I absolutely think social media and dating apps are a huge problem (perhaps the main problem). Average-ish women have figured out that they can get fukked by attractive men. So they aren't going to settle for dealing with average-ish guys until they realize that these attractive men view them as convenience p*ssy and nothing more.
But there has traditionally been a population of men who don't have any "game" (or whatever men who get laid despite have no money or career have) but end up getting consideration from females because they seem like decent guys with a decent job/future/career. In other words, females would see some potential in them for a worthwhile relationship and would in some cases overlook their lack of "game". Those guys are out of luck now.
This is absolutely true. I tried to rep you but I don’t see the button.
I’ve experienced this myself. Dating app matches are over the place. In the same month on tinder, I got flaked on by 6 that no showed a date and ghosted, and had great date with an 8. It’s made things way more unpredictable.
Men will pretty much fukk just about any woman out there. This has definitely led to unattractive women thinking they’re higher up the ladder than they are.
It’s not a helpless situation for men, but I think mostly it’s real important that the next generation doesn’t just rely on these apps. I’ve had some good short and long term relationships from apps, but my best 2 relationships were with people I met in real life.
Men that learn how to talk to women face to face, and learn how to handle social situations will always have an important life skill that men who just rely on apps are missing out on.
And also, I don’t like how human beings (men and women both) are being turned into commodities like cars or other goods that are traded in, swapped, and discarded. Everything in moderation.
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