Should Men Always -- Or Even Usually -- Pay For Dates?

[Blackking]

what's wrong with paying for dates......... shyt I love for hoes to come around to places with me.

Sometimes, I just met a chick and beat............... but if you like her that's not as Fun as hanging out...

I guess I'm just - and you nikkas just........

 

[Yup]

What? You sound ignorant and most likely broke. Women that make money usually don't have a problem with it. It's the scavengers that expect a dude to take care of them because they don't make anything or have kids.

I'm 29, no kids, decent job(s) , in good shape, college educated, and tall. I get subtly and sometimes outright asked out on dates by women.

The most a nikka might have to do is cover some coffee or a drink. Dinner and / or movies and all that shyt isn't happening.



I'm not out here looking for a wife but if I happen to find her then cool. And that's something you be straight up with from the jump.

I sound broke...lol...I think you are confusing me for you.

As for your stats...welcome to uou and the millions of others have the same thing.

 

[mamba]

Because he asked me out and that's what a man who dates supposed to do.

Do you ever ask men out? If so, do you pay?

What is this crap about what a man is "supposed" to do? I thought we were in the 21st century.

Are women still "supposed" to stay at home at tend to the house? Are women still "supposed" to have me a hot meal waiting when I come home from work? Are women still "supposed" to defer to men?

Those are things women have "traditionally" done.

 

[Yup]

Do you ever ask men out? If so, do you pay?

What is this crap about what a man is "supposed" to do? I thought we were in the 21st century.

Are women still "supposed" to stay at home at tend to the house? Are women still "supposed" to have me a hot meal waiting when I come home from work? Are women still "supposed" to defer to men?

Those are things women have "traditionally" done.

Again...you don't want to pay...tell the girl you are with that you aren't.

 

[mamba]

Again...you don't want to pay...tell the girl you are with that you aren't.

You didn't answer any of my questions. I don't deal with leeches and parasites. The women I deal with either pay from time to time or do other things like cook for a breh.

Only a simp ass nikka would be out here paying for 20 straight dates. Only a leech ass woman would sit there and allow a man she's truly interested in to pay for 20 straight dates.

You delusional women have the game all wrong. Which is why most of you all cannot get a man to take you all seriously.

 

[Luck]

I sound broke...lol...I think you are confusing me for you.

As for your stats...welcome to uou and the millions of others have the same thing.

I'm broke but you don't have enough pride and self worth as a woman to understand that you don't take hand outs from men then expect to be treated equally. That's IF you made money, because women that I know that make money pay for dates the same as men do

 

[MikelArteta]

Exactly my point breh
Even if its dinner pay for your damn food and I'll pay for mine

If were inclusive sure I don't mind paying if your s good friend I don't mind as well

But besides that?

And these women know before the bill comes if they want to see you again.

Again, why are you paying for strangers you just met? Were friends until I see otherwise. Lets hit up a bar, get a little tipsy and chop it up. I pay for a round, you pay for a round. Got a issue with that you a beeytchhhhhh

 

[Yup]

You didn't answer any of my questions. I don't deal with leeches and parasites. The women I deal with either pay from time to time or do other things like cook for a breh.

Only a simp ass nikka would be out here paying for 20 straight dates. Only a leech ass woman would sit there and allow a man she's truly interested in to pay for 20 straight dates.

You delusional women have the game all wrong. Which is why most of you all cannot get a man to take you all seriously.

I ain't cooking for a man I am dating unless we are in a committed relationship.

When's the last time you had a girlfriend @mamba?

 

[Yup]

You didn't answer any of my questions. I don't deal with leeches and parasites. The women I deal with either pay from time to time or do other things like cook for a breh.

Only a simp ass nikka would be out here paying for 20 straight dates. Only a leech ass woman would sit there and allow a man she's truly interested in to pay for 20 straight dates.

You delusional women have the game all wrong. Which is why most of you all cannot get a man to take you all seriously.

Those tactics don't work on me. Again I have had no problem with guys paying in real life.

You don't want to pay...you know wawhat you need to do.

 

[mamba]

I ain't cooking for a man I am dating unless we are in a committed relationship.

When's the last time you had a girlfriend @mamba?

I ended things with a girl this past November. Currently seeing a few women--all Black before you jump to conclusions! They've all either already cooked for me or have made an offer to do so. They've also paid for dates.

@mamba just doesn't talk a good game. I'm a principled nikka. I don't deal with leeches.

I stay with something nice on my arms, brehette. I'm a unicorn-type nikka, so it comes with the territory.

 

[-DMP-]

Are most of you people up north or just young?

Its really not that big of a deal for people who are single, middle class.

We usually alternate, sometimes ill offer to cook, sometimes theyll cook, sometimes ill pay, sometimes they'll pay. That way no one feels played and both parties are invested.

I only feel men should (expect) to pay (all the time) if you are trying to win a chick over. I tend not to do that tho because that's not my philosophy in life.

-DMP-

 

[Yup]

I ended things with a girl this past November. Currently seeing a few women--all Black before you jump to conclusions! They've all either already cooked for me or have made an offer to do so. They've also paid for dates.

@mamba just doesn't talk a good game. I'm a principled nikka. I don't deal with leeches.

I stay with something nice on my arms, brehette. I'm a unicorn-type nikka, so it comes with the territory.

Yup...I am sure you are treating these women as the undeveloped minds they are.

If these women are cooking for you...good for you. I aint doing it for a man that's juggling me and tens of other girls and has the audacity to shame me for not treating him like a boyfriend When he isn't one.

 

[Yup]

I ended things with a girl this past November. Currently seeing a few women--all Black before you jump to conclusions! They've all either already cooked for me or have made an offer to do so. They've also paid for dates.

@mamba just doesn't talk a good game. I'm a principled nikka. I don't deal with leeches.

I stay with something nice on my arms, brehette. I'm a unicorn-type nikka, so it comes with the territory.

I am not impressed.

 

[Luck]

I like how @Yup conviently skipped my response.

Did your parents raise you to accept hand outs from men? And, if a woman always pays for everything, are you OK with that?

 

[Taadow]

I ain't cooking for a man I am dating unless we are in a committed relationship.

Ever??

You wouldn't ever cook anything for a man you are seeing unless y'all have the "we gong steady (lol) talk"??



Lemme ask you something...just how many "committed relationships" have you had?