Could you date a person that's slightly slow or not smart?
StickStickly
Superstar
No way in hell. Id rather date an average nerd with a high iq than an attractive dumb man.
Seems like you have a typeAll of my exes were slow. Each and every one of them.
I have done it. It is so frustrating. I once went on a nature walk with an ex and he kept trying to point out animals. Nan thing he pointed out was an animal.
Him: LOOK! There is a fish
Me: That's a leaf.
Him: LOOK at the bird.
Me: That's a plastic bag.
Him: No it's a bird. It's red!
Me: It's a red plastic bag.
Him: Ohhhhh
Not for all but I've noticed some of my "not so bright" ex's being the best looking one's, definitely above average. They are usually clever or slick mouthed, which I assumed came from not needing much in life as their looks made life easier. It was usually small bits of knowledge you'd find out they didn't know and be like 
, then her pretty face takes her clothes off a crazy body and it's like "
i'll teach her basic world happenings a little at a time, fukk it"
, then her pretty face takes her clothes off a crazy body and it's like "i'll teach her basic world happenings a little at a time, fukk it"
Yeah, I could if she was aware of her shortcomings. If not,
Solo ✧✦✧
King of the eXoticals. "FIRsT and LAst wARNiNg"
Not really. Being bright in some areas and not so bright in other areas is understandable and mostly normal to me, but just being straight up dumb would be a hassle to deal with.
saw it as a compliment. 
Rick Fox at UNC
All Star
Saying this is like saying there are women in the military or women who compete in MMA (or the WNBA or whatever). Like yea, Miesha Tate can probably tapout a fair number of cats, but if a dude decided to lift weights and train striking/bjj for six months he would wipe the floor with her.
There are men who can't vibe with people, but far more men have social skills than women. In my experience, men who can't vibe with people were raised by single moms or picked on from an early age, and guys who channel that pain end up turning into geniuses like Prince.
In general, men are funnier, more creative, and more genuinely interesting. Those jokes, that swagger, that bop, that lingo---all that comes from men.
Women are better at reading subtle signs and tend to communicate using passive-aggression and snark.
I mean, both energies are necessary but lets not pretend like they are equal.
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O.T.I.S.
Veteran
Depends... If she looks good and stays in her lane (meaning she knows she's not the smartest chick walking but she never tries to get in mental sparring sessions or wants her opinion heard in regards to shyt she doesn't know) then yeah
I had an ex who swore up and down that she knew everything and was usually wrong. It was annoying
I had an ex who swore up and down that she knew everything and was usually wrong. It was annoying
First of all, u not making best use of analogies. I'm talking about people skills and that's not gender specific. U brought up example of a female martial artist/wrestler and how she may tap out some men but if a man with the normal strength of a man works out...he can body her. That doesn't have anything to do with social skills.
Good social skills come from ur natural personality along with social conditioning and environment. This doesn't have anything to do with being a male or female. There are extroverted males and females as well as males and females who are introverted or in between (ambiverts). There are some women out here who have excellent interpersonal skills along with confidence but their femininity isn't in question. U trying to make social skills a man's trait when it isn't only applicable to males and folks with high testosterone.
There are women out here who are funny, creative and interesting. Those characteristics aren't gender specific either. I could understand if u meant a more dominant aggressive persona being tied to masculinity but being social, funny, interesting, creative and gregarious??? U reaching far with this one bruh.
Both male and female energies are necessary and generally aren't the same but social skills, being funny, creative and interesting doesn't correspond to a person's gender. For example, there are queens of comedy just like there are kings of comedy. All the males and females are funny in their own ways...but we humans and have preferences so we may favor one comedian over another...but they all are entertaining.
SeveroDrgnfli
Ain't nobody tryin to get indicted.
Nope. A girl has to be perfect for me to tolerate her being dumb. Tolerating her doesn't mean I'd smash. I'd flirt with her but I wouldn't take it further than that.
Quiet Magician
Superstar
Bullshyt. The dumber the girl the easier to smash. You don't have to be a genius to know the less work the the better the payoff in the long run.
Seems like you have a type
There's been an uptick in autism cases. We're bound to date a few
Anyone who says "no" obviously has limited dating experience.
Even the smartest girls I've dated are slow and silly when it comes to having a personality and understanding this relationship game. Women just do not develop solid social skills. I've had master's holders, english majors, linguist, and doctoral candidates say and do some of theeee dumbest shyt.
When it comes to relationships, a girl with doctor before her name is just as smart as the one who works at Burger King.
You reaching. I think you mean common sense not social skills.
Women are naturally better communicators unless they are terribly shy.
