Woman crushed by online dating -Asks Reddit Am I Ugly? (PHOTOS)(Update: she joined the coli pg 88)

[KenyaDoll]

Those things aren't dealbreakers for Black men. The vast majority of Black women you see gettin' wifed up don't look like what you've described.

Men have wants, but they aren't dealbreakers. That's the difference between men and women. Women's wants are dealbreakers! If a nikka doesn't meet her height requirement, for example, it ain't happening!

Black men marry women with flat asses, small t*ts and other characteristics, regularly. If she has all the other qualities he values, he isn't passing her up over some superficial shyt.

And black women marry regular guys everyday B so what are you talking about?

 

[Poitier]

Why would I date/marry a man who makes $25k if I make $70k? That makes no sense at all. And (black) men would NEVER tell a white woman to "settle".

For example, the hypergamy ratio of white women in black male/white female (BM/WF)
unions over the period was 1.252, while the expected ratio was only 0.928, indicating that white
women are much more likely to marry up than would be expected under a model which assumes
that white women in interracial and intraracial marriages have the same underlying propensity
for educational hypergamy. Similarly, the hypergamy ratio of men in white male/black female
(WM/BF) unions was 1.099, compared to an expected value of 0.776, indicating significant upward
marriage for white men in these unions.


http://pages.uoregon.edu/aarong/pape...intermared.pdf

http://sociology.uoregon.edu/faculty/gullickson.php

Aaron Gullickson is the leading researcher of interracial marriages today.

 

[Timeis$]

I can have my pick of BW now which was never disputed but where was the love before the accolades?

Once again, you are being obtuse if you don't think BW 16-22 aren't favoring athletes, rappers, swag/ d boys, etc

That or you are an upper crust negro

And couldn't we say a good amount of black men 16-22 are favoring IG models, strippers, and video/pornos?

It's a maturity factor that affects us all. Some of you nikkas are mad that chicks wanted to get with the star athlete in high school but I bet most of your friends was trying to get with the big booty hoe. That's how a lot of young peope are. Not all and most people out grow that when looking for a serious mate or partner.

 

[Yup]

I promise you'll get an answer if you indulge me.
It's simply yes or no.
Fairly simple.

I'll respond cause you were respectful. I have nothing against interracial relationships I just don't prefer or put it on pedestal.

 

[mamba]

Why would I date/marry a man who makes $25k if I make $70k? That makes no sense at all. And (black) men would NEVER tell a white woman to "settle".

I make well over $100K. Why would I date a woman who only makes $70K? I'd be settling in that case.

 

[Barnett114]

@Yup and @KenyaDoll, I fukks with y'all.

@GiGi

 

[GiGi]

Does a WM pay you?


*Kept concubine*

So all of the black men who work for white men (or white owned companies) are also CONCUBINES too, right?

 

[Poitier]

And couldn't we say a good amount of black men 16-22 are favoring IG models, strippers, and video/pornos?

Nope most dudes will cuff anything ESPECIALLY nerds and average joes....men can separate fantasy and reality...many women will chase the fantasy til they cannot anymore.

 

[Yup]

I make well over $100K. Why would I date a woman who only makes $70K? I'd be settling in that case.

Lol

 

[GiGi]

I make well over $100K. Why would I date a woman who only makes $70K? I'd be settling in that case.

Then don't settle. I would never tell anyone to settle.

 

[Blackout]

you clearly judged him by his username to say he wasn't a nerd. Your whole back and forth with him is about women liking nerds versus thugs.

I'm not projecting. I'm calling it like it is. Y'all hurt dudes only serve to perpetuate negative stereotypes about black women and black men who are more successful than you at dating. Not every black man who is successful at dating is a thug. Maybe he is just interesting. If you can't attract women, maybe you should work on your personality.

All I said was that his username doesn't sound like he is nerdy.

No more no less

As for the rest of your post none of that describes me at all so you miss me with that shyt.

Control your imagination because its obviously gone wild.

What I said may offend you but its the truth with the glorification of the ghetto and it is an issue that our community needs to address if we are gonna succed.

I am successful at dating respectful women not thug chasing idiots

 

[KenyaDoll]

Just go to prison talk and brehettes waiting 5, 10. Years for ray ray, but gerald going off to college or fighting overseas its over.

you don't even talk to or know black women...look at you, just like a racist white man perpetuating this bs. Look at all the c00ns dapping you. You are sick.

 

[Poitier]

So all of the black men who work for white men (or white owned companies) are also CONCUBINES too, right?

BM don't act like the WM job is the end all be all...BW get cozy in their new office jobs. You bragging about salary when its about building your own companies and families ultimately.

 

[Yup]

BM don't act like the WM job is the end all be all...BW get cozy in their new office jobs. You bragging about salary when its about building your own companies and families ultimately.

Is that so?

 

[KenyaDoll]

All I said was that his username doesn't sound like he is nerdy.

No more no less

As for the rest of your post none of that describes me at all so you miss me with that shyt. Control your imagination because its gone wild

Nah. It's right on point. A bunch hurt dudes who were turned down by a couple girls with they were 16 are now mad at the world. That is simply pathetic.