Poll: What Is The Universal "I Need A Beta Male" Age For Women?

[Incogno]

It just seems like men here don't give women the allowance to be human. After 28 they are washed up no wants them, rotten etc. Why? It sounds off, just dripping with malcontent and bitterness. They're people. The ten years from 20-30 is really a short amount of time. It's ridiculous that they think a human is worthless because they aren't in a relationship or reproducing. There are other levels to the human experience that make people,women and men, interesting and worthwhile.

this is spot on...especially the last sentence...

i always look at this mentality from men as a projection

because for quite a few men their whole existence really do revolve around cheap thrills/or possessive relationships...and i say possessive relationships...because there is usually a focus on superficiality...or looking at a woman as a possession.... rather than looking at a woman as a person they've established a meaningful connection with...

there's no focus on communication....affinity for each other as individuals...........just superficiality...

no appreciation for the simple things in life.....

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

What do brehs think about holding out until your early 30s to get serious? It makes obvious sense in terms of getting p*ssy, but for dudes looking to build a family with a good mother, do you guys see this as a good strategy? shyt seems like it's built to backfire to me and some old heads have told me it does.

What's the consensus? I'm 26 and generally vibe the most with women 26-28...how does the game change when you're 35 hollerin at a 27/28 year old? Aren't you just a come-up?

you know you're getting more women because you are establishd... but you've also know this is the way the world works since forever so you don't mind...

as long as she ain't no complete and utter gold digger... and instead is a good woman who happens to want a man who is about some shyt.... we as men expect that

It's make me wonder if they even interact with women outside of physical gratification. Im sitting here like do adults really think like this? The school system and internet age have failed us .

yes... most men will never tell you... if you didn't have this message board, why would they??

but you see it in actions EVERY day... woman does 150% for her man... he'll cheat cause some 5 had a fat ass... he'll risk his marriage, kids, job for some p*ssy... he'll walk by an entire college to trick off on some broke bytch... he'll leave his entire life for some internet p*ssy.... lets not even get into robbing, killing, and stealing for that p*ssy..



but then we could flip all this on women too... the whole basis for this thread is that women will throw great men away, or push them to the back, all for sexy man who's fun and exciting... throw away everything a man will, just cause of the new guy



so yes.. we are all this shallow.... society is the ONLY reason we feel ashamed for it... monogamy is not natural and we force ourselves to choose 1 person out of 7 billion and stick with it.... then get shocked and surprised when they find someone else

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

I get what you're saying but it seems like if women have those same feelings the men here throw them into the "reformed Thot" box instead of realizing that people are dynamic living beings, not static "things" who need to have the same desires and wants all throughout life or they are disingenuous, as someone naively stated earlier.

The problem is men don't realize it and neither do women because I don't think we were meant to realize that in our 20s. Society has changed and shifted to uplifting single life in favor of marriage at and early age, for both sexes in more than simply sexual ways.

If I were to become single now is be a woman who spent most of her 20s in one relationship- I would want to be single and catch my breath and find out who I am because it has always been "us" and "we" for a while now. I know he would feel the same.

It just seems like men here don't give women the allowance to be human. After 28 they are washed up no wants them, rotten etc. Why? It sounds off, just dripping with malcontent and bitterness. They're people. The ten years from 20-30 is really a short amount of time. It's ridiculous that they think a human is worthless because they aren't in a relationship or reproducing. There are other levels to the human experience that make people,women and men, interesting and worthwhile.

see but you're missing the thread... and most people's examples

IT'S THE WOMEN COMPLAINING!!!

we as men still date women at 29-39-49 if she look good...

it's the women who get to these ages, don't have a man, and THEY are bitter, angry, give up hope, settle for less

we've all seen it, heard it, been confided in... the women in here know it, heard friends, cousins, sisters, moms say it... we seen it all play out

once a woman.. not all.. but a lot.... reach a certain age, they start feeling pressure and let down of not being happily married with children... it's not men who have to tell them this

shyt if anything it's other women.... "when you getting married girl... when you giving me a grandbaby... when you gonna settle down... i can't believe you aren't married yet"


men are not saying that type of shyt to women.... ever

 

[Biscayne]

I miss my 20's. wouldn't want to be in my 20's in this era though.

