If you watched the video he's actually just telling dudes specifically to man up and take responsibility for their own lives, don't blame your parents, don't blame the schools, don't blame the cacs. "Become your own master". I guarantee all the disparaging comments either went off the title or are such fakkits that the concept of taking responsibility for your own life is offensive.
Edit: OP you fukked up with the title, these fakkits aren't going to watch the video and are lashing out at simple, practicle advice