I've approached 3 women in my life (I'm 19)
The first time was my sophomore year of high school, in the library during lunch, I got at this lightskin chick sitting down (turned out she was half white/Haitian) and we had some small talk about history (she was reading a book on Floridian history) but when it was time for me to get more romantic and ask for the number I got cold feet and reneged on the opportunity. I'd see her around school and she'd smile and say hi but I never got at her again.
2nd time was back in February. I was in a group project for my DEP2000 class and there was a cute chick with the most PERFECT cinnamon brown skin tone I've ever seen in my life. After a while, one day on the phone I got at her, telling her I wanted to get to know her better and we should hang out sometime, and she said "I can't right now, I'm busy with school, let's do it during spring break" and I said sure. Then I hit her up the Friday before spring break asking her out and she said "I can't right now, I'm busy with school, let's do it during summer" and at this point I took the hint
Last time in October was this chubby Jamaican girl in a group project I had in my CGS1060 class (I don't mind big girls at all, plus she was curvy & voluptuous) We would all have conference calls damn near every night and laugh & joke around, so I got at her one night, called her separately after we'd hung up from the group call and told her she was a vibrant young woman and that I'd like to get better acquainted with her, to which she replied "nikka no!" and hung up the phone
I'm confroozed and scurrd brehs. I'm a card-carrying Ugly Gang member, so that's one hurdle, and truth be told, after the rejections I'd just go home, beat my meat, bust a nut and forget about it. But now I'm on NoFap which means no sexual release, I'm ugly which means no love at first sight, and I'm approaching my twenties which means I aspire to enter a serious relationship soon. Can you imagine being a huge fan of adult contemporary R&B music and having no romantic prospects? I don't want to go to the movies/the bowling alley/museums/the beach by myself anymore, I look like a complete loser