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I never wasted my time being in a relationship with a woman like the ones being described in this thread. I follow the golden rule in relationships, so I see no reason to have a relationship with a woman who does to treat me with the same level of respect I treat her. That also means I did not seek relationships with women who had no self-respect. People who lack self-respect are a lot of times unable to give respect either.
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A woman has never said anything to me personally that has made me want to hit her. I'm not bashing any dudes here but I can't understand it. Any and every insult comes across as childish and stupid and all I can think to myself is :umad: when they say wild shyt. I've had a chick try and jump on me but I'm a lot bigger than most women so it was no different than a kid jumping on me. I was more surprised than hurt and even then pushing her off and hitting her with a
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made her realize that shyt wasn't working and fall back.

They'll hit you with "Your mama died cause she couldn't live with having a failure like you as a son!!!! :pacspit:
I've had a girl say something like this to me (It was something along the lines of my mom hates me or something, my mom is alive as well) and all I could think was "but you know how my dikk tastes. That says more about you than it does about me.
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Edit: I have no idea why I ODed on Lebron pics. I was in the mood for some Lebron (pause). :dame:
 

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If you are constantly attracting those situations, there is something about you, your energy, your choice of women, or the way you treat women. That is not normal behavior.
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Because when women say that they’ve been abused by multiple men, etc it’s because she ā€œchose wrongā€ and attracts bad guys.
Same thing applies.

You’re drawn to shytty women.
 

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Date shytty women then complain about them being shytty brehs

Facts.

Also, not setting boundaries early on in the relationship.

When I was dating my now wife, she did something light which I still considered disrespectful. I didn't blow up. The next day I calmly told her I wouldn't tolerate any disrespect (because I don't do that to her). Even now when she's mad, she knows how to address issues.

If someone respects you they express themselves in a way that preserves your dignity.
 

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Brehs... as Bill Burr and Chris Rock and I say, of course there's a reason to hit a woman. You just don't do it.

I've been in situations in relationships with women who have gone above and beyond to either say or do something to push my buttons and purposely make me lose it.

Women are good for that.

They'll hit you with "Your mama died cause she couldn't live with having a failure like you as a son!!!! :pacspit: "

And then they'll stand there like :dwillhuh: and look you dead in your eye as you struggling to keep it together.


Discuss!
Lmao

I didn’t even read this part.

TF type of ppl you be around if that’s the type of crap that comes out of someone’s mouth?! That’s insane.

There were signs she wasn’t shyt waaaaay before that came out of her mouth. That’s called emotional abuse.


That’s like when a man hauls off and hits a woman. There were signs in his behavior and speech WAY before he hits you. They don’t hit you on date 1-3; they try you and press buttons and start the physical abuse when they think they know you will be the type to deal with it.

Ol girl was shyt testing you WAY before she said something like that. A man likely overlooks it because of her looks or sex game. Or if she’s taking care of him financially šŸ¤·šŸ¾ā€ā™€ļø
 

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I'm actually glad I never dated a woman like that as an adult. My girlfriend know's she'd get dropped with the quickness, if she disturbs my peace.

I'd grab my stuff and leave, not dropped as in KO'd
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When I was on my bullshyt as a kid tho, I dated some questionable women
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Stolen from IG, but very true and it applies here.

HABITS OF COUPLES THAT LAST

1. They are affectionate even
outside the bedroom.
2. They don't gossip about each
other.
3. They hug and kiss to start the
day and hug and kiss to end it.
4. They move towards the
bedroom together each night.
5. They continually do small
things for each other.
6. They celebrate in their partner's
accomplishments.
7. They stand together and refuse
to let outsiders call the shots.
8. They set aside time to regularly
check in with each other.
9. They know how to say sorry
and mean it.
10. They don't make assumptions
about their partner's feelings, they ask.
11. They keep dating and treat
date night as a sacred ritual.
12. When they argue, their goal is
to come to a consensus, not to
"win".

13. They are intimate about
everything.
14. They say what they mean and
mean what they say to each
other.
15. They listen intently before
replying.
16. They refuse to play the blame
game.
17. They make daily sacrifices for each other.


A healthy relationship is one of
the most important things in our
lives.
Especially when both people
push each other to become the
best version of themselves.

AVOID DISRESPECTFUL WOMEN LIKE THE PLAGUE
 

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Have had past relationships where an ex overstepped. During my younger years as I dated, happened with a frequency that I used to think it was par for the course.

It was until I met the woman who'd become my wife that I realized that consistent, futile arguments aren't a constant in a healthy relationship or marriage.:wow:
All of this. Fact of the matter is many women these days grew up witnessing constant dysfunction and take away from all that that relationships are MEANT to be adversarial in nature. All that conflict and drama is basically the only way they know how to relate unfortunately.

And they even subconsciously seek out dysfunctional men to play this dynamic out with. Then when they get involved with a dude who aint about that bullshyt that actually treats them right, they dont know how to act. They will seek out and even manufacture dysfunctional bullshyt because that is all they know at this point.

Its pathological at this point. And arguing with them is only feeding the beast. The only way to win is literally not to play the game. Gotta shut that shyt down completely and absolutely. Even if that means walking away from them completely. Feeding into it in any way shape or form only validates that shyt in their mind.

example: that chick who said a while back if ya man dont beat u then he dont love u. It sounds crazy and it should, but Women who only know dysfunction lowkey actually believe that shyt on some level. Its like negative attention is still attention.
 

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A woman has never said anything to me personally that has made me want to hit her. I'm not bashing any dudes here but I can't understand it. Any and every insult comes across as childish and stupid and all I can think to myself is :umad: when they say wild shyt. I've had a chick try and jump on me but I'm a lot bigger than most women so it was no different than a kid jumping on me. I was more surprised than hurt and even then pushing her off and hitting her with a
full
+
full
+
full
+
full
made her realize that shyt wasn't working and fall back.


I've had a girl say something like this to me (It was something along the lines of my mom hates me or something, my mom is alive as well) and all I could think was "but you know how my dikk tastes. That says more about you than it does about me.
full
". Some of these women are silly. It's best to regard someone acting up as no different than an internet troll acting out in person instead of online.

Edit: I have no idea why I ODed on Lebron pics. I was in the mood for some Lebron (pause). :dame:
I tried to explain this to a younger girl. Once a man has had sexual contact with you, no matter what happens afterward, he’s already won.


This is why you don’t open your legs :ufdup:
 
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