Why are modern day women so devoid of personality?

[UserNameless]

I've tried that..taking a girl and trying to get her into the stuff you're into.

But it always fails. They either lack interest in what I'm showing them, aren't smart enough to understand it, or lose attraction to me because of my interests. Lotta girls right now are looking for your stereotypical pretty boy dude who's a "bad boy" but doesn't have any real substance or life skills. The second you show them some art or a fukking book you're a "lame." ...

you're reppin NYC and haven't run into an artsy, weirdo, anti-social, bookworm who fires off obscure literary references and knows how to make her own soap and plays Mah Jong and listens to an underground, fusion of punk, folk and baroque music , yet?

 

[Dwolf]

Its you. You are the problem.

 

[Blackout]

Thankfully, you're not forced to date them.

True but if you want a lover it does get annoying having to sift through some immature ones.

 

[Chrishaune]

You sound like you go to a community college.

so much Ether...

 

[Donald J Trump]

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/why-are-modern-day-men-so-devoid-of-personality.423542/

 

[DaHNIC82]

I'm not the type to usually make women bashing threads, but this is something I've really noticed lately.

I don't know if the onslaught of social media and IG thots has made all women aspire to be the same kind of person, but lately, young chicks are deadass all the same.

No actual goals or aspirations. No hobbies, no interests. Free time isn't filled with doing a favorite activity of substance like drawing or something but is instead spent on Snapchat bullshytting. Very few life skills. The only things that matter to them is how their face looks, how their body looks, and how the men in their life look. The only things they know how to talk about is chatty patty bs, and other peoples' looks ("so and so is sooooooo fine", "so and so is ugly af.") Just extremely vain people. Can't hold intelligent conversation, entire pop culture knowledge/sense of humor is a regurgitation of social media memes, on their phone at all times.

Like wtf is good brehs? nikkas feeling like they have deja vu everytime they meet a new chick.

They conditioned that way because cake nikkas don't challenge them and go with the flow these days. It's already bad enough that society gives them a soft cushion to be dingy, It's worse when BETA males often take up for these broads in the wrong for brownie points

 

[VFib]

True but if you want a lover it does get annoying having to sift through some immature ones.

Change your surroundings and the type of people you associate with. I don't have a problem avoiding the type of men I'm not interested in. They aren't even on my radar.

You can't approach a woman while she is taking selfies in the club, then complain that all she did on your date was take selfies.

 

[Blackout]

Change your surroundings and the type of people you associate with. I don't have a problem avoiding the type of men I'm not interested in. They aren't even on my radar.

You can't approach a woman while she is taking selfies in the club, then complain that all she did on your date was take selfies.

Thats a given but immaturity is on the rise though among both men and women.

Eventually we are gonna have to go against it instead of running away.

 

[Incogno]

It's because bland Instagram thots have become a thing now. They get the most attention from men. No use in having a decent personality if most men only care about ass and t*ts.

right...a lot of these men don't want a woman with a personality ...because then that would mean they have to deal with the truth...which is that women are individuals..that men are suppose to form connections/bonds with...actual developing relationships...that requires communication and such...and that's too much for them to bear....unfortunately....

..... a lot of men don't want to face that....they want to hear things that will support their delusions...so they can continue living in a fantasy world where they can play out roles...and they can put on a facade....and claim things that they will never do or be....

but of course to some men believing in marriage or true love or a woman and a man seeing each other as equals is living in a fantasy world...but of course there's absolutely nothing weird about a man with an obvious inferiority complex wanting to vicariously live through a woman...


this world is a funny place....

 

[VFib]

Thats a given but immaturity is on the rise though among both men and women.

Eventually we are gonna have to go against it instead of running away.

I don't find this to be the case IME, but I also have little patience for bullshyt. I don't have a problem walking away from man or woman who is on some BS. I had no problem staying single until I found what I was looking for.


