The mystery of life is to learn the best way to have a good enjoyable life, imo...whether that be 20 years or 95 years...don't waste your shyt, make the best of your time.
Create wise distractions to ease the pain and sorrow that life is sure to dish out in abundance before you leave this rock...just to keep yourself from breaking down. Oh, and really cherish and enjoy the parts of life that are good and joyous...because unfortunately they're fleeting. Just some tips on how to maximize happiness while here.