Bruh, if that's the case, the bar is still low. It's like nobody cares about character and compatibility. Looking back, the ones with "sh*t together" gave me a hard time. When I got out of grad school, I dated 4 women who had huge houses ALL ALONE, their salaries ranged from 85k - 120K. They were all attractive, stubborn, indecisive, and didnt' listen. 2 of them still call me, 1 passed away, and 1 pushing 40 thought she would be married with kids by now, but she too feminist, and she's been on and off with some latino cat that stop dealing with her.
I prefer the 2 I dated that were on a budget and still lived with their parents/family. The were kind and easy to get along with. I kept one of them long term.