Bridesmaid, 31, hanged herself after struggling to cope with seeing her friends get married...

[StickStickly]

She didnt marry the rich, wealthy, famous, hot guy who would make her ''girl friends'' jealous and envious as fukk. She wanted to have a better husband than her friends, saw that at her age it was extremely unlikely, so she killed herself.

She wanted to stunt most likely. Vanity and a strong competitive nature, both pushed her to commit that suicide option.

That's a lot of projecting. It sounds like she was hung up on her ex, saw him again, triggered some emotional pain or disorder and killed herself. How are you getting that she was vain? From your experiences with other women?

 

[Serious]

31

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

i dunno man my mom got married by 33 and had me 35, she keeps telling me she wished got married earlier someitmes

That's cool for your mom but I'm sure I wouldn't feel that way.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

And I still look good

 

[old_timer]

wow, so many posters are incredibly insightful about the problems of some stranger 1000 miles away
stating the diagnosis and solution in a couple of pithy lines
even posters who present as being age 18-22 "mysteriously" become experts on the problems of the 30-40 crowd

but need to discuss a problem impacting your life??
it's UNLIMITED posts in repetitious cycles
barely inching forward, if growth is perceivable at all
with no resolution in sight
..or broadside polemics against society
long on impotent rage but short on strategy

 

[Bless't]

She didnt marry the rich, wealthy, famous, hot guy who would make her ''girl friends'' jealous and envious as fukk. She wanted to have a better husband than her friends, saw that at her age it was extremely unlikely, so she killed herself.

She wanted to stunt most likely. Vanity and a strong competitive nature, both pushed her to commit that suicide option.

Facebook was most likely the culprit.

 

[Family Lives Matter]

Get married brehs
This is what marriage will do to your loved ones
at these selfish married couples

 

[Diondon]

So none of her boyfriends hung around?

 

[Renegade47]

 

[Cynic]

That's how it is in most cases, that's why marriage is such a sham. Only a small minority do it for the right reasons. The rest is just to stunt. So that when your friends talk about their relationship, you can say you have one too. But a lot of times people will act like everything is fine when the relationship is pure shyt, but people get pressured to keep up with them.

This woman could have found a guy, even the most unattractive women find guys, but thankfully she had standards. It is better to commit that than settle for some loser. There is nothing wrong with having high standards, it's better to have high standards than be some chump who will tolerate an idiot just to keep up with friends.
Nah nikka, it's better for women to hold out for someone worth it than settle for some lame. Settling is the saddest shyt there is. She prolly made the right decision by committing that. Why should she hook up with a chump just so she wouldn't be alone fukk that.

Ladies, NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS. It's better to be "alone" or even dead than have some fakkit get to fukk you just so you can tell your girls u got a nikka. Don't give the chumps the satisfaction, there are hella losers who figure some desperate woman will settle for them. Don't be that desperate bytch.

If anything women need to humble themselves and stop holding out for
the over 6ft, 6 pack millionaire graduates with a full head of hair that are
safe but also spontaneous and packing 10 inches but don't see any other women.

Hypergamy is real and all these regular chicks are ignoring the 80%
thinking they deserve the top 10% of guys and don't settle until it's too late


Your advice will lead to more profits for cat adoption agencies and duracell.

She already met her match 5 years prior but wanted to have fun...


Now that she's been smutted out ...she tried to come back

 

[Bless't]

The point I was getting to was that for some people, their identity is vested in their careers and/or superficial things.

Think about it from a certain perspective, I wake up every morning and go to work. I make my employer thousands upon thousands of dollars for my labor, they're definitely getting the lion's share of the rewards of my productivity but I make a very reasonable wage. Day after day, it's the same routine.. 12 hour days, on call, etc.. Something's missing, I'm happy in my career but I feel it's not enough. I see my friends.. They're marrying, they're in sustained relationships.. there's a warmth that comes from them now that is strange to me but I feel that joy, I want it for myself but how? I've been in school for so long, working so long to get to the top that I really don't know how to really establish myself within a relationship.. I'm frustrated but I am OK, I guess.

If I think about it, I've devoted myself to my work but when think about the thought of me laying in my deathbed and I think of the people I've impacted.. Will they come to comfort me in my last hours? Will the company that I've devoted years of my life to, made hundreds of thousands of dollars for..will they give a damn? Of course, my kin are always there but the thought of descending into the grave without leaving a tangible legacy would terrify me. No children, no spouse.. None to carry my memory or blood beyond my death. I'm speaking in hypotheticals but imagine getting older and wanting this but being frustrated by your inability to accomplish this for whatever reason.. Desperation can sometimes become inescapable.

This is why I ask folks what is it that you want to do on this Earth, what do you want to leave behind? Beyond a career and security.. What else is there? Money get spent, tombstones get whited to a point where names fade. Do you want to die alone or with no one (such a child, spouse, etc..) to fully cherish and/or pass off your memory to their kids?

Dang breh.

Got me sitting at my desk like...

 

[SheriffOG]

Y'all saying she pretty...she aight but I seen better looking cac chicks. I guess it's that white privilege. Chris Rock said that even Rosie O'Donnell can go to a black club and pull a lot of niqqas and she don't like men. That says a lot.

Anyway it seems that even though she was fun loving and extroverted...she had internal issues that her outgoing personality covers up. She was a manager at her age and that's an achievement right there. Plus she had a job so she could've easily found a man. And if she liked bruhs...she would've raked in so much with how c00nish our folks are. She probably just curved a lot if not all the men who approached her. She is too established and eligible to have a problem finding a man. A white woman with education, gainfully employed, has own place, and extroverted with lots of friends and love to have fun and drink. All this would've made her desirable. She must have been depressed and it's probably clinical depression and her friends weddings probably triggered it more to a dangerous level.

RIP....I feel for her family and friends.

Lesson to all...don't let societal pressures get to u. Don't let ur family, friends and coworkers successes make u feel inferior or that u behind in life. Don't even let social media and ur friend and all who post pics making their lives look perfect fukk ur self esteem up. And don't let work stress u out. It's just a job....yes we need a job but don't let the stress kill u.

 

[Bless't]

this shyt is sad, RIP to this woman

i truly believe this digital age with everyone being connected at all times is the problem, people constantly feigning happiness and attempting to portray perfect images on social media definitely have effects mentally on others and when you add in these unnecessary gender-based societal expectations this is the result

all that being said though killing yourself should never be an option, most of the time things get better and you learn to find happiness even if the outcome of things is different from what you were initially hoping for

 

[mrken12]

She sounded crazy as hell. If she married someone, she'd be one of those crazy Lorena Bobbitt chicks.

 

[#1 pick]

in those 5 years since her last relationship, im sure dudes probably hit on her all the time.

She probably turned down every guy who hit on her. I bet she was expecting some brad pitt. bytch, you aint worth it. good riddance

I see why you here, you just as ruthless as most of us brehs if not more.

Offing yourself is never a solution.