Spinoff thread: List 5 good reasons for a man to get married in this day and age

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They don't wanna be wives they wanna be brides. They all think about that "big day" where she can be a princess, but nothing that comes after it.

Just like they "Want a baby so bad :noah:" but then get frustrated with everything that comes after that. Like its a problem taking care of a child you said you wanted, or you should be entitled to some sort of praise because you did your job as a mother.
this doesn't apply to me but do you boo:yeshrug:
 

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It should be list 5 reasons why a woman should get married

She will have to take care of the kids the majority of the time (marriage no marriage)

She will not have to cook and clean up after you like you are another child

She no longer has to take (oh he's a man he is gonna cheat,look at other women)

She works just as much as a man.



I could probably list more but I want to get married one day:pachaha:

Agreed. If it's not the right man, I would rather just stay single.
 

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1. A faithful companion :mjlol:
2. Two salaries are better than one :ehh:
3. Your kids won't be b*stards :umad:
4. Regular home cooked meals :usure:
5. :patrice:
1. Faithful Companion :skip:

2. If she's working, you're not getting regularly cooked meals, and if she's not working and you do get regularly cooked meals then there's no second salary.

3. :ehh:

4. See 2.
 

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Women are told to marry well, men are taught to marry someone they can trust. :francis:

I'm sure you can understand why.

That's not what I was told. :yeshrug:

No one is forced to get married though so idk why so many guys on here get so peeve about something that they really DON'T have to do.
 

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1. your children won't be b*stards
2. people won't look down on the mother of your children because she had kids with a man she isn't married to (an unmarried mother is a single mother and is included in the single mother stat and your children will be in the fatherless children stat)
3. religious reasons
4. Better for your community
5. because he wants to
 

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ModernFonzie said:
I feel that. A lot of people do. Until divorce comes, and you lose your house, your kids, and half of your savings due to lawyer fees, end up paying alimony and child support, while struggling to maintain and keep a 1 bedroom apartment because all of your money is gone, and all of the money coming in doesn't go in your pocket. :manny:

None of that happened to me or anyone I know. The couples who did split did it amicably.

NONE of your posts are indicative of what is most likely to occur.

The problem with you is you don't trust women or yourself.

:usure:
 

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That's not what I was told. :yeshrug:

No one is forced to get married though so idk why so many guys on here get so peeve about something that they really DON'T have to do.
Well everyone wants love. And for many women they give that ultimatum, and most guys are too much of pussies to put their foot down.

Like I said, I'm not against marriage, if you want to get raped then do you. I just wouldn't do it myself.
 

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Don't know many happy single men and women of old age and no family. Most are bitter, but only you as an individual can decide whats a life worth living :manny:


:laff: @ mentioning assets.......Most of you are broke and bums. nikka talking about "getting raped" but lives with his mom and makes 30k :dead:
 

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Well everyone wants love. And for many women they give that ultimatum, and most guys are too much of pussies to put their foot down.

Like I said, I'm not against marriage, if you want to get raped then do you. I just wouldn't do it myself.

Live and let live.
 
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I feel that. A lot of people do. Until divorce comes, and you lose your house, your kids, and half of your savings due to lawyer fees, end up paying alimony and child support, while struggling to maintain and keep a 1 bedroom apartment because all of your money is gone, and all of the money coming in doesn't go in your pocket. :manny:


I'm not even against marriage, I'm just not doing it. But I wouldnt walk into a prison with booty shorts on, a crop top And KY jelly in my hand either so :yeshrug:
yeah, you shouldn't be getting married :francis:
 

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None of that happened to me or anyone I know. The couples who did split did it amicably.

NONE of your posts are indicative of what is most likely to occur.

The problem with you is you don't trust women or yourself.

:usure:
:duck:

Everyone knows someone whos divorced and is going through it. At least one. My posts are indicative of what happens in most cases.

If divorce is at 60% and of that 60%, 75% are initiated by the woman, that means that there's a 45% chance that at some point a man will be divorced by a woman. And will be fukked without lube for the foreseeable future.

No thanks. Do you though breh.
 
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