Woman calls her brothers to deal with abusive boyfriend - - both end up dying

[Motife43]

Lost a homie last summer in a simialr way. One of his female relatives called him to handle a domestic situation and her boyfriend killed him. Bro had a wife and child too. shyt still makes me tear up occasionally.

I tell any of my female relatives or friends to call the police. Don't call me until after you have called the police and they're on their way. Emotional people are just way too dangerous.

Smh. I'd approach it the same way. Relatives have said in passing, "Motife you would help me if a dude was talkin shyt to me and tryna fight, right?"

Me:

I don't know if people remember the story from a few yrs back, but former NBA player and 1st rd pick Adreian Payne was killed in a similar manner.

https://www.espn.com/mens-college-basketball/story/_/id/33892760/former-michigan-state-basketball-star-adreian-payne-fatally-shot-trying-prevent-domestic-dispute-police-investigation-reveals

 

[Sterling Archer]

It says one brother got into an argument with the boyfriend and they jumped him. Why would she call them over to fight then turn around and call the police, knowing her bf kept a gun in the car.

They probably didn't like the nikka for beating on their sister in the past so it was easy for it to escalate that quickly.

Is this a serious question? bytches do that shyt all the time. Ive had that shyt done to me before and she knew how I moved so that makes no difference to them. Prisons and graveyards are filled with men who have played both roles. This woman called them to come and only after the bf shot the brothers did she (the neighbor technically) call the cops.

 

[murksiderock]

Pathetic


Just say you raised a daughter unworthy of your protection smh. You dont have to do all that thinking unless your daughter is a hellhound and you have to question whether she had it coming or not. And to think your daughter may have had it coming is a failure on your part. Sometimes our kids arent who we think they are,but you shouldnt KNOW your daughter aint shyt. Im upset thinking about this scenario smh.

Nah this ain't it.

I have three daughters and I'll definitely teach them that staying with an abusive man is a choice. So you can make the choice to leave.

I will be teaching my daughters on how to handle conflict in various scenarios. My two oldest, have no brothers, just their younger sister as a sibling. My youngest, has her two older sisters from me, and three brothers on her mom's side.

Do not put those (eventual) young men or your sisters in a position to risk their lives or livelihood. Do not ask me to risk mine in the case of an abusive partner.

Part of the teaching will be, you can always talk to me, and if you have turbulence in life, including relationship turmoil, you can always come home to Dad. There are "outs" in these relationships.

If he's putting his hands on you and you really don't want that, call the police and leave him. I am already teaching my girls that no one is allowed to assault them free of repercussion, they have the right to defend themselves. When it comes to men, soon as a man shows you a sign that he's abusive, you gotta leave, because he can't just fix himself within that relationship, and you can't fix him, either.

My girls will also know this is coming from their dad, a man who has hit women. A man is not healing and growing from that behavior in that same relationship.

So either call the police and leave him, and Dad is one of the places you can come to. Or stay and yall deal with it together like other toxic couples.

But I've worked too hard to straighten myself up, and am working too hard to rear responsible, independent, intelligent young ladies, than to risk ending up a statistic for jumping into my kids relationship.

I learned a long time ago that you stay outta people's relationships....that absolutely includes your kids' relationships.

 

[Yzak]

Breh, this doesn’t need to be googled. Cost is an irregular verb and the past tense is cost. Anyone that has English as their first language should know this.

And I never said that “costed” isn’t a word, but whatever google search you made - because it’s evident you did so, instead of simply accepting the correction - should have told you that “costed” is an archaic term and limited in usage and context.

Just accept that you misspoke and avoid doing so outside of the Coli so you don’t sound awkward instead of trying to wriggle out some sort of “I googled win” out of this. I didn’t even correct you with bad intentions.

I'll side with Google over a coli intellectual

 

[MeachTheMonster]

probably not supposed to laugh but the title plus that pic in the op took me out

 

[Bolzmark]

I keep hearing black women complain about not being protected but at what point do we address the fact that so many are not trying to protect themselves? If that man hits you ONCE, you need to bounce. Immediately.

I feel for Cassie for that beatdown she got from Puff but I’m still wondering how she witnessed him beat Kim Porter yet still thought “oh he would be a good boyfriend”

 

[Black Hans]

Don't know what to believe.

A situation like this happened in Detroit a few years ago and the breh got off with self defense because her stupid brothers ran up in his crib and start thumping. She, like this woman, got both of her brothers killed

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Obviously the defense is going to paint it that way, doesn't mean the judge and jury are going to buy it

A Murder 1 is an overcharge.

 

[Savvir]

At one point, the report said, Jaheim and Carter got into an argument that quickly turned physical between them and Gianni, and the woman left the apartment to ask a neighbor to call the police. When she returned to the apartment, Carter was gone, and she locked the door.

The woman then heard someone banging at the door and told her brothers not to open in the report said. Jaheim then opened the door, and Carter started firing shots.

when trying to be tough goes wrong...



you beat a nikka ass and he leaves then comes back....

street smarts would tell you he aint coming back for the next round...

he coming back with rounds...

 

[ajnapoleon]

Man charged with murder after shooting girlfriend's brothers in Liberty City, report says

A suspect accused of fatally shooting his girlfriend’s brothers in Liberty City was arrested on Saturday, authorities said.

www.nbcmiami.com

RIP

the sister will be at the club shaking ass in a week


she dont care

 

[King Poetic]

Seems like the same story u hear all the time across the country

 

[ajnapoleon]

Females lie , the brothers should of went over there & ask what happened & probably took the sister out of the house for couple days

why so many dont want to admit this


that women lie

carlee russle
brick lady
door dash girl
xavier worthy ex girlfriend
shacari richardson
shannon sharpe accuser
mike tyson rape case
2pac rape case
jay-z accuser




i can keep going on and on

 

[shopthatwrecks]

Her calling her brothers and not the cops tells me they were probably fighting each other regularly.

yep

had a cousin she fukked with a nikka who smoked shermed and everytime he gets wired up he start trippin.on her

..off it he cool as hell...in church etc.... hell he didnt even look like he did it shocked everybody


but when he on it he turn into a demon...

she called me and her pops 4 times.... whupped his ass all 4 times ....helped her move on the 5th to sugarland....to get away from the nikka....


why this nikka show up helpin her move on some hi guys shyt...brought donuts and everything

told that bytch dont call me no more...she like that shyt...

 

[Krs2]

The fukked part that some man still don't want to accept is those types who beat woman are very attractive to them.

Yeah you a coli breh who believes that woman deserve the upmost respect and yada yada but the breh who will slap her with a closed fist, that's the one she wants...

 

[Strapped]

why so many dont want to admit this


that women lie

carlee russle
brick lady
door dash girl
xavier worthy ex girlfriend
shacari richardson
shannon sharpe accuser
mike tyson rape case
2pac rape case
jay-z accuser




i can keep going on and on