Fellaz, Console Me and Tell Me A Time When You Realized She Had Moved On

PhonZhi

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and how did it make you feel?

I received this pic/text last night and i cant lie it stung

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Basicly she's my ex and it was a case of "i dont want you, but i dont want anyone else to have you either". Dont get me wrong, i had and still do have feelings for her, but im not ready to settle down and be with 1 woman for the rest of my life. Ive hurt her tremendously in the past with my lies so i refuse to do it again to her or anyone else. Id rather be honest and let her leave. She loves me but i cant be dishonest with her.
We were texting back and forth and i kinda made her mad so she sent that pic to me on some "leave me alone, im busy!!!" shyt. That shyt stung brehs. Had me wanting to

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but i gotta be strong and weather the storm.

Fellaz, how did u feel the 1st time you got confirmation that a woman you still had feelings for had moved on?
 

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It stings at first, but with time, the emotions subside and you can go back to life as normal. I think you have to evaluate what you really want in the long term though, because it's commendable you are being honest that you don't want to settle down right now and don't want to hurt her by leading her on. You also need to consider at what age will you be willing to settle down, because the longer you play the field, the harder it will be to find a decent woman. The last thing you want as a man is to look back in your 30s and realize you passed out on a great woman while you're stuck with the minefield that is modern dating.
 
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