UCLA Study: Women want bad boys to knock them up, nice guys to raise the babies...

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Sheryl Sandberg of Facebook is a huge proponent of this. I can only imagine how her husband felt when she made that proclamation in public.
 

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1) Don't marry/get into relationships with single moms
2) If she's not fukking you within 3 dates, bush her. She's either not sexually attracted to you or she has unresolved trust/mental health issues

Follow these 2 rules and you will avoid a lot of terrible experiences with women :yeshrug:


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1) Don't marry/get into relationships with single moms
2) If she's not fukking you within 3 dates, bush her. She's either not sexually attracted to you or she has unresolved trust/mental health issues

Follow these 2 rules and you will avoid a lot of terrible experiences with women :yeshrug:

Sheeeettt, I give it 2 meet ups. I don’t do 3 anymore.
 

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1) Don't marry/get into relationships with single moms
2) If she's not fukking you within 3 dates, bush her. She's either not sexually attracted to you or she has unresolved trust/mental health issues

Follow these 2 rules and you will avoid a lot of terrible experiences with women :yeshrug:
real shyt my dad did that and that's why I'm typing these words :russ:










































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Think about it:
Let's stereotype these terms in how women think!

Bad Boy - Confident, In Shape, Rebellious, Adventerous, Bold, Kick Asser,

Nice Guy - Shy or too easy going, Tip toes their way around to what they really want, not as confident (pushover), people pleaser for approval or kind of kiss assish.

It's not really "nice" vs "bad" ; as much as "true confidence" vs "pump faking"

Because alot of nice guys are being bad at being good people if you really think about it from that list.

Because most times bad boy is more of a image thing than an actual life choice. For the clout to be seen as cool but you be surprised how much behind the scenes those guys do to take care of themselves.

You have to understand these terms are highly misused to simplify the worst tastes out of people's reactions.

Instead let's focus on the heart of the issue by that not enough dudes feel like they getting any attention for whatever reason when the bad boy knows it's all eyes on me so that makes the difference is the attitude we approach to the same situation.

The only reason why these bad boys don't stick with these woman is because they feel like they got other options which is true in their case but if they didn't then they would probably stick around a lot more.

Life is complicated enough.
Some easy ass would be nice without having to burn the pockets for it. King always gets free knocks.

Ha! Tying up the loose ends yet see just think any nice guy could be a bad boy if they know how to put their image in the best light.

Simple enough as that!


What you wrote for nice guy describes me and is on point. How can I stop being shy, too easy going, not confident, being a pushover and a major people pleaser??
 

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What you wrote for nice guy describes me and is on point. How can I stop being shy, too easy going, not confident, being a pushover and a major people pleaser??

Here is a good list of tips:

1. Put yourself first and follow through with priorities.

Here's why:
It's useless to try to chase women catching any fancy if you can't take care of yourself.
All a woman would see is another guy with nothing going trying to mooch happiness off of her.
When your responsible for your own self happiness it makes you look more respectfully responsible.

2. Reframe your mindset!
You can do anything you want.

What I mean by that is:
Those who push their own limits don't allow the illusion of limitations stop them from what they set out to do. Stop pitying your faults and congratulate yourself for all the good you have.

3. Know Thyself. Self Reflect to Self Correct!

This gets deep so take notes:
We all have faults and flaws. However the bravest embraces what can't be fixed and instead corrects what can be done instead. Moments of embarrassment or lowly pity can always be replaced by what you feel is more honorable or maybe redeeming.
Let's put a what if story out there so say you made a shy guy attempt at meeting a girl who laughs at you for being "pathetic" in her eyes. Well then you see the same girl again and here you are happier (maybe you take the diet you put off and now you losing weight or maybe stood up to your little brothers bully and feel proud)
And she sees you smiling unaffected now she gets curious that you don't feel bad because you're happy for yourself now she gets curious enough to let you make a move (maybe even more)
The whole point is no matter the lows we feel can always never replace your internal feeling of self worth which is built by confidence.

4. Learn to Live With Yourself.

Before we invite others into our lives we must be welcoming of living with ourselves. Learn to set boundaries when others say/do wrong to you. Stand up for the friends around you who need your help. The more noble of a life you set to seek is the outcome of how people will favor liking to you. But always know your helping hand doesn't set out for wrong so once you let people know your kindness is genuine and can't be used then they will respect your word more humbly.
Also instead of looking at a person's beauty from first sight take time to know them because you in the end want to be happy with someone on your level who understands you and fulfill the best out of you.

This is only my advice if you want to become a real solid individual in your choices that you won't regret.

However don't live by my words alone instead experience the best out of them and live happy for yourself.
You will find these words mean much more then than as of now.
 

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Think about it:
Let's stereotype these terms in how women think!

Bad Boy - Confident, In Shape, Rebellious, Adventerous, Bold, Kick Asser,

Nice Guy - Shy or too easy going, Tip toes their way around to what they really want, not as confident (pushover), people pleaser for approval or kind of kiss assish.

It's not really "nice" vs "bad" ; as much as "true confidence" vs "pump faking"

Because alot of nice guys are being bad at being good people if you really think about it from that list.

Because most times bad boy is more of a image thing than an actual life choice. For the clout to be seen as cool but you be surprised how much behind the scenes those guys do to take care of themselves.

You have to understand these terms are highly misused to simplify the worst tastes out of people's reactions.

Instead let's focus on the heart of the issue by that not enough dudes feel like they getting any attention for whatever reason when the bad boy knows it's all eyes on me so that makes the difference is the attitude we approach to the same situation.

The only reason why these bad boys don't stick with these woman is because they feel like they got other options which is true in their case but if they didn't then they would probably stick around a lot more.

Life is complicated enough.
Some easy ass would be nice without having to burn the pockets for it. King always gets free knocks.

Ha! Tying up the loose ends yet see just think any nice guy could be a bad boy if they know how to put their image in the best light.

Simple enough as that!

This is so true. Growing up, I use to know many brehs who would join gangs just so they can get bytches. They weren't tryin to sell any drugs or get into any shootouts, and it worked lol.
 

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What you wrote for nice guy describes me and is on point. How can I stop being shy, too easy going, not confident, being a pushover and a major people pleaser??

To be very honest...

Lift,take up a physical sport,eat right....

Also your value as a man determines how people perceive you..
 
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