How old are you?

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Keep thinking u can fight nature brehettes, it won't work...

no matter how old i get, they stay the same age

 

[satireprod]

QUOTE="Venem, post: 14850796, member: 3327"]see but you're missing the thread... and most people's examples

IT'S THE WOMEN COMPLAINING!!!

we as men still date women at 29-39-49 if she look good...

it's the women who get to these ages, don't have a man, and THEY are bitter, angry, give up hope, settle for less

we've all seen it, heard it, been confided in... the women in here know it, heard friends, cousins, sisters, moms say it... we seen it all play out

once a woman.. not all.. but a lot.... reach a certain age, they start feeling pressure and let down of not being happily married with children... it's not men who have to tell them this

shyt if anything it's other women.... "when you getting married girl... when you giving me a grandbaby... when you gonna settle down... i can't believe you aren't married yet"


men are not saying that type of shyt to women.... ever[/QUOTE]

It's not men that constantly have specials on TV about not being able to find a good mate. Its always women.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

It's not men that constantly have specials on TV about not being able to find a good mate. Its always women.

Men could care less really. You see men in their 40s and 50s single but got a job. He becomes an eligible bachelor

Women in the same position get "hmmmm what's wrong with her. She must be crazy/slutty/a bytch"

 

[jwonder]

How old are you?

37

 

[satireprod]

Men could care less really. You see men in their 40s and 50s single but got a job. He becomes an eligible bachelor

Women in the same position get "hmmmm what's wrong with her. She must be crazy/slutty/a bytch"

Right but they always go with the mantra Nikkas aint shyt, without facing the possibility that maybe just maybe they passed over guys that were down for them for more exciting temporary options

 

[Biscayne]

37

Damn....you're in your prime maaaannn....

 

[Biscayne]

QUOTE="Venem, post: 14850796, member: 3327"]see but you're missing the thread... and most people's examples

IT'S THE WOMEN COMPLAINING!!!

we as men still date women at 29-39-49 if she look good...

it's the women who get to these ages, don't have a man, and THEY are bitter, angry, give up hope, settle for less

we've all seen it, heard it, been confided in... the women in here know it, heard friends, cousins, sisters, moms say it... we seen it all play out

once a woman.. not all.. but a lot.... reach a certain age, they start feeling pressure and let down of not being happily married with children... it's not men who have to tell them this

shyt if anything it's other women.... "when you getting married girl... when you giving me a grandbaby... when you gonna settle down... i can't believe you aren't married yet"


men are not saying that type of shyt to women.... ever

It's not men that constantly have specials on TV about not being able to find a good mate. Its always women.[/QUOTE]
Funny, I was gonna post the same thing about the TV specials throwing Black men under the bus.

 

[Kid McNamara]

for men the game is reverse....we actually increase with value with age like wine....33-45 is a mans prime...thats when their established...20s is the hustle, get your ass kicked by the world years


thats why women fukk up, they wait around for prince charming instead of getting a diamond in the rough

prince charming dont exist....just find somebody that work and wont beat u...your man dont have to be perfect ladies

A lot of people tend to deny this because they allow themselves to get washed before 30, but it's the absolute truth.

I'm actually fat as hell and this still applies, though, I should be clearing the fukking earth in a year or so.

If you're composed, dressed well, and are ambitious, there is literally no competition.

 

[satireprod]

It's not men that constantly have specials on TV about not being able to find a good mate. Its always women.

Funny, I was gonna post the same thing about the TV specials throwing Black men under the bus.[/QUOTE]
Yeah man they always bring out those statistics of us being in jail or not having a job...im like damn not all of us are like that.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

It really depends on how good she looks.

Nah even Melyssa Ford fell off. Last time I seen this chick she looked like she was goin thru it

 

[LadySimone]

The irony.

Nothing ironic about it. We all in the same boat. bytching and complaining because we aint get choose by the people we think we have rights to.