Despite what people would say, a lot of guys here probably aren't getting much p*ssy

It isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it kinda plays
into their persona. Me for instance, I don't like the hookup culture. Even when I joke about it, I just don't like it. I have turned down enough
"late texts" to know that for a good while it was a thing. It doesn't bother me that someone was in a relationship or two, she was just living her life.
A woman who hopped beds...there is a chance she just liked sex, which is what I will assume. its all good. However if she exhibits insecurities, with her
experience comes baggage that us, the men, will inevitably have to deal with. Obviously for the men who fukk any and everything, he gonna be in the same boat.
However for some of us who bloomed late and aint with the fukkery that takes place, when we become most eligible, it is quite obviously the women who
"had their fun" who sees value in us first...which sucks because that value wasn't seen to be there before she gave her time and spirit to people who didn't deserve it.
I can't speak for anyone else, but it would be nice to cop a woman who still looks at things with wonderous eyes, and if she told me what she did with most of her life,
it was exploring things that weren't a penis. Being in the company of a woman who "been there/done that" robs a brotha of being the first for a lot of things.
Again, this is my perspective, can't speak for anyone else. Me being 27, I am living the reality of "Oh you don't have kids

" and all that. Literally having self control
seems to be a lost virtue. I want a woman down the line who is still good-natured and exploring, and waiting so long to realize this now has me in a bind of meeting more
also-ran women than not.