There ain't no such thing as male "friends"

Diondon

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If a girl looks like this...

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I don't PAWG but Jesus Christ :whew:
 

William F. Russell

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I disagree...

I have a male friend I've known for over 20yrs.... he knew me when I was snot nosed....
Nothing more than friends.... ever..... I call or text when I need advice or need to vent about dudes...
I love him like my brother....


Believe me, your "male friend" wanted/wants to get with you. Why do you think he's so readily available to you?

Absolute :duck: that he views you in a strictly platonic light.

But :what: to that dude for not being clear with you as to his feelings.
 

William F. Russell

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He's not gay... 6'5 220 (used to play basketball overseas) he's a lady slayer.......Of course he friendzoned me... we are friends....


He lives out of state... and back when I was in college (he visited) I only had one bed (queen size)... he slept in it with me... nbd...


And no... he is a great dude... and a great friend....he would never do that

:duck:
 

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I personally don't have problems being friends with females cuz I'm not pressed for p*ssy. And I guess I'm different than most men because once I put a girl in the "friend" box, I have no desire to fukk. But my issue with them is most females don't want a true "friendship" with a man, they want a man stand-in who does all the things the nikka they fukking won't. Like actually sit and listen to their bullshyt whining about everything, entertain them when their bored, be there for them whenever they need something, boost their self-esteem. But it's completely one-sided - what the hell do I get out of this exchange?

They play dumb but females know exactly what their doing, they keep dudes as "friends", knowing the man want to fukk, and would do anything for them. Got nikkas fixing their cars, mowing their lawns, helping them move talking about "we're just friends". Knowing damn well that if it wasn't for the potential of maybe one day getting some box, he wouldn't let you use him like that.
 

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I personally don't have problems being friends with females cuz I'm not pressed for p*ssy. And I guess I'm different than most men because once I put a girl in the "friend" box, I have no desire to fukk. But my issue with them is most females don't want a true "friendship" with a man, they want a man stand-in who does all the things the nikka they fukking won't. Like actually sit and listen to their bullshyt whining about everything, entertain them when their bored, be there for them whenever they need something, boost their self-esteem. But it's completely one-sided - what the hell do I get out of this exchange?

They play dumb but females know exactly what their doing, they keep dudes as "friends", knowing the man want to fukk, and would do anything for them. Got nikkas fixing their cars, mowing their lawns, helping them move talking about "we're just friends". Knowing damn well that if it wasn't for the potential of maybe one day getting some box, he wouldn't let you use him like that.

Those are what you call leeches. I don't respect no damn leech, whether its female or male. Females who do that shyt, I call out on it right away and say that its against the Bible to use kindness as weakness.
 

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Ur afraid Im right. If Im wrong it wont affect the relationship.... it doesnt for guys :biggapls:

Nah it's just not a good plan. I have 2 male friends. One is a married man (his wife is also a good friend) and the other is half way across the country with a g/f so I think it would affect the relationship. I will just enjoy the friendships and until they prove otherwise I will keep considering them friends. Besides if I threw it at a dude (with the exception of those in a committed relationship) and he accepted I wouldn't consider it a character flaw. I would consider him sane :win: .
 

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Nah it's just not a good plan. I have 2 male friends. One is a married man (his wife is also a good friend) and the other is half way across the country with a g/f so I think it would affect the relationship. I will just enjoy the friendships and until they prove otherwise I will keep considering them friends. Besides if I threw it at a dude (with the exception of those in a committed relationship) and he accepted I wouldn't consider it a character flaw. I would consider him sane :win: .

As a friend, would you BUY anything for your male friends for their birthday?
 
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