i am sexually attracted to BBWs, but I could never wife one up

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look how unbelievably soft...
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looks like she doing the right thing and slimming down.

I remember in the last thread about this check someone posted her sisters :wow:

That pic (and the others) is (are) shopped and airbrushed. Search your feelings....you know it be true.

I admit that chick in particular looks good (and importantly has a cute face), I've dated several women like that. Some observations:

  • They don't look good naked.
  • The denim and other stiff material clothing makes them look "firm" when to the touch they are squishy and dimply with cellulite.
  • In real life without the shape accentuating poses they look bigger.
  • They have body issues. Will get mad if you mention their looks.
  • Notice how all her tops clothering is extremely tight? She's uncomfortable in that shyt.
  • It's a struggle to keep that weight. Girls go through cycles and when she is "bloated" that time of the month she becomes literally bloated. Over time she will get bigger.

I sympathize with the OP. I like some shape. I got done with a thin chick last night that is "socially acceptable" and I just wasn't really feeling her body in bed. She has a pretty face and is nice to look at in clothing but I felt there wasn't enough to grab on to.
 

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I just wish ppl were able to date whom they are attracted to without being ashamed of it :leostare:

Its a shame how much the media try to portray that a woman isnt a woman if shes shaped like this, weigh this much, or has this type of hair or this complexion :rudy:

Now they're pushing the butt implants with the little waist agenda :beli:

If you like a petite girl, go for her, she is still a woman.

If you like a athletic built girl, go for her, same with thick, big boned, bbw whatever...go for it.

Stop thinking about what others around you will think!
 

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I just wish ppl were able to date whom they are attracted to without being ashamed of it :leostare:

Its a shame how much the media try to portray that a woman isnt a woman if shes shaped like this, weigh this much, or has this type of hair or this complexion :rudy:

Now they're pushing the butt implants with the little waist agenda :beli:

If you like a petite girl, go for her, she is still a woman.

If you like a athletic built girl, go for her, same with thick, big boned, bbw whatever...go for it.

Stop thinking about what others around you will think!
Being a fat b!tch will NEVER be in style.

It on the same level as being an amputee, a leper, or having lots of acne or rotten teeth. Humans are biologically designed to find people in these states repulsive. Sure, there may be some fetishists out there but most normal people flinch/wince at the sight of people in these states. That's because of how each one of them is an outward display of ill health. The same goes for obesity.

It's not just the physical problems with obesity that make it so bad, the mental effects put it over the top. Obesity is a sign of mental instability, irresponsibility, and just a lower intellect overall. It's everything you do not want in a partner. Notice how few of society's winners are dating a hog? Well that's because when a human is doing well they opt not to be partnered with one that isn't. Obesity is a terrible disease. It will NEVER be the optimal way for a person to be.

Also, stop conflating race and obesity. Obesity is a choice/consequence. Your race is a circumstance. I remember when that fat news reporter that was complaining about "bullying" a few months back tried to pull the same sh!t. As if being a Black person is somehow analogous to being a fat-fvck. :pacspit:
 

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Being a fat b!tch will NEVER be in style.

It on the same level as being an amputee, a leper, or having lots of acne or rotten teeth. Humans are biologically designed to find people in these states repulsive. Sure, there may be some fetishists out there but most normal people flinch/wince at the sight of people in these states. That's because of how each one of them is an outward display of ill health. The same goes for obesity.

It's not just the physical problems with obesity that make it so bad, the mental effects put it over the top. Obesity is a sign of mental instability, irresponsibility, and just a lower intellect overall. It's everything you do not want in a partner. Notice how few of society's winners are dating a hog? Well that's because when a human is doing well they opt not to be partnered with one that isn't. Obesity is a terrible disease. It will NEVER be the optimal way for a person to be.

Also, stop conflating race and obesity. Obesity is a choice/consequence. Your race is a circumstance.

I dont have anything against big ppl :yeshrug:

If they choose to eat so what...what is it to me?

I'm still going to live my life.
 

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People talk shyt about people everyday, B :manny:

A fat bytch eating up micky d's aint doing shyt to me. :aicmon:
Trust me, witnessing that, having that sight in your existence is profoundly damaging to a human's soul, especially for a developing mind.

What's even worse is the idea that its okay to live like that. That bullsh!t has made Black women virtually undatable for anyone that's doing all right financially. It's horrible.
 

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Lets not wife up morbidly obese women yall.

Proverbs 23:20-21

Be not among drunkards or among gluttonous eaters of meat, for the drunkard and the glutton will come to poverty, and slumber will clothe them with rags.

Proverbs 23:2

And put a knife to your throat if you are given to appetite.
 

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:wow: This girl got me on sum shallow hal shyt....
I didnt even realize she was a big girl till she told me :damn:
I'm feeling her, she my co-worker
She got me turnt up like a muhfukk for my Bday and :snoop: I guess i told her how i feel about her :dead: I wasnt supposed to do that

She told me I was drunk as fuk and broke my cigarette, so she fixed it for me and I kept telling her she was the 1 for me :russ: :ld::ohhh::ehh::takedat:

Got this shyt on repeat thinking bout her :obama:
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