We just gonna act like Kevin Gates ain't in jail for just this?
Sexual assault goes in all directions as far as gender is concerned. Not wanting something to happen and having it happen anyway is having helplessness forced on you.
Your ability to physically prevent a situation in theory does not excuse having that situation forced on you to where you need to prove you can stop it, fam. Because sometimes circumstances don't let that shyt go the way it would 9/10. Because there's always gonna be that 1/10. Be you drunk, high, too shocked to react, or any other number of things... having shyt done to you without your say-so, even from a woman you might otherwise find attractive... shyt's still rape. Saying a woman can't be raped by a man she'd find attractive, either?
Hoping bruh can find someone to talk to about this shyt - when you get the laugh-cry going, that's trauma and that's lasting, and it's scarring. And if he doesn't get that sorted out, it'll fukk his life up. Hell, I've had it happen to me in my life - woke up to her riding on top of me when I didn't want that shyt happening cause - cute as she mighta been - I ain't know her like that, especially raw. And got the 'I'll say you raped me' threat so I couldn't toss her like I would have. And in a he-said she-said involving rape, you know who's winning that argument with a cop, especially when it's a black-he and a white-she.
Helplessness is helplessness, fukk who is 'more powerful'. I know most of y'all think you can wash any random white guy you meet... so that means we can't be oppressed by white people, because we're physically able to overpower them, right? Right? It isn't all about strength, it's about power. And having yours taken from you without you wanting to give it up is a fukked up feeling, period.
like shawty don't have your info where you running to
