Who in that married couple did u know thirst, I mean first, who did u know first.Nah it's just not a good plan. I have 2 male friends. One is a married man (his wife is also a good friend) and the other is half way across the country with a g/f so I think it would affect the relationship. I will just enjoy the friendships and until they prove otherwise I will keep considering them friends. Besides if I threw it at a dude (with the exception of those in a committed relationship) and he accepted I wouldn't consider it a character flaw. I would consider him sane.
There ain't no such thing as male "friends"
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I knew her first through work (not stripping). He started dating her and then I met his roommate who is the other guy friend. We all now really great friends. I actually like the husband as a person more than I like her honestly. I hang out with roomie (or I did before he moved) alone or with roomie and husband all the time. I only hang out with her when husband is around; never alone.
Now that roomie moved I never hang out with husband unless she is around (out of respect of course). But when roomie comes back into town we all will happily ditch her. She is a bit of a nag.
Brehette, if you're a straight man and you have a straight female in your social circle, it is absolutely impossible that said straight man hasn't viewed in a some sort of romantic/sexual light. When a straight man takes to having these thoughts, he either: a. acts upon those feelings or b. stifles them out of fear or censorship.
So when you claim that straight dudes, especially one that are in your social circle, are being your "friends", chances are that they've viewed you in a romantic/sexual light and are stifling their feelings.
There's really no other way.
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thats stupid as hell. of course a nikkas gonna say yes to a bytch asking for sex
you nikkas might as well say yo bytch cant work at a job with guys as co workers
yall insecure as fukk
I wouldnt let my girl be all on the phone and texting nikkas and chillin with them tho
How you gonna check nikkas for being insecure but then you wont let your chick call/text dudes.
nikka please. Join the club.
U are probably cooler with the husband than the wife, because the wife doesnt like you hanging out with her husband dolo, and the husband is... 'feeling ur energy'
U can play it however u want but odds are high ur arrangement is not an exception to human biology.
If a chick wants to operate outside of parameters ur cool with,How you gonna check nikkas for being insecure but then you wont let your chick call/text dudes.
nikka please. Join the club.
No checking necessary. Call me a chauvanist or whatever but if u are in a relationship what the fukk do u have to be talking/texting someone of the opposite gender all the time about?
Its one thing if ur out with a group and everyone is interacting... but that one on one shyt....
Because he basically is. There is a difference between a guy you grew up with and a guy who you met as an adult.
thats stupid as hell. of course a nikkas gonna say yes to a bytch asking for sex
you nikkas might as well say yo bytch cant work at a job with guys as co workers
yall insecure as fukk
I wouldnt let my girl be all on the phone and texting nikkas and chillin with them tho
That's what friends do breh.
Friends don't fukk, however. Therefore if a guy, or girl for that matter, is down to fukk they aren't actually friends.
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Brehette, if you're a straight man and you have a straight female in your social circle, it is absolutely impossible that said straight man hasn't viewed in a some sort of romantic/sexual light. When a straight man takes to having these thoughts, he either: a. acts upon those feelings or b. stifles them out of fear or censorship.
So when you claim that straight dudes, especially one that are in your social circle, are being your "friends", chances are that they've viewed you in a romantic/sexual light and are stifling their feelings.
There's really no other way.
U are probably cooler with the husband than the wife, because the wife doesnt like you hanging out with her husband dolo, and the husband is... 'feeling ur energy'
U can play it however u want but odds are high ur arrangement is not an exception to human biology.
IDK maybe you all are right.
But this is also the same forum that has declared time and time again that I am an uneducated degenerate who will have multiple baby daddies, live off the system and never be able to have a decent man in my life.
All of which is untrue but spoken like it's the gospel. I think I'll stick with my friends and their track record of consistent platonic kindness and friendship until proven otherwise.
IDK maybe you all are right.
Conflate your question with irrelevant past statements to avoid accepting the truth, brehettes.
I never said any of that shyt.IDK maybe you all are right.
All Imma say is this. If u think the friendship is that real, u throwing the noni out shouldn't change a thing
I think I'll stick with my friends and their track record of consistent platonic kindness and friendship until proven otherwise.
Offer to f*ck all of your so called male "friends" and see if each will reject you because they want to stay "friends"
IDK maybe you all are right.
Call all of your friends, male and female, and say "Hey I wanna fukk! Come over right now and get this p*ssy!" and see how platonic that kindness is.
I never said any of that shyt.
All Imma say is this. If u think the friendship is that real, u throwing the noni out shouldn't change a thing
Or give the dude some money in times of need. I asked for money from my real friends when I was broke a decade ago and they did so without problem. Can a female friend lend you money in times of need?