Larry Lambo
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Have you ever approached a woman?
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I cant remember what the guy said to her, but response something like a quick "No." And she walked away and ignored everything else.
I said next time... just smile. Tell him "thank you, but I have boyfriend" (which she did at the time). And if he kept talking... just say "I'm really sorry, but someone is waiting on me and I have to go, but have a nice day" or something like that.
The point is to be friendly with people, especially when you don't know them or are uncomfortable. It's harder for people to flip out on you when you're nothing but nice. Normally there is something that triggers these unstable people to violence... and it's generally not kindness. And of they stil flip... hell, live is unfair that way some times. But at least you did your part.
If y'all had to deal half the stuff even an ugly girl with a nice body part had to deal with, from people who could actually over power them easily you would shut up.
I don't do the whole I fear all Black men or all men. Nor do I think all Black men are sex crazed animals or anything like that not at all. But to act like it's not a problem at all is being or danger is just being obtuse.

coli nikkas with the exception of a select few are Incapable of critical thought!!!! if you don't think that this is a serious issue, then you're part of the problem. society teaches men that they're entitled to sex, emotional labour, and everything else from women. so when they don't get it they feel robbed. and some go on shooting rampages. it's mostly white boys because they feel that extra layer of entitlement from being cac but black men are capable of these actions as well. Have you ever approached a woman?
I agreeThat may be true, but women are probably more likely to be killed by a man than vice versa.
These dudes can't be adults... imagine an adult male needing to be turned down "nicely"for humor's sake, do share the advice you gave your sister for responding to appear more friendly.
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Sorry, but this is the real world. It doesn't matter how things SHOULD be. It matters they are. And as long as there are mentally instable people roaming the streets, you need to be aware and behave accordingly.Why does she NEED to be more friendly? Why does she even need to speak to someone she doesnt know? NO is a complete sentence. She doesnt need to say anything before or after that. This is the problem right here. Instead of telling women to smile, and wave, and be fake nice, and bow down, why arent men being taught to take NO for an answer and keep it moving?
yes, in social settings, not on the street while she's trying to get to point B.
You do realize some women have gotten attacked at clubs/bars other "social" events for not accepting men's advances.

Sorry, but this is the real world. It doesn't matter how things SHOULD be. It matters they are. And as long as there are mentally instable people roaming the streets, you need to be aware and behave accordingly.
If I give my little sister that BS advice and she decides to "curve" some nikka because it's her "prerogative", and he shoots her, then what? This is about survival and safety, not platitudes.

Don't women complain about how millennials don't approach anymore???
Damned if you do, damned if you dont.