in certain aspects of our lives. Basically, live for you and only you.
Aww come on knuckles.

She was not emotionally stable. How do I know? 5 years later she's still after an ex, duke left in the AM, wouldn't be surprised if she threw herself on him. She's telling ppl she's unstable via pics and statements like I feel like dying.... Which she prolly meant in the moment but not really. Pretty clear she wasn't all there.
 

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its true when they turn 30 they get desperate

SO MANY of my wife's unmarried friends (college educated) asking me if I got any single friends. I tell them about my single homeboys who I grew up with (not the college homies) and they get :mad:

All my college homies are already taken. :yeshrug:

My tru nikkaz still single and "keepin it real". Her friends don't want them. :laff:
 

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There was something else behind this story but that journalist is trying to make it seem like it's only because she wasn't married . She couldn't cope with a relationship that ended five years ago, she said herself that she has demons, she sends pics of herself crying. I think she has mental issues that were exacerbated by alcohol. Probably borderline or bipolar which can drive others away from wanting to be with you. In other words her mental issues and suicide didn't come from being a 30 year old spinster; her mental issues caused her spinster status. But I bet someone here is going to blame feminism (didn't read entire thread)
 

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Ladies, NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS. It's better to be "alone" or even dead than have some fakkit get to fukk you just so you can tell your girls u got a nikka. Don't give the chumps the satisfaction, there are hella losers who figure some desperate woman will settle for them. Don't be that desperate bytch.


It's funny you say that... i never believed it, especially in this modern era.


My girl (30) mentioned to me back in college a couple of her friends just want to get done with college and live that matriarch lifestyle (in this case, just getting hitched and having kids; the deal was... it didn't matter WHO IT WAS WITH, AS LONG AS THEY ACHIEVED THE TITLE OF BEING A "MRS." AND HAVING KIDS).


I'm like... wtf? Just like that? This whole idea of, i guess, to just want to settle down immediately after college with the first person that got down on both and proposed just seem so antiquated and hurried. But then i thought about this current, SWIPE-WEST-TO-EAST, social media-laden society we live in and when you consider that most women just want to be career women with thot-like philosophies... it's actually quite a noble, albeit archaic, mindset (i guess the disney effect still had some residual effect from these 80's babies).


If people "Lower their standards", so to speak... then let them. People will only learn through trial, error and experience. For some people... it won't work to jump the gun to prematurely rid themselves of societal pressures or cater to the mantra of supposed to "do something because it's what's expected and norm"...


But who are we to penalize people cuz they actually have genuine notions of being hitched? Not necessarily pandering to their social media feeds and impressing their kin and co., but have true intentions of just wanting to "settle" and having a family. I'm sure there are still some left who feel that way... adults whom are legitimately responsible and mature enough to want to extend their bloodlines with the motive to procreate and produce offspring from a cultivated and loving union. No Gabrielle.


Now those that do it strictly for the rude and crass agenda of stunting... i wish those people what they deserve. This is why i don't have any social media accounts because the amount of it i hear about it online through people i DO know with those online vanity pages... it's enough to make you wanna hurl and lose absolute utter faith in humanity as the tasteless and superficial displays of self-absorption and narcissism are at full display... all for the sake of acquiring temporary likes.


And as this continues to inevitably thrive in our world... we can only feel lament for the kids that are subjected to having been conceived for social media props (but i guess one can argue, it beats the hell out of being hatched out of wed-lock).


Back to the story at hand. Can't really say shiit about something i don't feel bad for. First world white woman problems... now they no longer exist because she took the easy way out. The afterlife has places for her.


When you care take for a person who would have wanted nothing but to be able to eat and live a full life... i have zero sympathy for these fukkin' idiots who take life for granted, then throw it away cuz your entitlement didn't grant you what petty shiit you wanted. Get the fukk outta hea. I'm sure the grim reaper is blowing her back out as i type this.


Scyth on one hand, gripping her after-life ass on the other. Stroking the pity out of her.





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