Ill be good with some edibles
Brownies, cookies or rice crispy treats?
I Took a Woman Out to Eat This Weekend...it was interesting.
- Thread starter ™BlackPearl The Empress™
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Brownies, cookies or rice crispy treats?
You know damn well if you want to get to know and love a chick..you're an anomaly.
How many men here's goal with a woman is to love her?
You're special.
There are quite a few of us who actually want relationships and to build futures with compatible women. Not all of us just want to smash and dash.......
This is an incredible generalizationStop lumping brothas like myself in this shyt
This..............I had to deal with that huge wall of generalization with my ex, she dated nothing but playas and some ain't shyt dudes before we got together. It's a pain in the ass when you put in the effort to show you are different only to get assumed to be like the rest.
BmoreGorilla
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Brownies
She just seemed like a possibly self centered person and/or having no conversation skills. A lot of people don't. If you don't interjected your life into the conversation it will never happen because they don't even think to ask. Also, possible lack of social skills too. If you told her how inconsiderate you felt she was, she would probably be shocked because of how much she said thank you. Also if you are the only person she has talked to in a while rambling happens.
People like that don't realize what's going in the moment. All they remember is the "good" convo and saying thank you. Meanwhile you are like this heffa didn't ask one thing about me.
People like that don't realize what's going in the moment. All they remember is the "good" convo and saying thank you. Meanwhile you are like this heffa didn't ask one thing about me.
GreenGhxst
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Good for you for keeping the convo alive for 4 hours because I would've stopped talking after 30 minutes if I noticed that I'm carrying. Feels disrespectful to me because they don't care enough about you to push a conversation. I bet if it was a dude she was attracted too, she'd be all questions. Your date was rude.
I have a co-worker that's 40 odd years old and sometimes I'll lay out a statement for discussion and he'll look at me and then he's straight silent, can't stand when people do that. Doesn't hurt that he's quiet already
but we work together 3 out of my 5 days, that shyt irks me so sometimes I won't even talk to him. How are you 40 years old with no conversational skills.
You got a dud, most women that are interested will ask questions and try to keep that good vibe going, homegirl was selfish.
I have a co-worker that's 40 odd years old and sometimes I'll lay out a statement for discussion and he'll look at me and then he's straight silent, can't stand when people do that. Doesn't hurt that he's quiet already
but we work together 3 out of my 5 days, that shyt irks me so sometimes I won't even talk to him. How are you 40 years old with no conversational skills.
You got a dud, most women that are interested will ask questions and try to keep that good vibe going, homegirl was selfish.
GreenGhxst
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At least they were being honest with you.
I agree. But she has plenty of social skills believe me. I like her. I really do but IDK that's just unacceptable to me.
Be annoyed that men only want you for sex then try to get a man to want you for sex brehettes.Plenty have tried.
But why haven't you?
I'm ready to be played
GreenGhxst
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If I was a dude she probably would have treated worse.
she sounds awful, I'd drop her as a friend
Bless't
Living the dream
It wasn't a date but for all intents and purposes it had all the elements minus the sexual attraction.
Quick rundown: I saw that it was a friend's birthday on FB. I haven't seen her in like 5 years but I text her "Happy Birthday." I asked her what she was doing for her birthday and she told me she had not plans so I offered to take her to lunch to catch up and b/c I just wanted to go to one of my favorite spots. She accepted and we scheduled for Saturday.
Saturday comes and after some schedule delays including her trying to flake on me at the last minute. We arrive at the location which, of course, had closed from 3 to 5 to prepare for dinner so we have to find another spot. No big deal the food is cheaper at the second spot anyway.
Positive Points: We had a good time. We reminiscence about the past and recant funny stories etc. She had flirted with the waiter who was a portly older gentleman at the beginning and so throughout the meal he was aggressively hitting on her. At one point he just handed her a pen and a piece of paper and said "You are not leaving without giving me your number." I found this very amusing.
Negative Points: I carried the whole conversation. We literally were there for almost 4 hours and she did not ask me one question about myself, my work, my family and anything going on in my life. Not one damn question.At one point I just stopped talking just to see if she would ask. Nope we just sat there in silence until I picked the conversation back up.
The Conclusion: As we are walking back to our cars she tells me she wants me to come meet her at her job for lunch sometime since she works close to my house. I tell her that since I work from home that could be a possibility.
Her: You working from home?
Me: Yes, I have my own business. Been doing it full times for over 2 years.
Her: Really?
Me: Yeah. We did 8K in sales last month.
Her: OMG yes please come up! If you need anything (she works retail and gets paid off commission) I got you. I can get you whatever you need.
Me:We'll see.
Final thoughts:
Although, I did enjoy myself I was really shocked at the inconsideration that she showed. I wasn't offended b/c I don't offend easily but damn. How do you not ask one damn question about the person who offered to do something nice for you just b/c. I know ya'll complain about women a lot but is this level of inconsideration common in women or did I just get a dud?
PS She won't be seeing me again.
Just about par for the course IMO.
You now realize how it can get frustrating for men to have to "date" and put up with this over and over again.
Bless't
Living the dream
A-fukking-menTypical conversation with a woman that's not interested in you sexually/romantically most of the time.
Noticed where she really got interested, when you said you work from home and made money.
Then she was like
Now imagine if you had paid for everything and was actually interested in her.
