The official Handsome Nxgga Problems thread - all brehs and brehettes welcome

[Big Boda]

That's enough out of you boda

just tellin life stories breh im sure u been through some of this stuff. cant just be me.
When i was a kid I was but it seem like the moment I started playing JV football getting my self esteem game up and caring about my body muscle game the whole world started opening up to me.
After you grow up clowned and made fun of the new world of attraction still blows you away because I remember how to be humble.
Alot of times when these fine azz ladies start checking for me i be like "the old 'fine girl wants you' trick ..this shyt is a trap" but then I remember its because I'm Me.

I aint bout to put everything on the table but if you only knew what I been through to still be standing.. i can completely understand why so many treat me like a boss everywhere I go. I know what I want out of life and who I am now. When I'm at different places I notice the change in treatment like the dudes around me get while I get "Hey whats up bossman anything u need I got you" its preferential favortism for me.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Yute, even if u look like seal, you'll still get Pum Pum. It's not hard, like other posters said, you need confidence, take good care of yourself ( working out in the gym), nice clothes, MONEY, GOOD HYGIENE, know how to spit a little game, and BOOM Pum Pum falls in your lap. Another poster said what if "Micheal Jordan never believe in himself and never pick up a basketball"?

I've seen yutes that looks like Gucci man or Lil Boosie bag dimes.

i hear ya, but honestly from experience chicks don't even bother looking my way. I've come to accept that I'm a below average looking dude

 

[BujuBoombastic]

Exactly. If ya mind ain't right none of this shyt will come together. Being confident and knowing how to talk are key parts of it. It's the logical place to start. But you also can't put so much emphasis on bytches that you are so deficient in other areas. You got cats with tons of $ but zero social skills, zero life experiences and then think they don't have to care of themselves and develop a personality.

I agree.

I've talk to different girls that I'm attracted to, and they diss or turn me down PLENTY of times. That was my confidence builder without facing any low self esteem issues. Went from SSG 1 to SSG 4.

I personally think this will help yutes if they're having problems socializing with an woman. But like u said, yutes that have tons of cash with no life or social experiences have it easy. It's easier for them than a regular guy trying to spit his game on a girl. It will hurt rich guys in a long run though.

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

just tellin life stories breh im sure u been through some of this stuff. cant just be me.
When i was a kid I was but it seem like the moment I started playing JV football getting my self esteem game up and caring about my body muscle game the whole world started opening up to me.
After you grow up clowned and made fun of the new world of attraction still blows you away because I remember how to be humble.
Alot of times when these fine azz ladies start checking for me i be like "the old 'fine girl wants you' trick ..this shyt is a trap" but then I remember its because I'm Me.

I aint bout to put everything on the table but if you only knew what I been through to still be standing.. i can completely understand why so many treat me like a boss everywhere I go. I know what I want out of life and who I am now. When I'm at different places I notice the change in treatment like the dudes around me get while I get "Hey whats up bossman anything u need I got you" its preferential favortism for me.

 

[Big Boda]

lol for real I catch myself thinking "yeah she want me but whats the catch?" because my best homies are catching Hell from they fine girlfriends. Got a homie fighting for custody right now but we all knew shorty he got with was finer than any of the other girls in the area.

 

[BujuBoombastic]

i hear ya, but honestly from experience chicks don't even bother looking my way. I've come to accept that I'm a below average looking dude

Not every girl in the world will be attracted to us. That's why u have to have that Jordan mentally when it comes to bagging chicks.

" I've been rejected by girls more than 9000 times in my life. I've been dissed by females almost 300 times a day. 100 times, I've been spitting my game to ladies to take her out on a date, and missed on the opportunity. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed." True story by the way.

Stop with excuses.

 

[AAKing23]

This thread makes me reminisce about all the shyt I've missed out on because I couldn't read signs from chicks

That and plus I didn't have the confidence to believe in myself to act on it when it happened.

 

[Big Boda]

alot of self image issues come from the system here too lets be real. We grew up with white slim nosed thin lipped heroes at least I did. Not seeing quality representations of myself outside of Zack on power rangers had an affect on my self image looking back.

When you start understanding what beauty really is you see that your black features are a blessing instead of a curse from ya nose to your lips, whatever type skintone you got light or dark you gotta embrace that shyt. As far as the weight thing its in females instincts to want a survivor/protector dude not some cat they gotta pray make it out the hospital.

 

[ISO]

or you look like (insert random light skinned celebrity)

In just these past few months I got that I look like J. Cole, Mario and the light skinned nikka from ATL.

Having your breh mad at you because chicks gravitate towards you when you wingman or go places with him.

For all my brehs that are or have been in college, girls wanting to "study" with you.

Girls assuming your a player.

 

[360dagod]

In just these past few months I got that I look like J. Cole, Mario and the light skinned nikka from ATL.

Having your breh mad at you because chicks gravitate towards you when you wingman or go places with him.

For all my brehs that are or have been in college, girls wanting to "study" with you.

Girls assuming your a player.

My friend went to Bronx Community College....

If he was about that thot loving life, he coulda plugged a nikka in...

My friends aint shyt

 

[O.T.I.S.]

In just these past few months I got that I look like J. Cole, Mario and the light skinned nikka from ATL.

Having your breh mad at you because chicks gravitate towards you when you wingman or go places with him.

For all my brehs that are or have been in college, girls wanting to "study" with you.

Girls assuming your a player.

I think this is the one that pisses me off the most

 

[360dagod]

This thread makes me reminisce about all the shyt I've missed out on because I couldn't read signs from chicks

That and plus I didn't have the confidence to believe in myself to act on it when it happened.

By the time I snap outta my day dream, its pretty much too late...

Im a heavy thinker, and sometimes I be in my own world...

plus im quiet and unintentionally have the face, so females be shook to say something

I know I missed out on quite a few..

oh well

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

 

[RealAssanova]

i be the friendliest 6'0, light-skinned, curly hair nikka yet women stay givin me the look.

@Ms.CuriousCat somali girls are notorious for doin this....acting like they to good for da kidd, but then hit me up on some "i got your number from so and so" or randomly sending their friends upto me to ask if i'm single when the girl didn't even look at me

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

@RealAssanova plausible deniability it has to be confirmed that you are interested and available before any real interest is conveyed, no girl wants to hear how she's been chasing after so and so, ceeb badanaa