Some people make dating way more complicated than it needs to be. That's why they are frustrated. Stop trying to turn the insta model into someone you can 'wife' and go find someone you can actually 'wife.'

If a woman made this thread you would be telling her that she is at fault for her choices in men.

 

[Blackout]

I don't find this to be the case IME, but I also have little patience for bullshyt. I don't have a problem walking away from man or woman who is on some BS. I had no problem staying single until I found what I was looking for.


Some people make dating way more complicated than it needs to be. That's why they are frustrated. Stop trying to turn the insta model into someone you can 'wife' and go find someone you can actually 'wife.'

If a woman made this thread you would be telling her that she is at fault for her choices in men.

I dont try to turn instamodels into somebody I can wife though unless they are open to change.

I rather try to get women not to go down that path before they consider making the choice especially my female relatives/ black women I know because thats what mature adults do.

If a mature woman made this thread talking about immature men then I would agree with her as well and have a mature convo with her.

Read my post again and note how I mentioned the rise of immaturity among men and women.

Im not into this men vs women thing. Im more into mature people vs immature people.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

I'm not the type to usually make women bashing threads, but this is something I've really noticed lately.

I don't know if the onslaught of social media and IG thots has made all women aspire to be the same kind of person, but lately, young chicks are deadass all the same.

No actual goals or aspirations. No hobbies, no interests. Free time isn't filled with doing a favorite activity of substance like drawing or something but is instead spent on Snapchat bullshytting. Very few life skills. The only things that matter to them is how their face looks, how their body looks, and how the men in their life look. The only things they know how to talk about is chatty patty bs, and other peoples' looks ("so and so is sooooooo fine", "so and so is ugly af.") Just extremely vain people. Can't hold intelligent conversation, entire pop culture knowledge/sense of humor is a regurgitation of social media memes, on their phone at all times.

Like wtf is good brehs? nikkas feeling like they have deja vu everytime they meet a new chick.

Maybe you oughta stop going after the same stupid kind of girl ("woman").
Just because they're dumbasses doesn't mean you have to be.
Be better.
Be different.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Never go for an American girl. Especially the CACS

I actively seek out foreigners

I'm starting to agree with this wave. I thought ya'll were crazy or haters, but I see now since I've been around African immigrants. Latin and European immigrants have always loved me. I don't like accents and I'm slightly xenophobic. That doesn't help.

My mom told me she raised me to be a man and women don't know what that is until about 30. Hahaha, my mom said my options at 30 will increase because women realize dating is a marathon and not a wind sprint. She was right. I'm ugly but I take good care of myself and I've always been a go getter.

I try not to be happy about the girls who dissed me when I was younger having babies or being stuck with these middle management ass nikkas. Everybody knows I'm going to the top floor. I don't have a college degree but I attract grad school students and women with advanced degrees. I have all the skills of a home maker and I love kids. That's why I was a nanny. I also love working and have had success in my fields. I like girls who are smarter than me. Lol so I like most girls.

I can bring home the bacon, cook it, and clean the kichen. A lot of people don't know cooks are germaphobic. I clean everything in a three stage process. I remove all visible crap with a soapy solution, rinse, then sanitize.

My ideal marriage would work like this: I work and support us for a few years while she either works a little from home, pursues her dream, or takes care of the kids. Then we switch. I'd love to marry a woman who's financially responsible and good with managment. My goal is to have a family business and raise the kids in the industry so I can give them something more valuable than a college degree. And that's the ability to generate money on their own.

The pride and confidence I gained from having my own business makes it very hard for me to fail at anything because I don't accept failure. I didn't even apply for the job I have. I wrote a letter of intent explaining how that job is a part of my three year plan and once I finish my program I'd be more valuable to them. My job is hard to get without a college degree. Lol I didn't turn in a resume and I don't have a degree.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

she gonna look like this

Disgustingly beautiful

 

[TheArchitect]

Never go for an American girl. Especially the CACS

I actively seek out foreigners

sad but true...