Your credit scores matter, and credit cards are not the devil. You just have to be responsible and try to keep your balance under 10% of your credit limit, pay on time, and track yourself every month. I learned so much on the MyFico forums, and those people are serious about their credit. Here's a link if anyone wants to look into it:
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Look into cards with rewards or cash back. That's how I use my Discocer and either apply the cash back to my payment (this just became an option) or use it on Amazon.
If you're applying for a loan, make sure your credit is right first, because your scores take hits and will lose points with hard (lender pulls) inquiries.
I track my Experian score using Experian credit tracker. It's a great tool!
I've been working on rebuilding my credit for almost 4 years this Summer, trying to make sure everything is right for me to be a home owner in the future, and now all 3 of my reports show scores in the 700's and climbing. It's a lot of work, but it's worth it! I had a medical catastrophe and was told to file bankruptcy. I said no, and got really wise really quick. "Started from the bottom now we here!"
This is a good thread, OP. Get your money up!
@MillionMills
PS, I am a female poster, and I'm in. It's all good information for anyone to know, but it also has to do with how I was raised and expected to be educated. To have a partner/husband to provide for/with me would be nice, but I can't live my life expecting to have a man do it all. My dad made sure I started building credit at 18 and I first started by buying my own car. Had the payments taken weekly since I got paid weekly.
I'm 28 now, single, no children, but hopefully I'll be blessed with that life in the future. My father told me when I'm looking at me to be serious with, to look for a man with whom I can build, and I took it to heart! Trying to make sure I have more to take to the table than a pretty face and nice body. Getting your money right is also about getting your mind right, dedication and hard work.