One of my best friends dated a Southeast Asian woman.
He said it was the worst relationship he's ever had. He's pretty much the prototype of a guy that they love. About 6'3", comes from a old money/WASPy family, and he has a distinguished military career. He's educated and has a very bright future. He also has a really broad social circle with lots of cool people, two of which post here on the Coli and we all chase chicks together.
In enters crazy. She flew from across the country to meet him because they had a mutual friend on Facebook and she heard he was single. Her family is rich doing tech stuff in Silicon Valley so money didn't seem to be an issue for her. There was something "off" about her when I first met her, but I figured that she was just being weird. She seemed to be desperate to "one-up" everyone in our group with the cool stuff she did, the car she drove, the education she had, or whatever. I still kinda let it go because I figured that she just wanted to look cool in front of a new group of people so I just kinda did the

face and let her keep talking. I figured that if she wanted to flaunt her family money or whatever I'd let her spin her wheels.
Then the fukkery started. She started saying some
really racist stuff about black people and kept looking at my buddy for approval, despite the fact that is pretty vocal against racism. He lowkey kept making the

face and started complaining about it to me when she wasn't around. He was also getting tired of her talking about all the partying and traveling at festivals and in Ibiza and shyt because it was conflicting with her stories about other "cool stuff" she said she was doing like working for the Department of Defense or whatever. It turns out that she had never even gone to law school and that she made it up to try and one up myself at the time (I had just graduated at that point a long time ago). She also had no proof of whatever thing she said she was doing. It threw every story she told about herself into question.
I then asked her what she liked about my friend. Literally everything was superficial, racist, or both. His whiteness, height, his rich family, his career, how he was gonna be this guy who she could show off to her friends upon her 10 year reunion. Really lame shyt that you should probably grow out of if you are really doing that well in life. He eventually got tired of her and dumped her and went back to plowing military groupies in Pacific Beach.
He also pledged to never again date an Asian chick.