CRINGEWORTHY: Photo of a Black Father, Grandfather and Son kissing each other forehead.

[Stuntone]

Toxic Masculinity

 

[Kaypain]

You sound like a faggit. Single mother home right?


My dad taught me how to shot, fish, helped me renovate my house.


You dumb moist c00ns love symbolism with no substance.

nikka fukk you and your dad. Your come up aint the Gospel on how black families should be raised. Worry about your own shyt and stop acting like a bytch ass thot

 

[Kaypain]

I don't thiink they're soft, i just don't agree with all the ppl in here saying that this is the way a black father shows love to their kid. Because if that's the case, all these nikkas who hold and kiss their kid then dip out are "good fathers" by default. And we definitely can't tell from a photo if a nikka is a good father. Ppl are overestimating a picture. Saying this makes a man a good father. No, what a man builds and passes down to his kids makes him a good father, regardless of if he's "affectionate" or not.

Then why are yall sitting here turning this photo... actually know what. I'm done with this shyt. Yall carry on

 

[TheOriginal]

I get where some dudes in here are coming from though, and it definitely doesn't mean they don't have a loving father. My pops is the main reason i have a business/self employed. He's done more for me than most black fathers did for other black men i know, TBH. My dad started a business and had other forms of income. He hasn't kissed my forehead since i was a baby, he is the type to show his love through other ways. I was also whipping one of the dopest cars in high school because of him. I had the type of shyt upper class cacs and arabs were driving. My grades were good and i worked hard in the business, so it wasn't just "given" to me before someone says that.

But somehow this will devolve into "black fathers who care about their sons kiss them on the forehead", especially by the time it reaches Black Twitter and LSA. Nah...black fathers who care build and pass shyt down to their sons. That's what we need to stress.That's what's important, not staging some kiss photo for social media.

So for all those in here implying it, i don't agree that kissing on the forehead is the only way to be a loving father. Plenty of fathers show their love for their sons through other ways. My dad showed it by building something and teaching me how to run it

I feel you.
A dad can do both, showing love to his son's and at the same time leave something to them.

 

[Stuntone]

nikka fukk you and your dad. Your come up aint the Gospel on how black families should be raised. Worry about your own shyt and stop acting like a bytch ass thot

Don't be mad bcuz I had a good mother that could keep a solid man/ husband. You and your mom have a understanding and not knowing when to STFU problem.

 

[Kaypain]

Don't be mad bcuz I had a good mother that could keep a solid man/ husband. You and your mom have a understanding and not knowing when to STFU problem.

fukk your momma too nikka. That's your problem, you dont know when to stfu and worry about your own. But you out here scraping for photos and bringing them to a forum to fish for daps. Definitely of a thot nikka seeking for attention. Your mother raised a bytch nikka. "I'm from the hood"

 

[Booker T Garvey]

I don’t necessarily see a problem with this, but my pops only kissed me as a baby and it was on my cheek

I thought fathers only kissed their daughters on the forehead too

 

[Stuntone]

fukk your momma too nikka. That's your problem, you dont know when to stfu and worry about your own. But you out here scraping for photos and bringing them to a forum to fish for daps. Definitely of a thot nikka seeking for attention. Your mother raised a bytch nikka. "I'm from the hood"

Why you so upset? You really don't have a father do you?

It hurt seeing all those men going in the back with your moms didn't?




It aint my fault bruh.

 

[Y2Dre]

I'm not with that weird shyt in the OP, but hey do y'all.

Daps and hugs are enough.

We don't gotta be kissing each other's heads.

 

[JahFocus CS]

OP's sentiment is partly what is meant by "toxic masculinity." Why do men have to suppress positive emotions like love and kindness in order to meet some "manly" standard? To love and be kind is to be human.

 

[Kaypain]

Why you so upset? You really don't have a father do you?

It hurt seeing all those men going in the back with your moms didn't?




It aint my fault bruh.

He're me and my father nikka

fukk outa here

Here's FIVE GENERATIONS nikka

try again

 

[Motife43]

OP made it seem like this was gone be something like this

 

[Spliff]

I can't stand attention-whoring men.

...especially the ones shamelessly pandering to the "black love" crowd.

 

[Kaypain]

I can't stand attention-whoring men.

...especially the ones shamelessly pandering to the "black love" crowd.

I can't stand attention-whoring men





...especially the ones shamelessly pandering to the "black gossip" crowd.

 

[Jack Trippa 3z company ho]

I can’t even imagine having the conversation about doing some shyt like this.

It’s extremely corny and hella feminine. Attention whoring.

I honestly don’t think my pops ever kissed me. Maybe when I was a tiny baby but we don’t do that. We shake hands and hug that’s it. And he and I have a great relationship, literally not an arguement in 20 years, we see each other all the time.

Y’all saying this is beautiful blah blah blah either better be women and have been brainwashed that this is a masculine thing to do.

Take a pic of y’all chiliin on the couch, shooting hoops, whatever. Way cooler than this feminine shyt.