Woman calls her brothers to deal with abusive boyfriend - - both end up dying

[broller]

This happen before when a chic got her brother or cousin kiled. She called her brother(s) and cousins. I think that was in Florida too.

By the FSU football player?

Also, it's crazy that the brothers in the OP were both born on February 23 and both died on May 2nd. R.I.P.

 

[MicIsGod]

nah

women like her need to be blamed *more*. she wrote a check that she made her brothers cash for trying to do the right thing with half the info and emotional pleas on top

now that i'm older i can straight up tell which women got raised to feel 100% comfortable weaponizing their situation for objectively NOTHING but the thrill and drama of it all...

We pay taxes. Call the police and get him the fukk outta there.

 

[Problematic Pat]

But all day on social media you have Black women from all walks of life foaming out the mouth and regurgitating dumb shyt like "bLaCk mEn dOn'T pRoTeCt bLaCk wOmEn" but funky hoes always skip these type of tragedies that happen more often than they are going to admit.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

If any of my siblings or immediate family got a problem, we got a problem. That's how it's been, thats how its always going to be....I can remember back to like 1st grade jumping in fights for my bros. Fighting dudes!
Cops or no cops, right or wrong.
And I'm willing to die 4 them. Who else if not them?

#mybrotherskeeper
#uscaredgotochurch
#wwjd

 

[Still Benefited]

Nah this ain't it.

I have three daughters and I'll definitely teach them that staying with an abusive man is a choice. So you can make the choice to leave.

I will be teaching my daughters on how to handle conflict in various scenarios. My two oldest, have no brothers, just their younger sister as a sibling. My youngest, has her two older sisters from me, and three brothers on her mom's side.

Do not put those (eventual) young men or your sisters in a position to risk their lives or livelihood. Do not ask me to risk mine in the case of an abusive partner.

Part of the teaching will be, you can always talk to me, and if you have turbulence in life, including relationship turmoil, you can always come home to Dad. There are "outs" in these relationships.

If he's putting his hands on you and you really don't want that, call the police and leave him. I am already teaching my girls that no one is allowed to assault them free of repercussion, they have the right to defend themselves. When it comes to men, soon as a man shows you a sign that he's abusive, you gotta leave, because he can't just fix himself within that relationship, and you can't fix him, either.

My girls will also know this is coming from their dad, a man who has hit women. A man is not healing and growing from that behavior in that same relationship.

So either call the police and leave him, and Dad is one of the places you can come to. Or stay and yall deal with it together like other toxic couples.

But I've worked too hard to straighten myself up, and am working too hard to rear responsible, independent, intelligent young ladies, than to risk ending up a statistic for jumping into my kids relationship.

I learned a long time ago that you stay outta people's relationships....that absolutely includes your kids' relationships.

So if some stranger slapped your mama,wife or your child,you would just tell them to call the police? That sounds good but not believable.

Every man who puts hands on a woman knows that most men take issue with it. So if a man beats on a woman on a bus full of men, Hes telling those men what he thinks of them,daring them to do something about how they feel. A man who beats your daughter is saying the same to you but ten fold.


Im not letting a man beat on my daughter for no reason. Not only is he violating her,hes violating me and every other man in our family. Men understand the reaction of men finding out a female loved one got abused. So that abuser is telling me and every man in my family he aint worried,aint nobody going to protect baby girl.

The idea yall would just do nothing if your daughter "chose" to stay with an abuser is absolutely insane. My daughter doesnt get to make that choice. Plus do you know how many women end up femcided after calling the police? Man puts hands on your daughter you should be thinking war like. You have to assume these abusers wont stop until they kill your daughter. You dont just call police and go about business as usual. You HAVE to be involved in their relationship once a man puts hands on your daughter. Not sure how you could forgive yourself if it ended deadly.

