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I never wasted my time being in a relationship with a woman like the ones being described in this thread. I follow the golden rule in relationships, so I see no reason to have a relationship with a woman who does to treat me with the same level of respect I treat her. That also means I did not seek relationships with women who had no self-respect. People who lack self-respect are a lot of times unable to give respect either.
 

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My ex was like that. I couldn't tell you why I tolerated it, probably because I was half a p*ssy. Like I wouldn't tolerate the speech, because we'd go at. But everytime I'd had enough, I didn't pull away because I felt like she needed my support. What's fukked up is I was probably almost as screwed in the head as her, I just showed it in different ways.

That was 10 years ago. If I even smell someone giving me a hint of that level of disrespect, I'll disappear like Batman.
 

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This is why some people don’t settle down.

It’s always fresh with that person, you and her always try to look your best when y’all meet up and neither gets too comfortable.

You always try to cater to each others needs to keep the honeymoon phase as Long as possible. I know once I started caring enough to start and argument it was adios

My most memorable fukk friend I never cared enough to start shyt and never once raised my voice Our dynamic was absolutely beautiful. I know she wanted more but I liked it just the way it was. She moved back home and passed away unexpectedly on a trip abroad.RIP baby.
 
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If you are constantly attracting those situations, there is something about you, your energy, your choice of women, or the way you treat women. That is not normal behavior.

The all women are queens brigade always arrives with the highest expediency. Bro no. It doesn’t matter who you are. EVERYONE has experienced a similar situation OP has. Stop the lies. :childplease:
 

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The all women are queens brigade always arrives with the highest expediency. Bro no. It doesn’t matter who you are. EVERYONE has experienced a similar situation OP has. Stop the lies. :childplease:
Yeah, and you charge them to the game. Only a sucker allows disrespect. Walk away nikka. It's not that all women are queens it's that ultimately the man leads the relationship and if he is disrespected it reflects his leadership. Women are followers and if you're not worth following or show weakness they'll give you hell. All women do this or have the capacity to do this which is why it's on the man to not tolerate nor humor it. End of.

@Neo The Resurrected ONE has allowed this to happen. Guarantee this level of disrespect didn't start overnight. First she started it and he didn't check her and let her keep going. So she kept going and going until before you know it she's insulting his mother.
 
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Yeah, and you charge them to the game. Only a sucker allows disrespect. Walk away nikka. It's not that all women are queens it's that ultimately the man leads the relationship and if he is disrespected it reflects his leadership. Women are followers and if you're not worth following or show weakness they'll give you hell. All women do this or have the capacity to do this which is why it's on the man to not tolerate nor humor it. End of.

@Neo The Resurrected ONE has allowed this to happen. Guarantee this level of disrespect didn't start overnight. First she started it and he didn't check her and let her keep going. So she kept going and going until before you know it she's insulting his mother.

I’m speaking about having experienced it then walking away. You never have a sober chick completely change when drunk? :what:
 

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If you are constantly attracting those situations, there is something about you, your energy, your choice of women, or the way you treat women. That is not normal behavior.
It only takes one bruh :francis: , I always had resolve and restraint dealing with countless women, but it only took one who was feral and broken to hit below the belt and say shyt that'll get you ziptied and thrown over a bridge. especially when circumstances like OP was talking about.
 
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