Ladies, Do Y'all Genuinely Think Men Believe The Lies You Tell..

SheWantTheD

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So you expect a str8 answer from The same women who would rather say they were in a coma till 30 minutes prior to y'all date :mjgrin:
I don't know what you mean but I'd rather them outright ignore me then tell me some lie I know is bullshyt. But then again, you can't lead dudes on that you completely cut off and ignore.

They may wanna keep you on the backburner or use you for attention/an ego boost so they tell you a bs lie that makes you think you still have a chance so you continue to hit them up and ask for dates in the future.
 

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Yall nikkas lawst for even entertainin jawns via text in 2016 :mjlol: that automatically shifts all the power towards her and makes u disposable in her mind

Real nikkas get the number and only hit her up to buss a move
She gave me the number tho
 

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Reasons like "I'm sick" or "I'm not feeling well" are most likely lies but there's the small percentage that she isn't lying so it keeps you guessing and you give her the benefit of the doubt.
 

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When you flake out or cancel on a date at the last minute?

This thread is inspired by the following post:



Who is supposed to believe this? :mjlol: Y'all flake over text or over the phone, so your life being in danger is not an excuse you can use here. Tell dude straight up that you aren't interested or just ignore and block him. If he knows where you live, call the police if he ever comes around looking for you and carry around pepper spray in case he starts stalking you.

Why come up with outrageous lies like ya phone fell out ya purse down a river 5 days ago, washed up on some nearby shore a day ago... someone found it and got it to you 30 minutes before the scheduled date so you can tell dude you won't be making it?

Is it a power trip that you can play with peoples minds and lead them on? Are you too much of a coward to be direct and straightforward about how you feel and your intentions?

I've had women cut me off through text or phone conversations, and it's not like a man can strangle you through the phone. You can simply hang up, block him and move on with your life.

inb4 someone says this is a woman bashing thread. Nah, I'm genuinely curious as to why women do this. Being young ain't good enough. You know the difference between right and wrong and you wouldn't want it done to you.

And I'm not talking about ALL women. If it don't apply to you and you don't wanna provide constructive criticism and posts without deflections and excuses then just don't make a post. And yes, I know men do it too.


Brehette here.
I saw the title and thought this might be something entirely different.
I'm pleasantly suprised.

I agree with you op, especially the bolded.

Don't do any shyt you wouldn't want done to you.

Don't waste other people's time.

Just man the fukk up and say no or no thankyou.
 

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Charge it to the game. She'll only tell them lies if u believe it or don't check her. Either way u lost already:manny:
It don't really matter, cause after they hit you with some unbelievable reason as to why they gotta cancel the date, they don't want anything to do with you after that. Unless you ignore them for like two weeks smh.
 

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The question isn't do they think we believe them, the question is why as men should we care? Take what they say at face value and do you.
If what they say "means something else" as it often does, that is their fault, not yours.

"Her phone messed up" to me means don't invest much into talking to her, cause ladies who want
to talk to you will send you a goddamn carrier pigeon if she needs to.
 
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Some believe it, I think I'm a pretty good judge of character so I can usually tell when someone's lying, the lie in the OP is just a blatant "fukk you nikka, I don't care enough about you to come up with a respectable lie"

"Yesterday I hit her up and we texted then I said we eating tmrw. She never texted back til 30 mins ago saying her phone messed up and stopped working til now so she just got the msg and she can't with a sad smiley :dead:
@Flexseed was right"

This.

If OP was Drake, guess what?

...You know what.

Bytch would have finessed a ride and got another battery, or called the phone service and got the shyt handled ASAP; and if that wouldn't have worked she would have bought another phone; and if the bytch was too broke to do that she would have told her mommy, daddy, brother, sister, and every fuccin friend she had to give her a phone so that she could fukk with Drake.

The reality is that she just wasn't into OP enough. :manny:
 
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