Poll: What Is The Universal "I Need A Beta Male" Age For Women?

[Geek Nasty]

IMO thots never really settle for betas; but they'll sit on one...for now. If you're beta and you wife a thot she's always going to think like a thot, and if a better opportunity comes along you're sharing. Look at La La. bytch had her life SET but a thot gonna thot.

 

[agnosticlady]

At least you have solid male family members who are looking out for you. Quality people are hard to find these days, and it gets harder the longer you wait. Hollywood is definitely a huge factor in influencing people and having them believing in fantasies, but reality ends up being much different. Not watching cable for things other than the occasional sporting event is one of the best things to have happened to me.

A lot of young ladies need caring but stern male family members that genuinely car about them. A good father is irreplaceable so I think a father should always come first. My father loves me, but would always tell me the truth. One thing I noticed is that some fathers will delude their daughter into thinking you can do anything you want and all will be ok. A man should love you no matter what. If he doesn't love you at your worst then he doesn't deserve your best blah blah blah yada yada yada. The whole princess mentality is sickening.

 

[mamba]

At least you have solid male family members who are looking out for you. Quality people are hard to find these days, and it gets harder the longer you wait. Hollywood is definitely a huge factor in influencing people and having them believing in fantasies, but reality ends up being much different. Not watching cable for things other than the occasional sporting event is one of the best things to have happened to me.

I'm with you on that, breh. I don't even watch TV other than when sports are on.

That reality TV and other shyt is toxic.

 

[kevm3]

IMO thots never really settle for betas; but they'll sit on one...for now. If you're beta and you wife a thot she's always going to think like a thot, and if a better opportunity comes along you're sharing. Look at La La. bytch had her life SET but a thot gonna thot.

Yep, hoes are gonna hoe up because they are addicted to VARIETY. There's no routine of tricks you can pull or anything you can give them that will eliminate their craving for something new, which they will act on sooner or later.

 

[mamba]

Yep, hoes are gonna hoe up because they are addicted to VARIETY. There's no routine of tricks you can pull or anything you can give them that will eliminate their craving for something new, which they will act on sooner or later.

Yeah. It's hard to break old habits.

 

[re'up]

Honestly, we should stop with all this, it's fukking regressive and backwards....All these are societal gender roles and social mores that we have enforced to the point of absurdity.....Yes, biologically women have more trouble with birth after 35, so theres that....but this obsessing about men, and finding a man, to provide stability....these are the exact foundation for behavior men CONSTANTLY mock, hate, and decry in women. I know women past 34 who are just STUCK, and they shouldn't have to be....it's sad and shameful we push these rationales and how far it's gone.

Women should do what the fukk they want with themselves and their lives. I genuninely feel sorry for many of the women I know, they are so trapped by bullshyt expectations of their own, and others making, the economic/gender realities...it's fukked up. I feel so free by comparison....

My boys girl and I were talking the other day....she's gorgeous, 34d enhanced, beautiful, good girl....yet so insecure and scared inside, she was talking about all these surgeries and how she needs to look young to keep a man, because women and men age differently...I was just shaking my head, and tried to give her honest advice, be with someone who loves you and doesn't care if you AGE like a normal fukking person.....men and women are both to blame, but it's just crazy how both genders don't WANT to progress, they want shyt stuck in the 50's, or paleolithic times...women and men are too biologically similar to treat each other they way we do, from a societal perspective.

 

[MillionMills]

Honestly, we should stop with all this, it's fukking regressive and backwards....All these are societal gender roles and social mores that we have enforced to the point of absurdity.....Yes, biologically women have more trouble with birth after 35, so theres that....but this obsessing about men, and finding a man, to provide stability....these are the exact foundation for behavior men CONSTANTLY mock, hate, and decry in women. I know women past 34 who are just STUCK, and they shouldn't have to be....it's sad and shameful we push these rationales and how far it's gone.

Women should do what the fukk they want with themselves and their lives. I genuninely feel sorry for many of the women I know, they are so trapped by bullshyt expectations of their own, and others making, the economic/gender realities...it's fukked up. I feel so free by comparison....

My boys girl and I were talking the other day....she's gorgeous, 34d enhanced, beautiful, good girl....yet so insecure and scared inside, she was talking about all these surgeries and how she needs to look young to keep a man, because women and men age differently...I was just shaking my head, and tried to give her honest advice, be with someone who loves you and doesn't care if you AGE like a normal fukking person.....men and women are both to blame, but it's just crazy how both genders don't WANT to progress, they want shyt stuck in the 50's, or paleolithic times...women and men are too biologically similar to treat each other they way we do, from a societal perspective.

