Why are women complaining about sub par sex if it's free?

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You and I can talk if you want.

Ok get back to work
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but if you're going into these encounters with those high expectations but not really putting in the leg work then what percentage of women are going to really enjoy the sexual encounter?
Since when did men not want sex to make them feel good on a physical level ? :usure:
@skeetsinternal @Geoffrey_Chaucer

Do you feel women that are becoming more sex positive and don't mind adding bodies to their count will feel a certain hollowness since there isn't an in depth trust level upon further reflection? Do you have friends that are going through this currently?
I complain about music I didn't pay for
That's wack so...:manny:.


Hell im a man and if the sex was wack to me
I complain too
Even tho I smashed off gp
:manny:



The dumb thing is most dudes
Will take anything from women in regards to sex
So most women don't really even try
And only concerned about their pleasure

And the thing is

Men don't have the capacity to even come close to enjoying sex physically as much as women

The amount of sensitivity of the nerve endings in the clitoris is beyond imagination

The penis is not sensitive at all

So a woman can have extreme pleasure and orgasmic feelings that a man never will

And that is only one form of orgasm for women



A woman can have an orgasm from sitting on a washing machine
A roller coaster
A shower head

That's why as a man
Sex is more about the actual mental aspect more
We get off on the looks of her body
The fact u smashing a broad u may have thought was out your league (not me tho, cause no woman is out my league)

On smashing new p*ssy

On smashing more than one chick in the same day

Cause the basic physical aspect for a man is kinda simple



Women can feel the aspects of an orgasm for minutes

Men barely feel 15 to 30 seconds


That's why it is important to build up your chi energy
And Tantric meditation skills

It helps to take your orgasm beyond the norm of the physical:jawalrus:

Regular sex to me is boring
That's why I create
And enhance the experience

That's why I am open about my desires





Alot of women have all these desires
But are afraid to speak on them
And then get mad
Because their partner doesn't magical know what it takes to get them off


Some women are lazy sexually
And just think laying there is enough
And then when their partner is bored and gets a nut then leave
She wants to be mad and complain
She thinks him getting a nut was mind blowing to him and thinks she did enough
And mad because he didn't go all out for her


Some women have mental hang ups sexually

They can only get off ONE way
And it has to perfectly match the scenario she has in her head
And she is so focused to get that exact scenario
That she almost has sex angry
Which turns her partner off


Some females have so many restrictions sexually that they just make the whole experience horrible

I had a chick say she never wants her p*ssy ate
Like wtf


Sex is very complex

The problem is communication
We have to be honest with ourselves and our partners
About what we desire

Stop being ashamed

We also have to be willing to listen
And enquire from our partners


Some dudes have issues with female sexuality
They want to be the master in the bedroom
So when a female tells them what they like
They get mad
As if she is barking orders
And take it as an insult

Some dudes get pissed if a female wants to incorporate toys to enhance the pleasure
And take that as an insult that he can't get her off alone


Luckily I don't have an ego that hinders communication
And m
Nothing sexually makes me ashamed


I enquire about females desires
And provide it
:jawalrus:
 
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More to the original point of the thread...

Too many women seem to lack a sense of responsibility regardin' sex, similar to meetin' men. Bad sex, he sucks. Not meetin' men, ain't none, they're intimidated, etc. Most would prefer to complain instead of bein' proactive in gettin' what they need.

Men bein' cool with bad sex is a young, inexperienced thing. Different for everyone, but we all grow/fukk our way out of that eventually.
 

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More to the original point of the thread...

Too many women seem to lack a sense of responsibility regardin' sex, similar to meetin' men. Bad sex, he sucks. Not meetin' men, ain't none, they're intimidated, etc. Most would prefer to complain instead of bein' proactive in gettin' what they need.


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I think it has to do with men wanting numbers because it's perceived as a masculine trait.

Women want the intensity in sex. Men want that too, but they'll be happy if they just have any kind of sex. Part of that has to do with men's ability to orgasm from even bad sex. Women orgasm when all these factors come together.

If people were given the choice to choose to 1) have mind blowing sex twice and no more sex for ten years or 2) have bad to mediocre sex every day for ten years with people who are attractive but you hate, most women would choose #1 and most men would probably choose #2
Of course, both those factors lead to the "Yeah I fukked :smugdraper: " attitude

I'd pick #2 too, considering I don't plan my life in increments of ten..besides, I could learn to like the person and vice versa
 
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