.

iBrowse

NAH
Supporter
Joined
Apr 18, 2013
Messages
46,780
Reputation
15,690
Daps
118,357
@Ello_Vee I figured that it'd be matter of conversation/picking her brain to figure out where her preferences/priorities are

@Meet The Sniper I actually don't think I missed it...I get the idea of how to romantically entice a woman with the flirting and innuendo but I can't separate the application of that level of detail from the other facets I mentioned. If that were the only requirement to keep a woman happy then I wouldn't be here. While I agree with your point on differentiating rifts created from social constructs versus rifts created from standards/values each gender refuses depart from...I think these are matters that (hopefully) are hashed out during the infancy of a relationship/potential relationship.

@CinnaSlim I was addressing the reference to the OP's post mentioning a woman's animation to detail through luxury despite (what has been said in response to me above) the idea that detail to all of the little things she mentions going a longer way while courting (not just the physical @Meet The Sniper ).

It seems as though the general consensus is to simply listen to and pick the next girl's brain...and look at her actions to make a quick and accurate decision.
 

Thatrogueassdiaz

We're on the blood path now
Joined
May 2, 2012
Messages
29,203
Reputation
4,378
Daps
51,811
Reppin
Center self, inner self
Elaborate breh :lupe:
I didn't read the entire thing, but from what I've read dude is assuming a lot with thinking that there are certain innate energies that each sex expresses that determine their decisions in regards to relations with the opposite sex. I disagree. The human brain responds to the human mind, and there are many, many reasons why people choose to do what they do. Most of what that message really is about is socializing, and nothing more. Gender roles are learned after birth. A lot of women learn to operate by how they see people around them operate. It's not some innate energy that's pushing them to do this. Lowkey that message in OP is mad sexist as well.
 

iBrowse

NAH
Supporter
Joined
Apr 18, 2013
Messages
46,780
Reputation
15,690
Daps
118,357
I didn't read the entire thing, but from what I've read dude is assuming a lot with thinking that there are certain innate energies that each sex expresses that determine their decisions in regards to relations with the opposite sex. I disagree. The human brain responds to the human mind, and there are many, many reasons why people choose to do what they do. Most of what that message really is about is socializing, and nothing more. Gender roles are learned after birth. A lot of women learn to operate by how they see people around them operate. It's not some innate energy that's pushing them to do this. Lowkey that message in OP is mad sexist as well.
So it seems that you're saying that the foundation to OPs post/"human embodiment" is a social construct and consequently is flawed not innate.
 

skokiaan

African original
Joined
Jul 12, 2014
Messages
12,048
Reputation
3,052
Daps
33,054
Reppin
One Africa
ous8qc.jpg

exactly what i did:snoop::russ::russ::russ::russ:














































are u following me?:demonic:
 

TLR Is Mental Poison

The Coli Is Not For You
Supporter
Joined
May 3, 2012
Messages
46,178
Reputation
7,484
Daps
105,798
Reppin
The Opposite Of Elliott Wilson's Mohawk
To add...I see nothing wrong with embracing each of these roles as equal/two sides of a coin...it's just a matter of applying this logic/perspective to this generation...like I now have to search for a unicorn that passes the minimum threshold of holding this view as well. Most 20-something's aren't paying credence to this idea (men and women) so outside of an ideal that's just a hypothetical...what incentive is there to embrace this view?
U kind of missed the point.... this is not a philosophy people subscribe to... its the way people are wired

Most women are wired like this, be they ratchet or righteous. Finding a quality woman will require looking at other parameters
 

iBrowse

NAH
Supporter
Joined
Apr 18, 2013
Messages
46,780
Reputation
15,690
Daps
118,357
U kind of missed the point.... this is not a philosophy people subscribe to... its the way people are wired

Most women are wired like this, be they ratchet or righteous. Finding a quality woman will require looking at other parameters

In hindsight I don't think I did. I think the premise to everyone's answer is contradictory. So now I'm trying to reconcile that. You're saying that people are wired like that, but then a couple posts above @Thatrogueassdiaz is saying that we are taught these things...qualifying them as social constructs as opposed to innate characteristics.

What other parameters though :lupe:
 

TLR Is Mental Poison

The Coli Is Not For You
Supporter
Joined
May 3, 2012
Messages
46,178
Reputation
7,484
Daps
105,798
Reppin
The Opposite Of Elliott Wilson's Mohawk
In hindsight I don't think I did. I think the premise to everyone's answer is contradictory. So now I'm trying to reconcile that. You're saying that people are wired like that, but then a couple posts above @Thatrogueassdiaz is saying that we are taught these things...qualifying them as social constructs as opposed to innate characteristics.

What other parameters though :lupe:
I think people are wired different ways WRT gender. Even with the feminist "reclaiming of sexuality" u dont see chicks out leering and being sexually aggressive like men despite having that shame shield. U are being a bit of a pedant tho just to be contrary, its corny.

And if u dont know what to look for in a woman at this point :lupe:
 

iBrowse

NAH
Supporter
Joined
Apr 18, 2013
Messages
46,780
Reputation
15,690
Daps
118,357
I think people are wired different ways WRT gender. Even with the feminist "reclaiming of sexuality" u dont see chicks out leering and being sexually aggressive like men despite having that shame shield. U are being a bit of a pedant tho just to be contrary, its corny.

And if u dont know what to look for in a woman at this point :lupe:
Don't know what WRT stands for...

Lol so it's a minor detail to take into account the foundation/assumptions of your position, the position of the OP and @Thatrogueassdiaz ...and I'm corny because of it. Again, one post says women and men are wired a certain way...another says that we actually learn these things...now you're saying I'm a pedant for taking this contradiction into account.

Maybe your litmus test for how women are naturally wired is that they're not leering or sexually aggressive :manny: that's cool.
 

CinnaSlim

Queen of Swords
Joined
Jan 28, 2014
Messages
17,078
Reputation
14,250
Daps
60,745
Reppin
East of Anywhere
Understand that the fundamental differences between men and women are their reproductive system and their endocrine system. A mans body is designed or developed to function through masculine behaviors and women's body is designed to perform feminine behaviors.

Every person is capable of doing both. The post in OP isn't saying that women are all feminine energy or that men are all masculine energy. We all have varying levels. It might be easier to think of it in terms of hormones instead if energies.

Yes, there are masculine females and feminine males. However, when that occurs those people tend to adjust and alter their bodies through behavior, clothing, hormone therapy, surgeries, etc to align themselves with their energy. Don't think of masculine and feminine as black and white, when there are shades of gray. That is a very westernized way of thinking, just like we see male and female as black and white, there are intersex people.

You should look up the concept of ying-yang. Even looking at the symbol you will notice that there aren't just two distinct seperate parts. Inside the black, there is white and inside the white there is black. Even things that are seemingly opposite are interconnected that is the beauty of nature and relativity.
 
Top