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[CodeBlaMeVi]

Jake will never tolerate Shenequa and her attitude and she knows.

Most black women learn how to behave when they marry white boys.

That's a fallacy that I've mentioned. Black men need to stop putting up with it as well but BM we're conditioned by their mothers to do so. It isn't entirely BM when they inherited simp attributes from their mothers' rearing.

 

[Momentum]

They weren't loyal to me in my formative years, fukk loyalty. I date who I want with no regards to race. When I wanted to date black women exclusively I was too lame for the most attractive ones.

If you see me with something light bright and damn near white, don't ask no questions.

#hardonhoes

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

I love black women I just hate the demeanor they have adopted. And I still exclusively date black women as I'm am exclusively attracted to black women. I think black men and women need to dust themselves off, get themselves together and begin to reconcile with each other.

they are but people focus on the negative. A lot of brothers are rejecting ignorance and so are the women... now if only they would recognize each others efforts and not go interracial first thing.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

All that stuff does not matter if the said person is conditioned to believe "nikkas aint shyt" by default.

Sure it matters. You have to understand what the 'conditioning' is in order to deal with it effectively. The only way to understand it is by communication.

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[Nintendough]

I love my mother breh... matter of fact I think a lot of the shyt that people are saying their own mothers would say the same thing. If you think that a lot of these women are raised with the same values as the women before them you're sadly mistaken, and the goes for the men too. Negative behavior should not be reinforced, that's just silly. None of this applies to all black women tho. Take me for example, my experiences with black women have been nothing like some of these examples but I'd be a goddamned liar if I said that I don't see what they see in some (some breh not all) black women. Black women have always treated me well, but then again I only pursue decent women and I'm a very good judge of character. That's not to say I've never had issues with women, most issues I've had have not been with black women but hispanics. These men have real gripes with real issues that exist the same way some women have issues with men. shyt is real and this doesn't mean they're part of a he-man women haters club. You can't uplift without identifying the problems and you can't fix the problems by rewarding shyt behavior. That goes for men and women cuz black men got problems too.

I hear you...


My issue is the hypocrisy on the side of the men. There is nothing wrong with snatching an unruly woman up and teaching her. That is our job as men, to lead and correct women. A lot of these men are weak and aren't deserving of that level of respect though, that is an issue. The problem is most of this criticism has no love or good intent behind it. It is mostly hurt, scorn and insecure men who want to relentlessly beat down the women because they got their heart broken. Too many stones are being thrown from glass houses and no solutions are being offered. Just hate filled venom from weave obsessed men who secretly wish they were women.

 

[Will Ross]

Many of them have never HAD a man that will do that for them.

Break the cycle.
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You act as if women don't choose the men they are with. Women need to make better choices in the men they date plain and simple.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

You act as if women don't choose the men they are with. Women need to make better choices in the men they date

They dated you, didn't they?


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[CodeBlaMeVi]

You act as if women don't choose the men they are with. Women need to make better choices in the men they date plain and simple.

True but we need to help the cause by giving better choices. Better yet, raise better choices but I see the parents of these young ones and a lot of kids in the hood do not stand a chance.

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

I hear you...


My issue is the hypocrisy on the side of the men. There is nothing wrong with snatching an unruly woman up and teaching her. That is out job as men, to lead and correct women. A lot of these men are weak and aren't deserving of that level of respect though, that is an issue. The problem is most of this criticism has no love or good intent behind it. It is mostly hurt, scorn and insecure men who want to relentlessly beat down the women because they got their heart broken. Too many stones are being thrown from glass houses and no solutions are being offered. Just hate filled venom from weave obsessed men who secretly wish they were women.

LOL you just take it to the extreme. People act like that because some people cannot think of solutions even men need an example to follow. Did you forget a lot of black men didn't have a male role model in the house either? It's not just the women. We gotta teach each other how to deal with these issues. I'm lucky, my parents marriage wasn't perfect .. but my father (always overseas working tho) was in my life til i was 19, it wasn't perfect but it definitely helped me. I would see how he would command respect without uttering a single word, a mother can't teach you that. Some people are gonna be bitter, that's just how they react... but I'm sure if someone could provide them with advice and guidance they would take it rather than reject it. I'm part of the anti-weave movement, I don't mind weave as long as a woman isn't shytting on her own hair in the process. I got my last woman to embrace her natural hair, things didn't work out between us but she learned a lot from me. Not everyone is the same and we need to help each other. You're just as guilty as them because you're shytting on your fellow man the same way some of these people are shytting on black women. I know you see the tone of this thread, a lot of these dudes really wish these problems didn't exist... they want black women.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

These holier than thou brehs in here talking about date non-American black women are the problem too ...you dudes are creating monsters here in America, at least brothers who date white and Latina women gave sisters a shot. You dudes complete turned your back on your whole nation...your people.

What's lacking is a black elite class who leads by example, in large numbers. It's not that black men aren't attractive to other races it's the STIGMA, the STIGMA dude perpetuate day in and day out. Dudes gotta realize everything you do is on display. While dating a foreign honey is okay because I've dated a few dime Nigerians and Trinis ...it's not fixing the problem in OUR COMMUNITY which is a pervasive crisis.

..black is black b...next u gonna say u gotta date a black woman from your city

 

[DaRealness]

Many black men are already fukking loyal.

BTW, no one "gotta" do shyt.

 

[Nintendough]

LOL you just take it to the extreme. People act like that because some people cannot think of solutions even men need an example to follow. Did you forget a lot of black men didn't have a male role model in the house either? It's not just the women. We gotta teach each other how to deal with these issues. I'm lucky, my parents marriage wasn't perfect .. but my father (always overseas working tho) was in my life til i was 19, it wasn't perfect but it definitely helped me. I would see how he would command respect without uttering a single word, a mother can't teach you that. Some people are gonna be bitter, that's just how they react... but I'm sure if someone could provide them with advice and guidance they would take it rather than reject it. I'm part of the anti-weave movement, I don't mind weave as long as a woman isn't shytting on her own hair in the process. I got my last woman to embrace her natural hair, things didn't work out between us but she learned a lot from me. Not everyone is the same and we need to help each other. You're just as guilty as them because you're shytting on your fellow man the same way some of these people are shytting on black women. I know you see the tone of this thread, a lot of these dudes really wish these problems didn't exist... they want black women.

A man should simply be able to be a man. My role models were alcoholics, addicts and criminals with a few good men sprinkled in. I learned to achieve manhood by having the desire to not make the mistakes I witnessed. Males have grown soft and try to rely on crutches too much. We know what we need to do.



We as men must hold ourselves to a higher standard, we are leaders.

 

[Spoonz]

We should also ask why white men aren't loyal to white women and so many want asian chicks. In fact white men overhype asians the most. Pretty obvious this gender war shyt applies to all races not just black.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

We should also ask why white men aren't loyal to white women and so many want asian chicks. In fact white men overhype asians the most. Pretty obvious this gender war shyt applies to all races not just black.

They feel their penises are bigger than the Asian counterparts and can be seen as big fish in a small pond. Maybe.

 

[Will Ross]

True but we need to help the cause by giving better choices. Better yet, raise better choices but I see the parents of these young ones and a lot of kids in the hood do not stand a chance.

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