Ladies, Do Y'all Genuinely Think Men Believe The Lies You Tell..
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Lmao! Outside of self-preservation due to "nikkas beez crazy", it's this idea that our generation has that people are disposable. I think this comes from our response to increased world population. People from smaller towns are more polite and interact better than people from jam packed bustling cities IMO. Why? Because small numbers force u to rely on others and communicate more and there is a great chance u will see them again.When you flake out or cancel on a date at the last minute?
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Who is supposed to believe this?Y'all flake over text or over the phone, so your life being in danger is not an excuse you can use here. Tell dude straight up that you aren't interested or just ignore and block him. If he knows where you live, call the police if he ever comes around looking for you and carry around pepper spray in case he starts stalking you.
Why come up with outrageous lies like ya phone fell out ya purse down a river 5 days ago, washed up on some nearby shore a day ago... someone found it and got it to you 30 minutes before the scheduled date so you can tell dude you won't be making it?
Is it a power trip that you can play with peoples minds and lead them on? Are you too much of a coward to be direct and straightforward about how you feel and your intentions?
I've had women cut me off through text or phone conversations, and it's not like a man can strangle you through the phone. You can simply hang up, block him and move on with your life.
inb4 someone says this is a woman bashing thread. Nah, I'm genuinely curious as to why women do this. Being young ain't good enough. You know the difference between right and wrong and you wouldn't want it done to you.
And I'm not talking about ALL women. If it don't apply to you and you don't wanna provide constructive criticism and posts without deflections and excuses then just don't make a post. And yes, I know men do it too.
But in a city of millions there isn't the same incentive to invest in social interactions because the likelihood of seeing someone again is slim. So we take others for granted.
(Also some women are a$$holes. Take from that what u will...lol!)
There's that too. Some men ask for honesty until we give it and then we're evil. Catch 22.I can't be fukked to lie, I just say it how it is...
Still got boys crying for being too cold
Ol’Otis
The Picasso of the Ghetto
This bytch ass n*gga got me on ignore
Ol’Otis
The Picasso of the Ghetto
oh ok I was about to say....
GoldCoastSaint
Yall nikkas hate everything but Tariq Nasheed
Men are used to rejection. We aren't. So rejecting someone outright is hard to do cause we put ourselves in that persons shoes. More than likely, a man won't care he's being rejected because he's experienced it enough or he at least knows he might have to do a light chase before getting a yes, but peopke3 make decisions based on what they experience. A woman experiencing rejection is most likely hard af so we dont want to put people we like (even as just friends) through that.
So we lie.
Plus some lies can't be argued. If I say I have food poison, you can't be mad at that and you can't really refute it. It's like when people call in to work.
So we lie.
Plus some lies can't be argued. If I say I have food poison, you can't be mad at that and you can't really refute it. It's like when people call in to work.
SheWantTheD
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This bytch ass n*gga got me on ignore
What are you talking about? I don't have anyone on my ignore list.oh ok I was about to say....
nikkas lie everyday B. Now my question is why do nikkas think their lies are nickel slick?
Oh you got Ebola huh? Thats why you went ghost for two weeks?
Oh training academy don't allow phone whatsoever?
Oh wait you got a 
phone so your calls don't come through?
Oh so, you at your sister house at 2 in the morning and she needed you stay with her dog cause she had to fly out on last moments norice?
Oh your toliet is broken so I can't come in to pee since you just had me come by to drop something off? 
And you do what when you gotta pee....
nikkas be lying terribly. Just be honest and it won't be as bad as thinking somebody just got off the turnip truck.
Oh you got Ebola huh? Thats why you went ghost for two weeks?Oh training academy don't allow phone whatsoever? Oh wait you got a phone so your calls don't come through? Oh so, you at your sister house at 2 in the morning and she needed you stay with her dog cause she had to fly out on last moments norice? Oh your toliet is broken so I can't come in to pee since you just had me come by to drop something off? And you do what when you gotta pee.... nikkas be lying terribly. Just be honest and it won't be as bad as thinking somebody just got off the turnip truck.
StickStickly
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Maybe the women who are cutting you off this way don't see it as badly as you do. In your mind the lies and deflections are more hurtful. The easiest answer is that people view things differently than you. Like someone else said, we are all more disposable. They don't think it makes them a bad person and probably have no idea you (or others) put so much thought into itWhen you flake out or cancel on a date at the last minute?
This thread is inspired by the following post:
Who is supposed to believe this?
Why come up with outrageous lies like ya phone fell out ya purse down a river 5 days ago, washed up on some nearby shore a day ago... someone found it and got it to you 30 minutes before the scheduled date so you can tell dude you won't be making it?
Is it a power trip that you can play with peoples minds and lead them on? Are you too much of a coward to be direct and straightforward about how you feel and your intentions?
I've had women cut me off through text or phone conversations, and it's not like a man can strangle you through the phone. You can simply hang up, block him and move on with your life.
inb4 someone says this is a woman bashing thread. Nah, I'm genuinely curious as to why women do this. Being young ain't good enough. You know the difference between right and wrong and you wouldn't want it done to you.
And I'm not talking about ALL women. If it don't apply to you and you don't wanna provide constructive criticism and posts without deflections and excuses then just don't make a post. And yes, I know men do it too.
Ol’Otis
The Picasso of the Ghetto
Not you
SheWantTheD
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A man seeking to improve and grow appreciates honesty no matter how brutal.
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SheWantTheD
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That's not what this thread is about. It's about canceling on dates at the last minute especially with terrible lies that the man doesn't believe. At the end of the day, deleting a man's number and blocking his number from your phone is a lot better than hitting him up 30 minutes before the scheduled date time and giving him an excuse as to why you can't make it.
The chick in the message in the OP that I quoted said her phone wasn't working until the day of the date and that was why she can't make the date LOL. Who believes that and why do all that rather than saying you aren't interested? In my opinion it's a form of cowardice, if you cared about the man's feelings you would be straight up and honest that you aren't interested and keep it moving.
If this is over the phone you can hang up or block him, so he cannot reach or bother you.
And the notion that men are used to rejection is a false one. Not many men can walk up to random women in public or in the street and try and get their number. Men fear rejection just like women do. Men may face more rejection when it comes to dating, but it doesn't mean they are used to it at all.
If one lies to face a less negative reaction, that is a form of cowardice especially in this case. Y'all don't want the guy to blow up on you or you want to keep him on the backburner (not saying you) in case it doesn't work out with your number one choice.
What do you mean lies can't be argued? If they are lies of course they can. There are some lies that are more believable then others but that isn't outright rejecting a man and in the long run you are doing more harm then good. If you tell him something like you have food poisoning then he may believe you and think you are interested. Men would rather a woman be upfront and tell them that they aren't interested rather than say things like they are busy.
Real talk. How is setting up a date a week or several days in advance, only to ignore a man's phone call or text messages until 30 minutes to an hour before the date and tell him you can't make it? He could have made other plans if you were just going to end up flaking. That is extremely disrespectful and I don't see how that shows a woman wanting a man's best interest at heart.
SheWantTheD
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I agree. I ain't never told no lies like that and I don't play women either.nikkas lie everyday B. Now my question is why do nikkas think their lies are nickel slick?
nikkas be lying terribly. Just be honest and it won't be as bad as thinking somebody just got off the turnip truck.
Too many people are cowards nowadays and don't want the backlash of being upfront and honest.
Women lie and men lie. People are flakey.
fukking thank you.