So you guys aren't okay with rappers buying expensive chains,but are okay with lavish weddings smh.

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At least chains last forever:sas2:

People are worried about rappers holding money to their ear,meanwhile men accross the country are agreeing to pay for weddings that immediately put them into debt.

Its already a shame that you don't have more black people joining in holy union and building empires together. But the ones who do 99% of them start out in the red trying live beyond their means. Even whats whats supposed to be a holy wedding turned into a circus.

Not to mention the overpriced home to show off for their friends like they are living the dream. Overpriced carnotes that keep them right on the cusp of bankruptcy.

I advocate for marriage as a way to build the black family and as the quickest way to build black wealth. But the more I look around the more I see keeping most of these women happy,and keeping your friends jealous,cost alot of money and just makes a spouse more of an anchor than anything:martin:
 
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Matt504 said:
Buying things you can't afford is irresponsible
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:yeshrug:He happy breh turned his life around and married the woman he loves.
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Gucci Mane isn't even really the point here,just an example.

I'm not as mad at rappers as I am the average person.

People are very hypocritical in what they call people for quote on quote wasting money on. Weddings should be one of those things.

A rapper can afford a a 100-500K chain,more than the average black male can really afford a 20-35K wedding.(35K looking like the average) not to mention the rings:snoop:

and lets not even talk about the cars that cost 20 thousand dollars a pop you and your lady need:snoop:
 
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Poitier said:
What man you know really out here wanting to break bread on a wedding?:martin:
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None,which makes it even worse:mjlol:

Be a man and tell her you don't care about a wedding and would rather put the money elsewhere and build.

But men are too scared to ask women for prenups too,sounds like your assuming men can't fall in love enough to make stupid decisions just like women.
 
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StarGirl said:
Ha I see y’all bitter this morning
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Men,don't let women trick you into paying for these weddings and lavish lifestyles by telling you how you feel.

This is how men get fooled all the time,woman tells him he doesn't love her if he is not willing to whatever illogical request she has in mind. And to prove she is wrong he goes along with it like a sucka.

But most men who get married have been nuteured by the time they walk down the isle and don't have the nuts to have a real mans state of mind. Always put a year or two inbetween your engagment and your wedding. Hopefully you can get em back before its too late.
 
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Men,don't let women trick you into paying for these weddings and lavish lifestyles by telling you how you feel.

This is how men get fooled all the time,woman tells him he doesn't love her if he is not willing to whatever illogical request she has in mind. And to prove she is wrong he goes along with it like a sucka.

But most men who get married have been nuteured by the time they walk down the isle and don't have the nuts to have a real mans state of mind. Always put a year or two inbetween your engagment and your wedding. Hopefully you can get em back before its too late.
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People need to really start separating their sense of self from those of celebrities/ wealthy people.
 
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