Thanks. Trying to be a good friend. She enjoyed herself so I guess I did my job.@BlackPearl this was really dope if you to ask.
I Took a Woman Out to Eat This Weekend...it was interesting.
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Would've been better off letting a coli poster take you out
That appears to be the case.Would've been better off letting a coli poster take you out
Next time...
My friends are the shyt.
I thought she was your friend.
I guess it's different when it's the woman asking and paying.How are you going to ask if this is common in women when you're a woman yourself???
You don't go out eating with other women? You don't do girl dates?
Peep it. If you work in a building watch the ratiooffice men and women who hold the door for the next person. In NYC its usually 10:1 for a woman to do it. Now if that's the attitude at common courtesy ...
That's why when a woman does it i thank them profusely.
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Would've been better off letting a coli poster take you out
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I don't know what you look like.
We WERE friends 5 years ago. She's an acquaintance who could have possibly moved to friend status. She failed her interview.
It's always good to cheer up friends.
It wasn't a date but for all intents and purposes it had all the elements minus the sexual attraction.
Quick rundown: I saw that it was a friend's birthday on FB. I haven't seen her in like 5 years but I text her "Happy Birthday." I asked her what she was doing for her birthday and she told me she had not plans so I offered to take her to lunch to catch up and b/c I just wanted to go to one of my favorite spots. She accepted and we scheduled for Saturday.
Saturday comes and after some schedule delays including her trying to flake on me at the last minute. We arrive at the location which, of course, had closed from 3 to 5 to prepare for dinner so we have to find another spot. No big deal the food is cheaper at the second spot anyway.
Positive Points: We had a good time. We reminiscence about the past and recant funny stories etc. She had flirted with the waiter who was a portly older gentleman at the beginning and so throughout the meal he was aggressively hitting on her. At one point he just handed her a pen and a piece of paper and said "You are not leaving without giving me your number." I found this very amusing.
Negative Points: I carried the whole conversation. We literally were there for almost 4 hours and she did not ask me one question about myself, my work, my family and anything going on in my life. Not one damn question.At one point I just stopped talking just to see if she would ask. Nope we just sat there in silence until I picked the conversation back up.
The Conclusion: As we are walking back to our cars she tells me she wants me to come meet her at her job for lunch sometime since she works close to my house. I tell her that since I work from home that could be a possibility.
Her: You working from home?
Me: Yes, I have my own business. Been doing it full times for over 2 years.
Her: Really?
Me: Yeah. We did 8K in sales last month.
Her: OMG yes please come up! If you need anything (she works retail and gets paid off commission) I got you. I can get you whatever you need.
Me:We'll see.
Final thoughts:
Although, I did enjoy myself I was really shocked at the inconsideration that she showed. I wasn't offended b/c I don't offend easily but damn. How do you not ask one damn question about the person who offered to do something nice for you just b/c. I know ya'll complain about women a lot but is this level of inconsideration common in women or did I just get a dud?
PS She won't be seeing me again.
Normally I don't participate in the women bashing threads because the other brehs sometimes just be going in with no regards
I just wanted to point out a few points from your message:
flaking part...sometimes it happens with women. I usually give them one time and then I'm done.
carrying the whole conversation...I hate this. You mean I gotta pay and entertain you
Now wait and see if she initiates the first contact
Lol,
9/10
You can tell if a woman is something by the number of questions she's asked you.
Most of times, women who don't try and find out about their male/female partner within conversing with them usually aint shyt.
9/10
You can tell if a woman is something by the number of questions she's asked you.
Most of times, women who don't try and find out about their male/female partner within conversing with them usually aint shyt.
Formerly Black Trash
Philosopher, Connoisseur, Future Legend
The funny thing is if women got treated by men like they treated men they would hate it
But if men got treated by women how men treat women we'd probably love it
But if men got treated by women how men treat women we'd probably love it
Damn people interviewing for friends outchea? That's cold, ice cold.
This isn't a woman bashing thread. I was just courteous if this was common dating behavior b/c I had never experienced it before.Normally I don't participate in the women bashing threads because the other brehs sometimes just be going in with no regards
I just wanted to point out a few points from your message:
flaking part...sometimes it happens with women. I usually give them one time and then I'm done.
carrying the whole conversation...I hate this. You mean I gotta pay and entertain you
Now wait and see if she initiates the first contact
