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[Ghostface Trillah]

Black men are the most hated group of people on the face of this earth.

Everybody wanna be a nikka but nobody wanna be a nikka.

 

[saint25225]

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[Raye82]

Explain why black men get the least responses. That's the real question.

Right....Basically, the study says that while they are rejecting black women, they are chasing women of other races that don't want them . However, I don't think this study holds much water.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Most black women have no clue what they want.

I've found that not to be the case. What often happens is that they find something 'close enough' to what they want and will work with it.

Men just need to realize we ain't perfect so expecting the women we date to be what we aren't is plain stupid and leads to disappointment.

If you find exactly what you want on the first try, you are lucky. The rest of us have to work at it. Most of us don't want to work at anything.​

 

[Lana Kane]

A played-out meme that dudes think is actually true because they had no male role-model in their lives when they were growing up and look to the media as 'Daddy'.
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I'm still confused

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

fukk them hos, theyre the ones with sites like howtodateawhiteguy and beyond black and white, you don't see howtodatebecky, theyre the ones throwing shade and wanting to live out some bullshyt ass fantasy of being a slave who gets fukked by the slave master

I saw that at the restaurant yesterday. Black chick was proud of her white "daddy," rubbing his hair and what not. She was mid 20s and he was early 50s. Kudos to them but she was trying to put on.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Black men are the most hated group of people on the face of this earth.

No we're not, the American anglo is. Hip-hop tells you that how much brothers are loved. You have an argument of American black men coming in 2nd or 3rd.

 

[saint25225]

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[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

I really hope you don't believe this. Women will always pick flash over substance.

I wouldn't believe anything if I didn't experience it myself. Women picked me and I ain't 'flashy' at all.​

Why you think dudes with nothing to their name except their gift of gab are swimming in women while "decent" men end up having to swim through their scorned leftovers and jump a bunch of hurdles she didn't put up for the smooth talker?

Because some women are just as shallow as the dudes and don't want 'substance'. Deal with enough women, and they're pretty easy to spot.​

Just tell her no and walk away? Yeah cause a women won't follow you and try to bait you into the argument. Black women have this obsession with being tough to men and especially to their man and it's disgusting. The last person I want conflict from is my woman, it's counter productive.

That's why you just walk or you leave the relationship. If you stay, then it's YOUR fault that you have drama in your life. Accept responsibility for the choices YOU make. You can't be responsible for anyone else's behavior, only your reaction to it.
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[Chris.B]

No we're not, the American anglo is. Hip-hop tells you that how much brothers are loved. You have an argument of American black men coming in 2nd or 3rd.

 

[Remote]

just another day on the coli, lol

 

[Soundbwoy]

I saw that at the restaurant yesterday. Black chick was proud of her white "daddy," rubbing his hair and what not. She was mid 20s and he was early 50s. Kudos to them but she was trying to put on.

i could care less about them dating non blacks but trying to put down your race because you choose to date bums is discusting

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

I'm still confused

Do you know who Tupac Shakur was?​

 

[Raye82]

Some of you are saying that a lot of black men have been treated badly by black women, but this is a two way street. Black women get shytted on by black men everyday, but that does not stop them from dating black men. Also, this same dynamic happens in other races. White men and white women shytting on each other, but that does not stop them from dating each other. Some of y'all need to man up and stop being pussies. There are going to be women that treat you bad, but learn from that experience and make better choices. It is the choices you make that create your bad experiences, not the race.

 

[Thoughts]

These holier than thou brehs in here talking about date non-American black women are the problem too ...you dudes are creating monsters here in America, at least brothers who date white and Latina women gave sisters a shot. You dudes complete turned your back on your whole nation...your people.

What's lacking is a black elite class who leads by example, in large numbers. It's not that black men aren't attractive to other races it's the STIGMA, the STIGMA dude perpetuate day in and day out. Dudes gotta realize everything you do is on display. While dating a foreign honey is okay because I've dated a few dime Nigerians and Trinis ...it's not fixing the problem in OUR COMMUNITY which is a pervasive crisis.