-This is stupid, ego driven & emotional. My daughter is a grown ass woman with kids & I taught her accountability. I have a whole life of my own with a bunch of responsibilities & policing my daughter's love life isn't one of them. If she's not trying to leave she doesn't want protection.
-I grew up watching my mom, sister & other women willingly stay with & take back abusive men. I've watched women fight each other over dudes that ain't shyt. Why would I need to forgive myself for someone else doing some shyt that ends in Death?
Why would your daughter need to "take accountability" for someone punching her in the mouth
?
I can understand victim blaming these random women in order to cope. It makes yall feel better to be able write off these femcides as "Bu bu but they knew who they were dealing with, that was the thugs,not black men
"
But victim blaming yalls daughters is a tragic and im glad they dont have coli accounts to see it. Now if yall know yalls daughters are the type to bring a man to anger for kicks,congrats on self awareness. I definitely said awareness of the character of the victim is important. I have zero question about my daughters character. So the man who chooses to victimize her will have to deal with her father. Then he can deal with the police or ambulance.
Yall sound crazy as hell comparing yalls child to "women yall know" imo. Sure i may be naive and my daughter is toxic on the low. That will live on her conscience if something bad happens to me. I have my own conscience to deal with.
Having my baby call crying saying shes been victimized,just for me to say "Well,did you call the police
?"
Would not sit well with me and i couldnt look my daughter in the eye after that. But to each his own
but Sonny was set up thou
A real nikka gotta go to jail behind a hoe bytch and two lame nikkas.
