Poll: What Is The Universal "I Need A Beta Male" Age For Women?

[LadySimone]

My signature never had GMB or HOH and please point out to me where in any of the above posts I mentioned anything specifically about black women.

I was exaggerating about the siggy bit but you get my drift. I think you need to confront the hypocrisy when you see it.

Tell black women to find that strong hardworking black man while she is in her 20s but tell the same black women that the strong hardworking black man just wants to play the field.

 

[kevm3]

I was exaggerating about the siggy bit but you get my drift. I think you need to confront the hypocrisy when you see it.

Tell black women to find that strong hardworking black man while she is in her 20s but tell the same black women that the strong hardworking black man just wants to play the field.

A lot of men want to play the field, but some don't. I already stated that there are few quality people left period, so if you want to attract one, you have your best chances while you are the most appealing.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

I'm touching souls in here huh?

 

[PinotNoir]

Yup there are women that will drop a man who has his stuff together because of their insecurities and a man of worth will require a woman to come correct. Those women will drop the man of worth to be with a whack dude because he does not require much from them.

But that wasn't my case unfortunately other things got in the way

 

[wickedsm]

What are non black women being told and Im not trying to be antagonistic.

I don't have any non black children so I don't know what anybody is telling them.

As black parents the things and truths we have to tell our children are usually going to be very different or explained in a different tone than what other types of parents do. Our reality as black people in America is different.

 

[wickedsm]

Are Black women even being told this? Wickedsms advice doesn't seem like it's commonly told to Black women.

I don't know. A lot of young girls grow up on cinderella and Disney princesses and one day my prince will come.
then now a days social media glorifies this one or that one who snagged a baller or a rapper.
If their parents told them would they be in a place to recieve it?
Would they receive it if they don t see it in actual practice a living example in their lives?

 

[LadySimone]

I don't have any non black children so I don't know what anybody is telling them.

As black parents the things and truths we have to tell our children are usually going to be very different or explained in a different tone than what other types of parents do. Our reality as black people in America is different.

And this is something the OP and his acolytes continue to ignore. Apparently a 24 year old black woman has the same opportunities for marriage love life and happiness as a 24 year old white woman. Therefore if we don't have the husband 2.5 kids, white picket fence and two car garage house by 27 its because we aint shyt.

 

[LadySimone]

A lot of men want to play the field, but some don't. I already stated that there are few quality people left period, so if you want to attract one, you have your best chances while you are the most appealing.

 

[wickedsm]

I see a big disconnect between the 2 very different types of guys here. There's the ho this bytch that I painted her throat last night and get money fukk bytches crowd and the women don't want me now because they are all busy being whores but in a few years that will all change Crowd.
I don't know if they see it but there's actually a good deal of overlap.

Disney Princess and Prince charming fantasies are common among women but men often have extremely unrealistic expectations too.

 

[kevm3]

What is controversial about what I said? Bottom line is men typically find a woman in her 20s more attractive than one in her 30s. If the pool for high quality people is so low, why would you NOT look for that rare person when your marketplace value is the highest?

 

[LadySimone]

What is controversial about what I said? Bottom line is men typically find a woman in her 20s more attractive than one in her 30s. If the pool for high quality people is so low, why would you NOT look for that rare person when your marketplace value is the highest?

Because its a moveable goal post. if a 20 year old is more appealing than a 25 year old but marrying a 20 year old will likely end in divorce your rhetoric is a bit anachronistic. But again it doesn't change that black women are swimming in a shallow as pool regardless of their age. So even if every appealing 23 year old was talking about marriage we would still have to wait because the numbers don't favour us.

 

[kevm3]

Because its a moveable goal post. if a 20 year old is more appealing than a 25 year old but marrying a 20 year old will likely end in divorce your rhetoric is a bit anachronistic. But again it doesn't change that black women are swimming in a shallow as pool regardless of their age. So even if every appealing 23 year old was talking about marriage we would still have to wait because the numbers don't favour us.

If the numbers don't favor you, it would make the advice I gave MORE relevant. if you value marriage and there is only a tiny pool of potential partners, it would make sense to attempt to obtain one of those partners when you are at your peak.

 

[kaldurahm]

As funny as this thread is, real talk, y'all dudes ain't gonna settle down at some point? There's plenty of beautiful sistas out here being depressed and ish. Are you guys trying to build the community of not, because believe it or not you guys are the leaders and people look up to you guys. You guys know better and can contribute a lot to the community as a whole.

I'm not saying to limit yourself or go with the status quo or whatever but at one point coming home with a new chick has to get old. If anything wife a girl who is worth it I'm not saying to simp for a girls. Y'all have the ability to change the nonsense happening right now, at least lower its prevalence, 2 parents always better than 1

Also if your having kids at later age recognize the health problems that could come about having kids at a later age

 

[freetroit]

The real solution is that young women in their 20s should have to sacrifice or trade their you and get with an older man in his 30s

I figure a man at that age would be open to the idea of getting a woman in her prime to marry

The woman gets to have access to the older mans resources And stability

The older man gets to have access to a youthful woman who is still optimistic and has a fresher mind and coochie

This seeems to be the most practical arrangement

But their will be a lot of haters mad over this if it actually became a trend in America

 

[freetroit]

Young women trade in your youth and freshness for stability and resources to an older man