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

Sounds like they showed up,beat his ass and let him leave in one piece

Funny thing is,if they had stomped him to death,the Coli would have been calling em stupid emotional mofos

 

[Lexx Diamond]

Rest in peace to those brothers. They were born on the same date and died the same day.

 

[AllHolosEve]

So if some stranger slapped your mama,wife or your child,you would just tell them to call the police? That sounds good but not believable.
Every man who puts hands on a woman knows that most men take issue with it. So if a man beats on a woman on a bus full of men, Hes telling those men what he thinks of them,daring them to do something about how they feel. A man who beats your daughter is saying the same to you but ten fold.
Im not letting a man beat on my daughter for no reason. Not only is he violating her,hes violating me and every other man in our family. Men understand the reaction of men finding out a female loved one got abused. So that abuser is telling me and every man in my family he aint worried,aint nobody going to protect baby girl.
The idea yall would just do nothing if your daughter "chose" to stay with an abuser is absolutely insane. My daughter doesnt get to make that choice. Plus do you know how many women end up femcided after calling the police? Man puts hands on your daughter you should be thinking war like. You have to assume these abusers wont stop until they kill your daughter. You dont just call police and go about business as usual. You HAVE to be involved in their relationship once a man puts hands on your daughter. Not sure how you could forgive yourself if it ended deadly.

-This is stupid, ego driven & emotional. My daughter is a grown ass woman with kids & I taught her accountability. I have a whole life of my own with a bunch of responsibilities & policing my daughter's love life isn't one of them. If she's not trying to leave she doesn't want protection.

-I grew up watching my mom, sister & other women willingly stay with & take back abusive men. I've watched women fight each other over dudes that ain't shyt. Why would I need to forgive myself for someone else doing some shyt that ends in Death?

 

[Payday23]

Man charged with murder after shooting girlfriend's brothers in Liberty City, report says

A suspect accused of fatally shooting his girlfriend’s brothers in Liberty City was arrested on Saturday, authorities said.

www.nbcmiami.com

RIP

That woman got them killed..they should've called 911. She'll visit their killer in prison i bet

 

[Payday23]

That’s crazy. She never gonna have mental peace again.

She'll be over them in a few months and visiting him in prison

 

[Payday23]

It’s his home. The home is his ground to stand on.

Now, imagine you are ran out of your home through violent means. I know it is rooted in DV why the conflict happened but let’s keep going. How would you feel about it? Do you think police are going to jet over to get you back into your dwelling? Not likely.

He’s obviously emotional and wasn’t thinking straight. I’m strictly speaking from a law standpoint so it easy to think rationally when you’re not in.

The moment he left he was free..grabbing the gun and going back was a choice. Hes getting life.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

The moment he left he was free..grabbing the gun and going back was a choice. Hes getting life.

First, we do not know all the facts. Only his now ex-gf side.

He just got jumped and ran out. He wants to go back into his home. He is locked out of his home and starts banging on his door. One brother opens against his sister’s wishes.

We don’t know what was said and what happened at that door. We don’t know what the other brother said or done.

Yall keep speaking like it’s an easy case because he left his home.

 

[AlbertPullhoez]

Didn't this same thing happen with Travis Rudolph?

His ex sent her brothers to his house and he let the chopper sing on them

 

[Black Magisterialness]

You get involved when the police DON'T. That's why street justice is there. It's a failsafe not the first option.

But also, if my sister is being a fukking bird and not moving back with our parents or getting out of the situation, I'm not gonna go and die for her stupidity.

 

[Bigblackted4]

-This is stupid, ego driven & emotional. My daughter is a grown ass woman with kids & I taught her accountability. I have a whole life of my own with a bunch of responsibilities & policing my daughter's love life isn't one of them. If she's not trying to leave she doesn't want protection.

-I grew up watching my mom, sister & other women willingly stay with & take back abusive men. I've watched women fight each other over dudes that ain't shyt. Why would I need to forgive myself for someone else doing some shyt that ends in Death?