
BINGO! When you base your relationship off of a solid foundation then you're set. I had to do a lot of work on myself and still have more of a journey in front of me before I commit to a relationship.
A lot of people don't realize that marriage and relationships aren't like specially crafted storylines in movies where there's the invincible, all-charming, all-knowing white guy in Asia who stomps his way to glory like some sort of demigod. The guys who take advantage of that dynamic are usually losers who
only have their whiteness as a bargaining chip, which is why these chicks get so pissed off and bitter at their decision.
The most annoying are the self-righteous Asian "feminists" who complain about Asian patriarchy and go for white guys as a result, which
completely glosses over the fact that feminist theory goes straight for
WHITE male patriarchy the hardest. But they gotta justify the internalized racism they have by saying dumb shyt like that or, "I don't wanna feel like I'm dating my brother!" Tell me how many women of other races you know that say shyt like that compared to them.
Base your relationships off of fetishes, brehs!