 

[mamba]

As I've mentioned, previously, finding a good woman over 30 is like digging through the trash to find something that hasn't been chewed on.

If you don't have to resort to that, don't do it, brehs.

Now, if you're a desperate nikka, by all means, happy digging.

 

[Reality]

What do brehs think about holding out until your early 30s to get serious? It makes obvious sense in terms of getting p*ssy, but for dudes looking to build a family with a good mother, do you guys see this as a good strategy? shyt seems like it's built to backfire to me and some old heads have told me it does.

What's the consensus? I'm 26 and generally vibe the most with women 26-28...how does the game change when you're 35 hollerin at a 27/28 year old? Aren't you just a come-up?

 

[At30wecashout]

What do brehs think about holding out until your early 30s to get serious? It makes obvious sense in terms of getting p*ssy, but for dudes looking to build a family with a good mother, do you guys see this as a good strategy? shyt seems like it's built to backfire to me and some old heads have told me it does.

What's the consensus?

Seems totally case by case. Between family and friends, I have seen relationships grow from a spectrum of ages and backgrounds. That isn't to say it will last,
or that there isn't dirt behind that that I am not aware of.

I think the general consensus is that as a young black male, your goal should be a put a framework in place to maximize your financial and interpersonal success.
Meeting someone you want to lock down doesn't happen often, so your time is better spent acquiring assets and letting the unworthy chicks run themselves ragged
so that when your situation is right, you can plow through numerous chicks to find the diamond. If you are bringing a ton to the table, the ladies come to you, reversing
the trend of chasing and sharing girls, wasting time and emotion throughout.

If you haven't found "The one" yet, acquire assets, and don't spill any seed and make your life right so that a woman becomes complimentary to your
situation, not the center of it.

I don't know if its been worded in such a way, but thats how I take it.

 

[Biscayne]

wow, so this is what that 30+ female bitterness sounds like. .

you were born when jordan still had a fade

can we get a female smiley?

"You were born when Jordan still had a fade"

dead...

 

[StickStickly]

No real best age. I think every breh has missed out on a good woman because he wasn't "ready" and it came too soon. They are out there,
but typically you are going to run into women that were single for reasons NOT related to pursuing a career. With that comes a flabby body and a kid, most often.

Just gotta go with your gut when a woman of value appears, cause you might run into her 5 years later, happy and wifed up by a decent dude and you think

"I fukked that up." Just don't pursue known recklessly loose women and you are halfway through to the "good" women without baggage.

There's one reason that a lot of you aren't looking at: many women are single in their late 20s because they've been in monogamous long term relationships or marriage in their early 20s and late teens and they need time alone before dating again.

This is the most common scenario I run across in the college educated crowd

 

[Biscayne]

I'm 30, for all you younger brehs just hold out, the roles change.

pm me your girls pic. I wanna see your Nubian queen.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

i voted before i started to read... i guess y'all are going off when she finally submits

i voted on 27-28 because that's when it begins and the hoeing is beginning to end

once she realizes she's close to 30.. closer to thirty than she is to 25... about 27.6.... it all changes

"i'm tired of being a fukk buddy... i need a real man.. i'm tired of the games... when are these nikkas gonna grow up.. what are we? i'm too old to just be fukking.. you aren't going to date me forever.. i need a title. how long before we make this serious. i'm trying to build a future.. that club life has got old... why don't you find a good woman to settle down with.. you still in the streets? that's for the young ones.. yea but that was the young me... i'm different now.. i'm over that phase.. all my friends are married.. i want a family.. i'm tired of the thugs.. i'm thinking i need to change my type.. momma was right!! i've realized what i want and won't accept less......."


blah blah fukking blah

 

[At30wecashout]

There's one reason that a lot of you aren't looking at: many women are single in their late 20s because they've been in monogamous long term relationships or marriage in their early 20s and late teens and they need time alone before dating again.

This is the most common scenario I run across in the college educated crowd

Yea I know that much. It doesn't change too many things, though they are usually the more level-headed sort. Only thing I know for sure is in the pursuit of the wrong woman, I know
of two I should have given all my attention to. It would be dope if every man when they recognized that would change their tune and go for it, cause she is here today and gone tomorrow.