SPIN: How do I Pick a Non-Cheating Spouse?
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SheWantTheD
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thecoli is very negative, bitter and jaded when it comes to male female relationships.
Not everything and everyone are fukked.
Not everything and everyone are fukked.
You have to be very honest with her. And demand the same. Sexual history, financial history, religious views, they all have to be very similar or the relationship will not work out in an ideal manner.
And when you have a disagreement, you have to be willing to talk about, work through the tough times and not leave. You gain respect for each other this way.
And when you have a disagreement, you have to be willing to talk about, work through the tough times and not leave. You gain respect for each other this way.
idonttouchgrass
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Rocket Scientist
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She might not have any time at all...
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
You must live in deep south...
FeloniousMonk
Dont mind me..Im a azzhole
Find a mormon..
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It's not a bad idea
Typically you would know her
And her history
And the type of woman she is
And you can buy less presents at Christmas time
also I don't get people actually being angry at the question posed
you can vet and find someone who is far less likely to do it, but a cheater is a cheater. it doesn't have to be an active distrust that you have for your partner but know that it can happen to anybody no matter how much you trust, or how much confidence you have in your ability to choose a partner. I'd say blind trust is the reason so many people get blindsided, is because those red flags pop up and they ignore them. then you have the people who can rationalize their cheating and not have any give away's about the dirt they are doing.
also relationships change, she/he might not have cheated 5-10 years ago but if you guys are going through some things, or they're going through a period where they are not as attracted to you as in the past that door is open.
you can vet and find someone who is far less likely to do it, but a cheater is a cheater. it doesn't have to be an active distrust that you have for your partner but know that it can happen to anybody no matter how much you trust, or how much confidence you have in your ability to choose a partner. I'd say blind trust is the reason so many people get blindsided, is because those red flags pop up and they ignore them. then you have the people who can rationalize their cheating and not have any give away's about the dirt they are doing.
also relationships change, she/he might not have cheated 5-10 years ago but if you guys are going through some things, or they're going through a period where they are not as attracted to you as in the past that door is open.
All these suggestions, all these spouses will still cheat on you.
Just be alone and develop a vice.
Just be alone and develop a vice.
