Why are women complaining about sub par sex if it's free?

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Lmao of course the coli has anomalies for everything.
It's reality but ya'll listen to menfolk who SWEAR up and down that they fukking everything raw on the first night and that these chicks just magically fall into they laps...ad naseum.

Not everybody fukking as much as some of ya'll think. There is a lot of fake pumpin out here these days.
 

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Because for men sex is a guaranteed nut

For women a nut isn't always guaranteed, kinda unlikely, and sometimes if it's a long session their p*ssy gonna hurt, it's a much higher chance of it being a complete waste of time

Speaking from personal experience, this isn't true at all :francis:

On a broader note, having an orgasm doesn't mean the sex was good, or even decent
 

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It's reality but ya'll listen to menfolk who SWEAR up and down that they fukking everything raw on the first night and that these chicks just magically fall into they laps...ad naseum.

Not everybody fukking as much as some of ya'll think. There is a lot of fake pumpin out here these days.

Your problem is that you're using your mindset to extrapolate the mindset of the majority of females and it doesn't work because:

1. You're clearly not the typical female

2. You're older and don't interact the with the younger generation, you don't know what's going on there

I'm in college and I've seen some shyt. Buncha nikkas literally had a scorecard of their bodycounts up, and WOMEN were participating. Had women up on that card with like 5 bodies in FRESHMAN year. Some small unsuspecting asian chick had like 15+ bodies. It's happening outchea here whether you want to admit it or not. Females who think like you (wanting an emotional connection and shyt) are an extremely tiny minority.
 

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:francis:
With modern views on casual sex do you advise younger women about your experiences as a precautionary tale of sorts ? @Prima Donna @Fun Sized Psycho
I actually don't know where these views come from. Except a lot of chicks trying to be men b/c they mad that playing their role didn't get them what they wanted.

Casual sex isn't evil or bad. It's just not as fulfilling for most women b/c good sex is mental and physical for us. The mental is what takes time and caring to give.
As for me I don't have any regrets. When it lost the magic I stopped. Pretty simple stuff but then again I'm not really dramatic about this stuff.

As for advice I'd tell women to be themselves no matter what. I love my life and I live it by staying true to me. There is a lot of pressure these days for women to act like pornstar or go against their biology. That shyt doesn't fly. I'm not saying a woman can't enjoy casual sex but most not built that way and secretly we don't want to be built that way b/c it's better for us our way. If u want some dikk then strap up, pop a bc and get some.

But if u honestly know that doesn't get u off, stop trying to be a cool kid or act like u detached. Be true to ur heart b/c ur p*ssy ain't gon lie.:usure: There's a reason why u dry as fukk with random dikk but u was soaking sheets with bae.
:usure: You are a woman. Be one unapologetically. I know I am.:francis:
 

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the opportunity cost of the time spent on the lackluster/wack sex...

but good sex isn't guaranteed and if u never been with person...u wont know how it actually will be and make u feel. Its a risk u take and with risks...sometimes u don't benefit from it. Just the way it is.

I been with a cute girl before but sex was wack as fuk....she layed there like a sack of potatoes, didn't give head, and just didn't do anything.
 

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Care about women's opinions after you nut brehs :mjlol:


As long as you don't have a small dikk and you don't bust early, you're already better at sex than most other guys :ehh:
 

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Your problem is that you're using your mindset to extrapolate the mindset of the majority females and it doesn't work because:

1. You're clearly not the typical female

2. You're older and don't interact the with the younger generation, you don't know what's going on there

I'm in college and I've seen some shyt. Buncha nikkas literally had a scorecard of their bodycounts up, and WOMEN were participating. Had women up on that card with like 5 bodies in FRESHMAN year. Some small unsuspecting asian chick had like 15+ bodies. It's happening outchea here whether you want to admit it or not. Females who think like you (wanting an emotional connection and shyt) are an extremely tiny minority.
(Sigh) so this is where u gon tell a woman with an entire p*ssy, the way p*ssy work?:usure:

You are getting promiscuity mixed up with fulfillment. Quantity mixed up with quality.

Jumping on 100 dikks can still equate to sub-par sex. Also women have sex for a lot of different reasons these days that have nothing to do with actual enjoyment. But these are lessons u learn later in life.
You still in the "these bytches want all the dikk b/c some chicks I know did that" phase. The only thing that makes me atypical from other females is being honest about what I want as a woman. In this society that takes courage and a lil bit of crazy b/c we get pressured to do shyt and act in ways that we don't really want to.

Lucky for me I don't give a fukk. If I wanna fukk a stranger I could. But that shyt is boring to me as a female. I'm sorry if that's inconvenient to men who just wanna nut (and there ain't nothing wrong with that either) but I'm not going to sit here and lie about what it is.

Also don't exaggerate how much people getting down these days. Sex happens but chatty parties happen more babe. Especially in college. Lol!
 

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It's reality but ya'll listen to menfolk who SWEAR up and down that they fukking everything raw on the first night and that these chicks just magically fall into they laps...ad naseum.

Not everybody fukking as much as some of ya'll think. There is a lot of fake pumpin out here these days.

Idunno.... if you wanna fukk on the first couple of nights, there are a good amount of women who are down.... :patrice:


But take what I say with a grain of salt... last time I had sex Obama was president :mjcry:
 

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The amount options a person has, is a big determinant of whether they value wack sex or not.

If I can sleep with any woman I want, then yes wack sex is a waste of my time.

If I struggle to pull women, even if the sex is wack, the affection, the touching, the feeling, still has value to me, because my comparison point is no affection at all.

Women typically have more sexual options then men, so they value the act of sex less, and focus on the quality of sex.
 
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