I Took a Woman Out to Eat This Weekend...it was interesting.

[Biscayne]

I'm not gonna front, I've come across a lot of women like this the last half a year or so. I got out of a long term relationship last year, and decided to try and date again near the beginning of this year. I work overnights, and have my son during the day, so I really only have the opportunity to meet women online, and man, conversing with some women is a CHORE for the exact same reasons @BlackPearl mentioned. Some women don't try to move the conversation forward at all, even when I set them up as best as I can to start up some sort of topic of discussion. I think to myself,"okay, maybe she's not feeling me then" but then a few of them asked me to exchange numbers anyway. Ok cool, but then they would text me some shyt like"hey" and nothing else, like I'm the one who is supposed to say something interesting not even a "how you doing?" just a "hey" or "hi", the fukk am I supposed to do with that and even when I get the ball rolling I'd still get the occasional short answer that makes me go

I didn't even try to meet up with these women, I wasn't gonna do more of the same in person. The only dates I've gone on have been with women who know how to talk, nowadays I just dead the conversation at the first sign a woman isn't actively engaged in it.

Yep. This chick i met at this restaurant I work at, gave me her number couple weeks ago. I didn't ask for it, she gave it to me after we talked for a bit. She was cute. Asked me if I was single. But i don't know what her intentions are. She'll text me short text every now and then asking about the restaurant. And she came back the other day, and gave another dude her number. She might be trying to use me as the food plug.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

nikka please, that was your intention, u seen a weak vulnerable chick , and u seen her as easy prey . Because she was broke, single. The dinner and the conversation was to seduce her into becoming your sex toy.

The mistake u made tho, is the same that simps make, u tried to use money and gifts instead of getting into her brain and yapping into her emotions

I could assure that was not the case but this narrative is very entertaining.

 

[DrX]

I love this character you've created.

But you're wrong about one thing. She invited me out later that evening but I declined.

What character? That's u
They day u stop trying to pretend you're this upbeat cheerful homemaker is the day you'll transcend into the best version of yourself

Cigarette in your mouth, tight seductive dress, confident and demanding

You're a boss bytch . I mean the b word word the utmost respect. U need too be in control, that's why this chick, who u seen as a peon that should be thankful that somebody of your caliber gave her the time of day actions are confusing

The script was, She was suppose to accept the dinner and be happy that somebody actually cared enough to take her out. Show her a good time.Then have her come back to your place, then you dominant her sexually, and maybe give her a lil change to keep her dependent

She would've became your love slave until your done with her

 

[Youhadasparkwhenustarted]

Yep. This chick i met at this restaurant I work at, gave me her number couple weeks ago. I didn't ask for it, she gave it to me after we talked for a bit. She was cute. Asked me if I was single. But i don't know what her intentions are. She'll text me short text every now and then asking about the restaurant. And she came back the other day, and gave another dude her number. She might be trying to use me as the food plug.

Something like that was in the back of my mind, that maybe she's trying to use me to take her out and get a free meal or something, but them I'm like " are these chicks really that petty and pressed for some food". Man I dunno, I stopped trying to figure it out, it's a waste of time.

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

Final thoughts:
Although, I did enjoy myself I was really shocked at the inconsideration that she showed. I wasn't offended b/c I don't offend easily but damn. How do you not ask one damn question about the person who offered to do something nice for you just b/c. I know ya'll complain about women a lot but is this level of inconsideration common in women or did I just get a dud?




PS She won't be seeing me again.

You ever think she may be depressed?

It's her birthday, yet she has no plans. She tries to flake out on you and a free meal with no strings attached. Clear resentment towards her baby's daddy who appears to have moved on while she is still single.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

That's why i never took girls on food dates, too many self centered women out here looking for free meals

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

you self employed dont answer to nobody. self sufficient make your own rules no way in hell you should be dealing w/ some inconsiderate zero personality having bag of bricks.
good job deading that

My thoughts exactly. I don't dislike her but honestly I don't see any benefit on continuing a friendship with her.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Women gone women.






Op is a simp and u lost. Didn't even get no p*ssy

I'll take the L

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Nobody cares about your family, your life, your work, or you.

People only want to talk about themselves. This is common sense.

Noted

 

[Serious]

Subs

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You sell hoes like hairweaves. Lets keep it a stack and let people know how you got the Bugatti.

I'm a manager

 

[At30wecashout]

I'm a manager

"Human Resources" right?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Why did she originally try and flake?

And imo..you are doing the right thing. She seems mad selfish. Probably the reason she had no plans on her birthday

Because she was running behind. It was raining and traffic was bad.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Women not asking you about yourself isn't always a sure sign that they aren't interested.
Sometimes it can be they are just so used to talkign about themselves that they just carry the conversation that way.

You gotta let her know without... letting her know (cuz you don't wanna seem emotional, and sensitive)

If it was me, I would lead into with something like "Hey I've told you what I did for a living right?"
Her: "Actually no, you haven't"
Me: "Oh, I coulda sworn you asked "

Then go into a story about work and see if she gets the hint to ask you more questions.

I can see that but I'm not going to try to lead a person to asking about me. IMO if she wanted to know she'd ask. I didn't even get a simple "How have you been?"

 

[BushidoBrown]

just realized OP is a chick..
so, you takin out straight females with baby daddies tryin to turn them out?
whats ya Insta?