I Took a Woman Out to Eat This Weekend...it was interesting.

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Tell me more...
I'm all about a dollar

Basically in the process of growing the current business so that it will finance the "real" business which is brand development. Jan/Feb 2017 we will start introducing/testing up to 5 new products a month. From there I have big plans...

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

I've found out, when women don't ask questions to inquire about me, red flags

- They normally aint shyt

- They normally don't have shyt going for them

- They normally don't want a relationship but say they do.

- They normally have trouble picking good dudes..(They can get a dude, but can't keep one to save their life)

- They normally don't pay for anything but "expect" you to be the provider

- They've never traveled anywhere except to Houston or Atlanta for the weekend




It's something that correlates the status of a woman (being if she's wife/gf/jumpoff/aint shyt/) by the number of questions she asked you. Think of all the women that you've dealt. Compare the women that had shown interest in your life to the ones who didn't and the ones who seemed to make it all about them.
For me, the ones that should interest were ok to deal with vs the ones that didn't care and made it all about them, were pretty much aint shyt/I see why you won't ever get a husband types

This is actually pretty damn true in my experience too.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Guh you

What's the business from home if you don't mind my asking? I'm thinking about working for myself but doing real estate though...

Arbitrage. I sell on Ebay. I'm not doing anything that a lot of people aren't doing but I just do it better.

 

[NigerianDonDada]

thread threw me off

 

[Abayo]

Obviously I am asking from a dating prospective. If I don't date women then why would I know how they act on a date? Besides my friends aren't typical so I don't expect them to represent a typical dating experience especially when I am not dating them.

You're not making sense bruh
If you treat/get treated by friends then it's basically like a date except it's not romantic like you said
So unless you don't have any girlfriends you should know???
you're making this harder than it has to be

Are you trolling?

 

[Ironman]

I'm going through the same thing.
I'm trying to date this woman (non sexually) and wow, it's really opened my eyes to how much bullshyt us women put nikkas through. They do the same thing with 'trying to get sex' games but I just found out how women play the 'the cards are in my hand' game.

it appears more women need to start doing this and yes it can drive you insane

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

This is actually a good correlation. Why do you think "ain't shyt" women don't ask questions about their date? I would think common courtesy would show or is it just lost on them?

Not really sure tbh but if I had to guess it would be because their lack of drive, goals, hobbies, and ambitions would manifest itself all the way to actual conversations with other people. If someone ain't really bout shyt then they won't have much to say about themselves, their day, how they spend their time, and thus won't have a clue about how to even inquire about someone else's life.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You're not making sense bruh
If you treat/get treated by friends then it's basically like a date except it's not romantic like you said
So unless you don't have any girlfriends you should know???
you're making this harder than it has to be

Are you trolling?

I'm a woman. Maybe that's what you are missing.

 

[Ironman]

@BlackPearl now imagine that annoyance to borderline frustration with someone you genuinely want to get to know better to be a possible girlfriend? Straight up go from.........
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..................

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Not really sure tbh but if I had to guess it would be because their lack of drive, goals, hobbies, and ambitions would manifest itself all the way to actual conversations with other people. If someone ain't really bout shyt then they won't have much to say about themselves, their day, how they spend their time, and thus won't have a clue about how to even inquire about someone else's life.

So do you think more ambitious people have better personalities in general?

 

[Abayo]

I'm a woman. Maybe that's what you are missing.

No shyt?

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

@BlackPearl now imagine that annoyance to borderline frustration with someone you genuinely want to get to know better to be a possible girlfriend? Straight up go from.........
...
..................

shyt can be traumatizing

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

So do you think more ambitious people have better personalities in general?

hmmm... ambition might've been the wrong word to use.


If I could replace ambition with passion in my previous post then yeah.

 

[Rozay Oro]

@BlackPearl what type of business you running that you made 8 racks last month?

 

[Lord_nikon]

It wasn't a date but for all intents and purposes it had all the elements minus the sexual attraction.

Quick rundown: I saw that it was a friend's birthday on FB. I haven't seen her in like 5 years but I text her "Happy Birthday." I asked her what she was doing for her birthday and she told me she had not plans so I offered to take her to lunch to catch up and b/c I just wanted to go to one of my favorite spots. She accepted and we scheduled for Saturday.

Saturday comes and after some schedule delays including her trying to flake on me at the last minute. We arrive at the location which, of course, had closed from 3 to 5 to prepare for dinner so we have to find another spot. No big deal the food is cheaper at the second spot anyway.

Positive Points: We had a good time. We reminiscence about the past and recant funny stories etc. She had flirted with the waiter who was a portly older gentleman at the beginning and so throughout the meal he was aggressively hitting on her. At one point he just handed her a pen and a piece of paper and said "You are not leaving without giving me your number." I found this very amusing.

Negative Points: I carried the whole conversation. We literally were there for almost 4 hours and she did not ask me one question about myself, my work, my family and anything going on in my life. Not one damn question. At one point I just stopped talking just to see if she would ask. Nope we just sat there in silence until I picked the conversation back up. But of course when I asked about the baby daddy she had nothing but negative shyt to say about him, his wife and how she never wanted him anyway.


The Conclusion: As we are walking back to our cars she tells me she wants me to come meet her at her job for lunch sometime since she works close to my house. I tell her that since I work from home that could be a possibility.

Her: You working from home?
Me: Yes, I have my own business. Been doing it full times for over 2 years.
Her: Really?
Me: Yeah. We did 8K in sales last month.
Her: OMG yes please come up! If you need anything (she works retail and gets paid off commission) I got you. I can get you whatever you need.
Me: We'll see.

Final thoughts:
Although, I did enjoy myself I was really shocked at the inconsideration that she showed. I wasn't offended b/c I don't offend easily but damn. How do you not ask one damn question about the person who offered to do something nice for you just b/c. I know ya'll complain about women a lot but is this level of inconsideration common in women or did I just get a dud?




PS She won't be seeing me again.

She just went out with you for the free food like most chicks. lol