I Took a Woman Out to Eat This Weekend...it was interesting.

[Bless't]

I think she's just really self-centered, I've been guilty of this talking about myself and my day for like 15 min before I'm like my bad, I'm sorry. ...how are you? How was your day?

No bad/malicious intentions could just be obliviously self-absorbed

How can you walk into a restaurant knowing you're meeting someone to converse and exchange pleasantries and then sit there for 15 minutes thinking about your day?

For the life of me... I dont understand that. If you are not mentally in a place to be cordial with someone else in that given situation... why go?

 

[Donald J Trump]

How can you walk into a restaurant knowing you're meeting someone to converse and exchange pleasantries and then sit there for 15 minutes thinking about your day?

For the life of me... I dont understand that. If you are not mentally in a place to be cordial with someone else in that given situation... why go?

Thats a lightskin female breh, what you expect.

 

[Bless't]

I'm going through the same thing.
I'm trying to date this woman (non sexually) and wow, it's really opened my eyes to how much bullshyt us women put nikkas through. They do the same thing with 'trying to get sex' games but I just found out how women play the 'the cards are in my hand' game.

You've been going through the ups and downs with her brehette.

 

[Neuromancer]

How can you walk into a restaurant knowing you're meeting someone to converse and exchange pleasantries and then sit there for 15 minutes thinking about your day?

For the life of me... I dont understand that. If you are not mentally in a place to be cordial with someone else in that given situation... why go?

It's called being inconsiderate.

 

[AintNoCrampInYaMouthTho]

You sound like you couldn't take the hint. Her trying to flake was a sign you paid no mind to and you ended up with a shytty time. Females put hints out there that some dudes ignore or are just simply oblivious to it.

 

[Bless't]

It's called being inconsiderate.

And this is one of the main red flags I'm going to be looking for in my future dating life. It has rubbed me the wrong way far too intensely as of late.

I just want a considerate and kind woman.

 

[Neuromancer]

And this is one of the main red flags I'm going to be looking for in my future dating life. It has rubbed me the wrong way far too intensely as of late.

I just want a nice, considerate and kind woman.

This is the dream.

 

[Houston911]

@BlackPearl what was the purpose of yalls date?

 

[Turbulent]

I wouldn't say it's all women. I don't feel comfortable saying it's common either but it is too be somewhat expected on average. And dudes can be very inconsiderate too but typically we'll at least pretend like we have some consideration early on.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

@BlackPearl what was the purpose of yalls date?

Read the OP

 

[shutterguy]

This is the dream.

I'm ready............

 

[Houston911]

Read the OP

Im busy at work today

Support a black man and break it down for me beloved.

 

[Ugo Ogugwa]

Nikka or bytch you a desperate sucka

 

[Abayo]

I said it was SIMILAR on THIS occasion. I specifically said the sexual part was not there which is a huge motivating factor which means that it is not the same. IDK why you are so intent on getting that out of the post. Everyone else seems to grasp the concept just fine except you. If you treat ya boy to a meal for his birthday is that the same as dating him? No it's not. You're trying too hard.

But then why are you comparing with how men date women if it's so different?????
If the platonicness makes it different then how can she possibly be an example for how women act in dates?
All u did was treat a rude friend

Make up your mind

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

Look simpette she's just not into you.