@Matt504
Do you still agree with the views you expressed in this thread?
I personally felt you were being obtuse to support transgender rights without honest thought to reality of how things might potentially play out. To be fair transitionist might agree with the view that I'm espousing. What
@VegasCAC said in this very thread that male genitalia should not be present in women spaces without consent.
A recent thread occurred where proof was shown where women were offended that male genitalia was openly shown to children because of transgender status. In any other circumstance that is exhibitionist pedo behavior but the establishment is forced to defend it.
What say you?
Hey Arris,
I took time to read through the thread from the beginning to refresh myself. In this thread, I made a comparison between reactions, reactions to people being present in spaces where they apparently do not belong. I was not supporting anyone's rights, I was using a comparison to force people to defend their positions so I consequently defended the other position for the sake of argument, not based on my personal feelings.
So, how do I feel about this: I do not believe transgender persons should use the same locker rooms as cis-gender people, these spaces are gendered, and the people using them have an expectation that everyone present will be members of that gender.
You might imagine this as a social contract. Society has agreed that some spaces will be segregated by gender which is based on another agreement about what it means to be a member of a given gender. Introducing persons to these gendered spaces who were assigned one gender at birth yet identify as a different gender later in life breaks one or more of these social contracts.
We're asking a society of people to accept an amendment to a contract that has well defined criteria for what a male or female is and many members of society are rejecting this amendment proposal. I reject this amendment because I can empathize with women not feeling comfortable sharing their spaces with persons who identify as women yet are not women in the classical sense. Whatever uncertainty they might feel is completely valid and shouldn't have to be substantiated further because doing so comes at the risk of demonizing trans-women even if that isn't the original intent. If it's not enough to simply say "I don't feel comfortable", it's not hard to imagine why the next step would be to suggest that there is an inherent threat involved.
I believe that until society can figure out how to navigate there being members of society that don't identify as the genders they were assigned at birth, a possible stop gap solution as it relates to spaces where there's an expectation of privacy could be to introduce a third unisex space.